Help? Need some ideas...

[MaddyBaby]

Okay everyone... this one's mainly for the ladies in the room to help me, but if the guys wanna join, be my guest. I have just gotten back into a great relationship with my girlfriend (Yes, I'm bi) and I wondered if some of you could give me some advice. I am going to see her in a month, and I got this really awesome two piece outfit from Victoria's Secret to wear for her... Trouble is, I have no idea how to play into the whole role of seduction. Stupid problem eh? I am not a heavy girl, but I've never been very confident about my body. Can someone please give me some advice and maybe help me come up with a plan? I'd reeeeally appreciate it!


Mads

 

[privy2u]

MaddyBaby In My Honest Opinion = Just be yourslf! If you want to wear something to please someone they will be pleased. If its a matter of being seduced I doubt a plan to get her into that position would work unless hse was willing inthe first place. My suggestion: Be yourself and let yourself be seduced - you will be more receptive if you arent trying to follow a plan, and she will also!


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[MaddyBaby]

Oh thanks!

Hm, I guess sometimes I get a little too nervous, you know? I guess having a plan would have helped - or so I thought. Maybe I am looking for something romantic? Eh. I suck. LOL



Mads

 

[privy2u]

Maddy I'm not familiar with your situation and I doubt anyone actually understands it as well as you. I can only tell you what I have found has been best for me in my life. I have attempted planning little things to help guide someone in certain directions. That was probably when I was about your age. I am 51 now and , for me, when I let myself be me those around me began to trust me to be consistant and dependable. And I began to gravitate to others that were also just being themselves.

Be what you is,
Not what you ain't.
Cause if you is what you ain't,
You aint what you is!

My grandmother taught me the poem when I was 5.


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