Help Requested

[Gembabe]

Hi, first off, I'd like to say I'm new here, and I'd like to introduce myself.

Now, onto the real reason for my post. I am a 22 year old woman, and I have recently begun work for a company, right out of school. I have always been straight my entire life, never feeling anything for women. That is, until I met Jenna. She has worked in the company for about 3 years, and she and I have become friends, but I want more than that. She is so beautiful, and so nice, I think she's turned me into feeling lesbian feelings, all by herself. Does anyone have any help on how I should approach Jenna? I really do want to do it, but I don't know how. Any help would be appreciated.

 

[Starfish]

I have had the same problem and have never been too good at approaching people with feelings like that. I hate how worried I get about, if they don't share you feelings, that it will ruin the friendship. That is the worst! I am no help here, and would love to know what others think too.

 

[Charly]

All deep relationships develop slowly, through friendship leading to intimacy. At a point in time you realize that intimacy is mutual and wanted. If you are lucky and honest with yourself, you will know and it will be lovely and wonderful.

If you are in a hurry, or just want a quick sexual fling, it is a complete crapshoot, loaded with risk, like between a man and woman, but even more painful if you mis-read it. Better pick someone far from the company unless you are ready to leave it.

 

[Blackbich]

Wish I could help you out but I've never been in that situation, sorry. My best advice would be to build the friendship first. If you get the sense she may be open to your feelings, then very subtly broach the subject and see what happens. I don't know if you'd be able to continually be around this woman if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings but I wouldn't make my feelings known unless I felt there was a chance for something more - wouldn't want to ruin the friendship, if that makes sense. Okay, I've obviously babbled enough!!

 

[Gembabe]

I'd like to thank anyone who has responded with advice. As, I said, all advice is appreciated. I realize that this topic hasn't been up for that long, but I'd like to ask again, please help. I am really in a tough situation, and I'd like to hear any ideas, because any idea could be the best one.

Also, if anyone has gone through something like this, just please post what happened to you. I really would love to know what could happen.

As you could tell, I'm pretty desperate. The situation has been eating away at me for about a month or so, and something needs to be done. I can't just let it be anymore.

Thanks again,

Cindy

 

[Gembabe]

I think I've made a decision. I'm going to give hints every now and then, and finally aproach her about my situation. Thanks for the help.