Help!!!!

[Guest]

OK, here is the problem. I have been with my girlfriend for quite some time, but I have never been about to make her cum during sex. I can go down on her and no problem, within minutes she is flopping around. I know it is not my lack of package, as I am well hung in both girth, as well as length (or so Ihave been told by many). I have never had this problem with anyone before. usually the girl comes without any effort. I know my girlfriends clit is small, could that be the problem? I want her to enjoy the sex as much as I do. Is there anything I can do to make her clit longer, or larger? Can I do anything different during sex to increase her pleasure? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

 

[lilfrk]

One word for ya man...Fingers...use them. If you can't reach from the position that you're in tell her to touch her clit for you. Fingers are such a beautiful thing.

 

[alltherage]

Seems we are in the dark a bit here. Have you tried different positions? Do you always go down on her first? Does she always come when you go down on her? Perhaps she is a one time type of girl. Have you asked her what she likes and are you willing to do it. Be flexible and open and don't get defensive about your equipment. Just, consentrate on learning to use it in ways she likes.

 

[missbehavin_badly]

Have to agree with lilfrk...........fingers use them or have her use them to stimulate her clit. But also try different positions.....you may find that a different position affords you a better shot at hitting that sweet spot that will drive her crazy.

 

[digger51]

Have to agree with the fingers and different positions.I have run across women who simply have an inability or hard time orgasming during intercourse.

So just remember that mutual orgasm doesn't necessarily mean simultaneous orgasms.

 

[Guest]

OK, we do every position known to man, still no love. I tried the fingers... NOTHING!!!! I usually eat her out after we have sex. If I am drunk, iI will last a LONG time, and I often do not cum, but she will every time once I go down on her. The fingers don't seem to work. Once I am in her, she seems to go numb at the clit. I have spent a long time working it, and nothing.

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[shescurious]

Have you tried to finger her ass while you fuck her? It really isn't about how long you can do it. It is how you do it. Possibly you could stimulate her clit with a vibrator or something like that. Oh and have you asked her what she wants? Just some suggestions Good Luck.

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