Help one extreme to the next

[Guest]

My problem is that sometimes I am absolutely fine to get erect, but when me and my gf have sex, I cum within about a minute. But then the next time I try, I am well in the mood, but then just before I have sex, I get the droop on! What is wrong with me. We have been together for nearly 2 years and (trying to ) have sex for about 3 months now. If she uses her hands, then I always cum after about 5 minutes, so what is so different? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

 

[hogjack]

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This is a classic case of performance anxiety.

Blame the media.

And fluorocarbons.

And you spent a large part of the 90s pleasuring yourself.

Seek professional help. Start with your physician who can recommend counselors who might be able to help you through this difficult period.

In the meantime, send your girlfriend to me. I'll provide comfort and support during this rough period.