Help writing male point of view

[BigBootyMomLucia]

Hello everyone!

I am sorry if this is not the place to ask, but I finally have some time to continue writing a short taboo story.

Is some one happy to write part of this story with me from a male point of view, or maybe give me some things to think about?

I am sure men like more things than only write about how big my boobs are, laughs, so please help me with some ideas.

Thank you,
Lucia

 

[Rob_Royale]

I think people think to much about male/female POV. Yes, men and women are different, but sexually, maybe not that different. Okay, yeah maybe in boob fixation we are.

It's more about the type of lover a person is, than their gender, in my opinion. A man or woman can be sexually aggressive or more loving. Figure out how you want the scene to go, the atmosphere, the tension, the attraction, and then just write the characters appropriately. Write the man, how you would want the man to act.

 

[Voboy]

I think people think to much about male/female POV. Yes, men and women are different, but sexually, maybe not that different. Okay, yeah maybe in boob fixation we are.

This.

There are a LOT of threads on here with this theme, OP, and a lot of us think it really doesn't matter. There's no such thing as a monolithic "male perspective."

Write a man's POV the way you'd like to read a man's POV. It'll read just fine, I promise!

 

[ShelbyDawn57]

I think people think to much about male/female POV. Yes, men and women are different, but sexually, maybe not that different. Okay, yeah maybe in boob fixation we are.

It's more about the type of lover a person is, than their gender, in my opinion. A man or woman can be sexually aggressive or more loving. Figure out how you want the scene to go, the atmosphere, the tension, the attraction, and then just write the characters appropriately. Write the man, how you would want the man to act.

Totally agree. Decide who your characters are and write your story from their perspective. Male/female doesn't mater when you do that.

 

[intim8]

Men and, yes, women, are both human, believe it or not. Start there. Write humans. Then put yourself/your character in a male body.

You now have a penis, you get aroused quickly and get more easily aroused from visual stimulus. You have evolved to have sex often and with a variety of people because your investment in making babies is minimal (but the the potential responsibility for them once made weighs on you). You feel safer about sex because you know your body will not be invaded (unless you're gay) and your partner is probably smaller and weaker. You're expected to and/or prefer to be the one that takes the initiative in an encounter while your potential partners are gatekeepers that make you earn it.

Make your characters human, but with their humanity put through the filter of those traits and the mental states they imply instead of the ones you're used to. And remember that none of those differences are etched in stone.

 

[AllenWoody]

Second/third/fourth the perspective that there is no single, male perspective, any more than there is a female one. I, for one, am not a boob guy. It isn't clear exactly what your challenge is, but if you're trying to write a female character to your inner vision, I can guarantee there is a man/men who want her.

 

[NoTalentHack]

Is some one happy to write part of this story with me from a male point of view, or maybe give me some things to think about?

The prophecy has been fulfilled.

 

[pink_silk_glove]

If your story is more character driven, I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you are writing a stroker and if you're asking what will score best with the bulk of the male porn crowd here (the largest demographic), just give them an aggressive woman so that the male can get laid with little to no effort on his part.

 

[Levorotatory]

If you are writing a stroker and if you're asking what will score best with the bulk of the male porn crowd here (the largest demographic), just give them an aggressive woman so that the male can get laid with little to no effort on his part.

Or switch the genders if you want to appeal to straight women. Make them the same gender and write from the POV of the character requiring "little to no effort" if you want a gay / lesbian story. Being irresistible to your preferred sexual partner is a near universal fantasy.

 

[NotWise]

Hello everyone!

I am sorry if this is not the place to ask, but I finally have some time to continue writing a short taboo story.

Is some one happy to write part of this story with me from a male point of view, or maybe give me some things to think about?

I am sure men like more things than only write about how big my boobs are, laughs, so please help me with some ideas.

Thank you,
Lucia

Anything about a woman can be exciting to a man: hair, eyes, mouth, toes, feet, legs, armpits, cleavage, underboob, skin folds, anything in or near the crotch, voice, taste, natural scent, posture, skin texture, pregnancy, fertility, and on and on. Not all things are exciting to all men, but it's fiction; you can make up what your character finds exciting, and make it believable.

The more aroused the man is, the more things he finds exciting.

There's also a different question of what attracts men, and those are usually things that women learn to accent to get attention from the "right" men. Not just the size and shape of their boobs, but the length, style and color of their hair, makeup on eyes and lips, the length of their skirt, their stockings, their perfume. Again, just on and on. You probably know more about what attracts men then men know about what they find attractive.

 

[Rustyoznail]

Probably the best idea is to write the story the way you like, then ask for a couple of beta readers to provide you with some feedback.

And just have some fun with it. This writing bug gets under your skin.

 

[AG31]

Men and, yes, women, are both human, believe it or not. Start there. Write humans. Then put yourself/your character in a male body.

You now have a penis, you get aroused quickly and get more easily aroused from visual stimulus. You have evolved to have sex often and with a variety of people because your investment in making babies is minimal (but the the potential responsibility for them once made weighs on you). You feel safer about sex because you know your body will not be invaded (unless you're gay) and your partner is probably smaller and weaker. You're expected to and/or prefer to be the one that takes the initiative in an encounter while your potential partners are gatekeepers that make you earn it.

Make your characters human, but with their humanity put through the filter of those traits and the mental states they imply instead of the ones you're used to. And remember that none of those differences are etched in stone.

Excellent. Of course there is no monolithic Male or Female. But there are qualities that cluster around either sex. These are mixed in with universally recognizable Human qualities. I think you made a good, pretty accurate, short list of the qualities that cluster around men.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

No monoliths, that’s true, but there are generalities it might help to acknowledge.

Men are phalocenteic. They have to be. A woman can (ick squared!) be one half of a sex act even if literally dead. For a man, that simply doesn’t apply. He has to get it up or he might as well have stayed home. I think this colours men’s thoughts and personae far more than many women understand. It’s darned near digital - yes/no, on/off, (possible) success/total failure. There’s not much middle ground. So, yeah, their world revolves around their willies.

Men, I think are far more visual than women. Women are far more wrapped up in emotions and feelings, to a depth men have trouble comprehending. Sure, broad shoulders and tight buns are… interesting for women, but not attention-grabbing in the same way that men find gravity-bending breasts. So your MMC is going to be more turned on by sights than a woman would be.

FWIW.

 

[AG31]

No monoliths, that’s true, but there are generalities it might help to acknowledge.

Men are phalocenteic. They have to be. A woman can (ick squared!) be one half of a sex act even if literally dead. For a man, that simply doesn’t apply. He has to get it up or he might as well have stayed home. I think this colours men’s thoughts and personae far more than many women understand. It’s darned near digital - yes/no, on/off, (possible) success/total failure. There’s not much middle ground. So, yeah, their world revolves around their willies.

Men, I think are far more visual than women. Women are far more wrapped up in emotions and feelings, to a depth men have trouble comprehending. Sure, broad shoulders and tight buns are… interesting for women, but not attention-grabbing in the same way that men find gravity-bending breasts. So your MMC is going to be more turned on by sights than a woman would be.

FWIW.

Well stated.