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I would like advice on various techniques on how to jack off my boyfriend, should i put pressure anywhere or what?????
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<that drivel I offer? i think my last post on this topic was the best i have offered>
I thank you for the kind words, Sir. But it is I who should acknowledge your greater wit and wisdom. For although, this is Laurel and Manu's temple, I have come to look upon your words as "pearls of wisdom" worthy only of the "high priest".
<bows very low and exits before the Benevolent One>
<cough..cough...cough.....>
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I thank you for the kind words, Sir. But it is I who should acknowledge your greater wit and wisdom. For although, this is Laurel and Manu's temple, I have come to look upon your words as "pearls of wisdom" worthy only of the "high priest".
<bows very low and exits before the Benevolent One>
<cough..cough...cough.....>
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Now be nice,Nicole
Yes, watch him do it himself. the most sensitive part is on the underside,right beneath the head.
Personally, just experiment yourself. Practice makes perfect, right. It really helps, if you are somewhat fascinated with his cock. By that I mean, this is something you really want to do. If your not really interested, it can be the most frustrating experience for him.
Remember, just don't apply to much pressure, except at the right time of course. I love it when the GF makes me wait for the big moment. Its a sweet torture
But seriously, its the learning that can be the most fun, for both of you. If there were some single way to do for everyone, this probably wouldn't be as much enjoyable for us men.
Enjoy
Yes, watch him do it himself. the most sensitive part is on the underside,right beneath the head.
Personally, just experiment yourself. Practice makes perfect, right. It really helps, if you are somewhat fascinated with his cock. By that I mean, this is something you really want to do. If your not really interested, it can be the most frustrating experience for him.
Remember, just don't apply to much pressure, except at the right time of course. I love it when the GF makes me wait for the big moment. Its a sweet torture
But seriously, its the learning that can be the most fun, for both of you. If there were some single way to do for everyone, this probably wouldn't be as much enjoyable for us men.
Enjoy
like clits and pussies, cocks are all different and so there is no single recipe for this which works on all cocks; indeed no recipe for the same cock on all occasions;
To be good at masturbating your partner is like cooking and not like golf. .. You do NOT need to develop perfect technique enabling you to recreate an identical motion in all circumstances (like a golf swing)... What you DO need is to be hungry and greedy and creative; creative means: good at opening the fridge, getting everything out and creating a meal out of whatever ingredients you happen to find there at the time ... and keep sniffing and tasting as you go along! And remember, anyone who wants to be a good cook can learn!
enjoy!
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To be good at masturbating your partner is like cooking and not like golf. .. You do NOT need to develop perfect technique enabling you to recreate an identical motion in all circumstances (like a golf swing)... What you DO need is to be hungry and greedy and creative; creative means: good at opening the fridge, getting everything out and creating a meal out of whatever ingredients you happen to find there at the time ... and keep sniffing and tasting as you go along! And remember, anyone who wants to be a good cook can learn!
enjoy!
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Golden said it much better than I did!!!!
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Ahem I beg to differ Golden not everyone can be a great cook, but everyone can pull off a few wonderful dishes. So my advice is to ask him to touch himself, and describe what he likes, let him talk himself through it as you observe(or touch yourself, by all means)...Listen to his descriptions and watch closely, the most erotic part is that you want to do this...and do it well...what a great GF you are!! So be a rapt pupil, and do take the time to adore his body, spend time with the lights on and watch, really watch as he pleasures himself...Cock worship is at the root(heehee) of all male fantasies so indulge yourself in that arena...
Remember that fresh cooked pasta with garlic, tomatoes and basil is wonderful..it is not complicated, and most people love it...Yes, some may desire prawns au citron added and others may want there to be parmesan or romano but the most important thing to remember is that you need to follow his recipe...note to Golden please do not salt your prawn...
Remember that fresh cooked pasta with garlic, tomatoes and basil is wonderful..it is not complicated, and most people love it...Yes, some may desire prawns au citron added and others may want there to be parmesan or romano but the most important thing to remember is that you need to follow his recipe...note to Golden please do not salt your prawn...
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FEED ME OR FUCK ME NOW EARTHGODDESS!!
Oh, LMAO @ MM and LL. you guys crack me up!
OK earthgoddess, point taken, sort of ... but d'you know I've never had a lover who was that upfront about talking about "it", and also masturbating for the other person is something which also has only developed as a relationship has matured; with Mrs G we've only very lately stared to masturbate with the other watching ... and we first made love together in 1972!
In my experience in the first sessions of a relationship the most guidance either of you is likely to get from the other are from maybe hand movements guiding you to a new place, angle, speed, degree of firmness; and the guidance you get from listening and otherwise sensing the reaction you are getting. You know what I mean ... if she's hanging from the ceiling in ten strokes I know I got it about right and inwardly feel dead cocky ... if after 20 minutes rubbing her clit I hear snores, I know I got it a bit wrong...
What about it peeps? Who on the list is going to say on date #1 - "let go love and I'll show you how to do me"; and I'm asking women to respond too - in my experience - (oh god, again ....) so many women (girls on this list excepted) are hung up enough about masturbating they are unlikely on first night with a guy to break away from his fumbling fingers and insist "sit down there and I'll show you how to stroke my clit and pussy".
So Earthgoddess, if you don't want salt on it, maybe prefer a little salsa?
OK earthgoddess, point taken, sort of ... but d'you know I've never had a lover who was that upfront about talking about "it", and also masturbating for the other person is something which also has only developed as a relationship has matured; with Mrs G we've only very lately stared to masturbate with the other watching ... and we first made love together in 1972!
In my experience in the first sessions of a relationship the most guidance either of you is likely to get from the other are from maybe hand movements guiding you to a new place, angle, speed, degree of firmness; and the guidance you get from listening and otherwise sensing the reaction you are getting. You know what I mean ... if she's hanging from the ceiling in ten strokes I know I got it about right and inwardly feel dead cocky ... if after 20 minutes rubbing her clit I hear snores, I know I got it a bit wrong...
What about it peeps? Who on the list is going to say on date #1 - "let go love and I'll show you how to do me"; and I'm asking women to respond too - in my experience - (oh god, again ....) so many women (girls on this list excepted) are hung up enough about masturbating they are unlikely on first night with a guy to break away from his fumbling fingers and insist "sit down there and I'll show you how to stroke my clit and pussy".
So Earthgoddess, if you don't want salt on it, maybe prefer a little salsa?
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Well, actually never Nicole.
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I was just hoping to get a little attention from you.....
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Thats what everyone tells me Golden, I guess I'll just settle for the acknowledgement then.
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Well LL be my guest..maybe I'll have to start our own lil thread in the RPG...I'd love to cook a meal then feed it to you...then have you...kisses
Merlin I never knew you felt this way.
You only had to ask you know
Nobody else seems to have a problem with that.
Oh might warn you though!!! My ass belongs to One Man and One Man only. But I am sure he will let me have some fun though
Golden you know you can always have a peice of the pie
*Bending over and wiggleing ass for both Golden and Merlin*
You only had to ask you know
Oh might warn you though!!! My ass belongs to One Man and One Man only. But I am sure he will let me have some fun though
Golden you know you can always have a peice of the pie
if you're planning prawns au citron, Earthgoddess, then can I join you and LL? While I have discovered cyber sex and found it mind blowing [you know who you are!], I'm not so sure about cyber-cooking - I feel we need to do this face to face! As you have observed, I can't always get my metaphors to rise and could use some practical guidance...
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Merlin (excitely) looks at Nicole as she exits watching that, oh so, exquisite..?????..er, wiggle.....
"I would have approached you more directly and sooner, My Lady, but out of respect for my witty friend, Mr. Golden, I waited for his approval that I was deemed worthy".......<of course, I noticed that look he gave me before I received his approval.....
"I would have approached you more directly and sooner, My Lady, but out of respect for my witty friend, Mr. Golden, I waited for his approval that I was deemed worthy".......<of course, I noticed that look he gave me before I received his approval.....
I agree that asking your partner for direction is the most straight forward way to learn what his particular desire are.
However, speaking from experience, some men will find things erotic that they would never dream of asking for. My husband would NEVER have asked me to lick his asshole (out of fear, mostly, I would guess! can you imagine how it could have potentially gone? "while you're down there, be a dear and lick my ass a couple of times, would ya love?".)
ANYHOW, I chose a time after jacuzzi play when I knew we were both sparkley clean and licked him from stem (so to speak) to stern. Yes, he was shocked at first, tensed up just slightly. Then he relaxed and soon had the biggest ejaculation I had seen. Not for everyone, I know. But my point is that men will not always ask for what they really desire. Hell, they may not know they desire something until you try it first!
However, speaking from experience, some men will find things erotic that they would never dream of asking for. My husband would NEVER have asked me to lick his asshole (out of fear, mostly, I would guess! can you imagine how it could have potentially gone? "while you're down there, be a dear and lick my ass a couple of times, would ya love?".)
ANYHOW, I chose a time after jacuzzi play when I knew we were both sparkley clean and licked him from stem (so to speak) to stern. Yes, he was shocked at first, tensed up just slightly. Then he relaxed and soon had the biggest ejaculation I had seen. Not for everyone, I know. But my point is that men will not always ask for what they really desire. Hell, they may not know they desire something until you try it first!
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Hey Nicloe, I do not have a problem with that, You know that. I enjoy the view myself, love.
Now Merlin, my new freind, just to let you know I just may give my spot up on the line, but only if Nicole will let me. I Do know the the love of my life will not like me in this line anyway. But hey it is a pretty view tho. OH and it is mot really Golden you have to ask but he is VERY CLOSE tho.
Oh gee, I'm sorry Nicole, I seem to have dropped my car keys, will you please get them for me love??
Yes there right there on the floor. Thanks
I apologize to the LOVE OF MY LIFE for my behavior. But I can't help it, and you know it too.
Now Merlin, my new freind, just to let you know I just may give my spot up on the line, but only if Nicole will let me. I Do know the the love of my life will not like me in this line anyway. But hey it is a pretty view tho. OH and it is mot really Golden you have to ask but he is VERY CLOSE tho.
Oh gee, I'm sorry Nicole, I seem to have dropped my car keys, will you please get them for me love??
I apologize to the LOVE OF MY LIFE for my behavior. But I can't help it, and you know it too.
