Help with blowjobs

[Proteinprovider]

I know one thing that all guys like is for the woman to use her hands during a blowjob. Keep the hand wet and use it to stroke with as you suck...believe me it feels good. Also most guys like to have their balls sucked as well. But don't do this too hard. Just a nice easy kiss or rub can do wonders. And last but definetly most important...swallow. Nothing turns a guy on more than knowing that his woman loves him enough to swallow his seed.

As for deep-throating...it's not that important. Sure it feels good but I'd rather have the stroking and sucking combo than to be deep-throated. My wife is good at it though. I'm about 7 1/4 inches and she does mine without a problem...Just remeber...if it makes you gag then don't do it.

Swallow, Swallow, Swallow!!!

 

[Raven]

All this talk of oral and such has gotten me wondering. I know all men prefer something a little different, but are there any 'general' techniques that all or most men like? I'm not exactly a virgin

nor am I terribly experienced, and I know I could use some tips in this area. I've never had complaints, but....

Also, is deep throating REALLY important? I've never, no matter how hard I try or what position we're in, been able to do it.

 

[Rodrigo]

Maintain eye-contact, lick and suck his balls, act like your enjoying it, watch your teeth, don't just suck, lick.

Sooner or later, hullo_nurse is going to post a reply, and my advice to you is to do whatever she says...assuming she posts about blowjobs. If she says anything about anything else, don't listen, she might be trying to hypnotize you into being her sex slave or something. That chick is freaky.

 

[Fallen Angel]

Raven, just being willing to try it to please your man should be the biggest turn on for him. Try and enjoy it yourself (69?), watch the teeth and try to finish the job (even if you have to pull it out at the last moment).

On deep throating I believe that the size may have more to do with it being possible than anything. If you find that to eat a hot dog you need to chew it, this may not be for you. Seriously though, all the ladies I know who swore they could deep throat found that it was true only up to a certain size especially in width. Massage the ego and just tell him it is too big.
I don't think it is REALLY important but is just one of the little sexual kinks that we hear of and think would be nice to try. Especially if you aren't enjoying it, move on and try something else as there are enough variations to last a lifetime.

Good Luck and I hope this helps

 

[Greeneyes]

Proteinprovider, I just had to laugh at your mention of that last 1/4 inch. You guys are so cute! *smile*

 

[Miranda]

Greeneyes, not only did his addition of the 1/4 make me giggle... the name was quite "cute" as well lol

 

[Hullo_nurse]

Rodrigo, you are too funny!! Yes, you knew I would post on this!! For those of you that have already read it, just skip this post. For those who want a detailed description, keep reading. This was origionally written as a story/message to my honey:

I start by licking your lips & kissing you softly. Then I kiss your neck & ear, trailing a line with my tongue down to your nipples. You love it when I kiss, lick & suck on your nipples, don't you? So I do just that, starting on the left then moving to the right. I nip it with my teeth & suck on it like i'm giving you a hickey & then lick it feather light. All this gets you really hard & the precum starts to ooze. I LOVE the taste of precum. If you tell me there is precum for me I will drop your pants then & there to lick it up. So I lick the precum off the tip of your dick & savor it. Then I start teasing you by licking your shaft up & down & all over, but avoid the head. I lick under the ridge of the head, but do not take the head in my mouth. Then I lick all the way down to the base of your shaft & take your balls in my mouth, one at a time & suck on them softly. I take both in my mouth & teabag you. I'm willing to bet I get more precum as a reward. Right? So, of course, I have to lick up the precum. Next I engulf you in your entirity into my mouth, deepthroating you all at once. [this can be done by putting him to the back of your throat then swallowing or by breathing deeply through your nose and relaxng your jaw & throat] I stay just like that, your whole shaft inside my mouth, tip at the back of my throat for a minute or so, just letting you feel the wetness & warmth of my mouth. You moan, I'm sure, as it is sheer extacy to be burried to the hilt in my mouth. I slowly start to lick the head while it is still in my mouth, ringing around the ridge, flickering at the pee hole. Then I start to move towards the top & suck gently until I let almost all of you out of my mouth. You like to watch, don't you? So I put on a little show for you. I slowly move your thick cock in & out of my mouth in long strokes, sucking softly & in the spots you like it best. I do this until I feel you growing bigger in my mouth. Then the teasing starts again. I don't let you cum at first. I build up the climax for you, making you beg for release. I start to lick the head again, probing your pee hole with my tongue in a sensual way that really turns you on, licking your shaft, cupping your balls in my free hand. I take all of you in my mouth again & concentrate on the top of your dick. I move slowly at first then quicken the speed, using my hand at the base of your shaft. It is wet with all the saliva that has dripped down your cock & from my constant licking & sucking, making you good & wet. I start to move my hand up & down in pace with my mouth, giving you a hand job & blow job at the same time, exciting you even more. You starts to ooze cum & I ask if you want me to milk you dry or to let you blow your wad. You see, I am holding the base of your dick & have the control over this. If I continue to hold it firmly you will just ooze cum, but if I let it lose you can have a mind shattering orgasm. Some days I prolong the orgasm by milking you dry, slowly letting little bits of cum squirt over a few minutes, having your orgasm last up to five minutes & other days I make you cum so hard you sees stars. This day I want to drink your cum so I let lose & you shoot your wad all at once. It is a jism shake for me!!! I love to tease you after you cum, too, licking & sucking on your sensitive head, making you jump in the bed & practically hit the ceiling until you beg me to stop. I give you a little break & then we start all over again.
So, that's my blow job technique, plus or minus some secrets I refuse to tell...you like?

Now, look into my eyes and watch the pendant swing back & forth. You are getting sleepy...sleepy...your eyes are sooo heavy...you are falling into a deep trance...you will do anything that I ask when I say the word "CUM"...when I snap my fingers you will open your eyes & be ready to service me in any manor that I desire.....

 

[Butterfly]

All I can say is WOW! hullo-nurse. That was great glad you posted it. Thanks..

 

[Dakota]

hmmmm.... all this is good information but what i want to know is what is the best position for giving head. I can do all of thee above but what about when the guy lasts a long time? What is the most comfortable position for both parties? I always get tierd....

 

[Greeneyes]

Kneeling alongside is what I find easiest for long stretches. Lets you use both hands, or lean up on one and use the other. Also handy for lifting a leg strategically and getting anal. And, last but not least, keeps your goodies within arm's reach of your partner.

 

[Proteinprovider]

Greeneyes....man usually add that extra 1/4 or 1/2 inch for the same reason that a woman who wears a 38 C or 36 D bra will always say she is a 36 D. Because it just sounds better.

As for the name...well what woman couldn't use a little protein shake in her diet!!

 

[PHANTOM5875]

Holy Crap!, hullo_nurse, I've read your post on this topic before and I STILL get a woody reading it. You are truly the Grand Mistress of Oral.

That CERTAINLY works for me!

Okay, now that I've gained my composure, Raven, you've gotten great advice from hullo_nurse and Rodrigo on the technique. Speaking for this humble man, that certainly rings my bell.

Dakota, I think I may have said this before in another thread but I feel the most comfortable position to be in for giving your partner oral pleasure especially if one or more of you tend to take a fairly long time to climax is to be in the 69 position lying on the bed on your sides. I personally like to bring my gal in close, pull the top leg over my head and massage the thigh, buttocks, and lower back while I bring her to climax. You're relaxed and no particular part of your body (other than your tongue and jaw muscles) get overly tired. You can pace yourself (until the hormones take over, anyway)and bring your partner to the edge over and over while still being somewhat relaxed.

Hope this helps.

PHANTOM

 

[Laurel]

MAN is this thread steamy!! I'm yearning for a cigarette and I don't smoke!

Nurse - That post is worth saving for posterity. What a scorcher...

 

[Michael]

I personally wouldn't make swallowing as big of a requirement as Protein suggests. Some women honestly don't care for the taste, and frankly, I'm happy that she enjoys doing it at all. However, at only 5 3/8", my perspective may be a little different.

 

[Bs]

Laurel

You should ask hullo_nurse if she would mind having that post put in how to section. just a thought.....

 

[Mrhappy]

Enthusiasm, desire and communication.
There are obviously many other aspects of a successful oral sex experience. However, these make for a good beginning.
Enthusiasm...
Let your lover know that you 'really' want to do this with him. Study the penis and learn about the parts that are most sensitive, etc. Approach your partner with some knowledge and a few questions about what they enjoy.
Desire...
Contemplate what this activity may mean to you. Why do you desire to do it? If you explore what it is to you to have your lips sliding over the head of a man's penis that is exciting to you. Experience how it feels to 'you' to have his balls in your hand, to feel them moving in your hand, etc.
Communication...
We've already touched on this, but take it a step further...ask him what he likes. Take your time and open up with each other.
And...I can't believe I forgot perhaps one of the most important aspects....Cleanliness!

Once you're used to the act and each other's unique scents, you may find that you like his scent after a hard day's work. However, that's something most people aquire a taste for. It will probably allow him to be more at ease too. I've had many women tell me to wait until they freshen up before they'll let me go down on them. It makes them feel more confident and assured that I won't encounter anything unpleasant between their legs. The same is true for men, at least I hope so.
Also...you may want to rent a couple of xxx movies. Get him to point out to you which blowjobs turn him on the most.
Good luck...have fun and...practice, practice, practice!!

 

[Hullo_nurse]

bs- actually I think I submitted it as my very first "story" to Laurel. I do have it saved on my puter, so would be glad to resend if you really want it...

As for position. My favorite is this: he is laying on his back in the bed as if he were going to sleep. I lay on the bed facing his feet, kinda halfway between on my side & on my stomach. I lean on my right elbow, with my left arm placed over his abdomen and my left hand holding his shaft so my hand closes around with my fingers facing me. I then go down on him either straight down (in the beginning), or down to the side with my right cheek resting on his upper right thigh( as I get tired). If your man enjoys his arse being fingered or rubbed you can easily accomodate this by having him bend to the side his right leg and slipping your right arm under or over the leg enough that your hand/fingers reach his ass. Also in this position he should be able to reach your box with his hands. Tee hee

 

[Butterfly]

I agree with Hullo-nurse on position. I have found this to be the most comfortable and what my husband enjoys and like hullo-nurse stated he can get to you easily also.

...Hullo please do re-submit I would also like to read it. If Laurel doesn't mind...which I'm sure she won't <<smiling sweetly at Laurel>> please!!

Thanks hullo-nurse

 

[ImBiMark]

I am a cock and cum loving slut puppy... sometimes I don't even get hard, yet am excited to the max when a man is pumping his cock in and out of my hot mouth as I lick around the head and shaft... sucking... also paying special attention to and pleasuring his balls... with my hands and mouth... then go back and lick up and down the entire length of his hard, throbbing prick... deep throating him... feel him fucking my face... till he are screaming and writhing as he begins to spurt his first jets of hot cum deep into my throat and on my tounge... be sure and get plenty on my tounge so I can taste it properly... and then have him pull out of my hot mouth, making a popping sound as the head of his cock comes out from between my hot lips... and finish spurting the remainder of his load of cum all over my face... and I lay there in pure extasy... as my mouth completes it's orgasm... I lay there savoring his taste... savoring the feel of his cum on my face...
This is one scenario... the bottom line is all men are different and like different techniques... what works for Bob may not turn Dave on at all... and vice versa... The important thing is variation... and attention to the effects of each variation on the blowee... also, I find it helpful to ask... what feels good? does this feel good? what can I do to please you and get you hot and hard and throbbing... and finally, of course, filling my mouth with your hot load which of course I am going to swallow with exstasy, joy and pleasure... ohh... and of course with a great big smile...

 

[DuckLover]

Damn Nurse!! Next time I don't feel well, I'm calling YOU!!

I would agree with pretty much everything folks have said. Some keys for me include:

1) eye contact
2) vocalization-- let me hear how much you love it
3) line of sight-- it's even better when I can see my cock sliding in and out of your mouth; remember men are very visual
4) play with my balls
5) a finger pressing and playing around the anus adds a whole new wonderful dimension!

A woman who gives me good head is a woman upon whom I especially want to reciprocate!