Help me Please!!!

[Guest]

Okay, here's the thing. I'm bi and I've shared sexual moments with 3 girls and one guy. Not at the same time though. Now, my best friend of 7 years (she told us she was bi 2 years ago, but hasn't done anything with any girls) I haven't come out to my friends or family yet. She recently was in a bad brake up that had a lot of sexual experience and is very horny. I told her she should get someone to help her out. (suggesting me, not to sure of it though) and then I told her I had been with 3 girls and I knew what to do. I said I could help her out if she wanted and she said she was interested but she wasn't too sure right now. Now, she's got this new guy that she likes and he isn't interested in her but she knows all about me. I was wondering what I could say to her to convince her to let me enjoy her...... So if you could help me out that would be great!

*hugs and kisses*

 

[Blackbich]

Touchy subject...

IMHO, you've done all you can. You let her know you were interested. She expressed interest, but hasn't followed up. If you continue to make comments to her, she could look at that as being pushy and you could lose her as a friend. If she's interested, she will come to you.

 

[Guest]

There's a problem

There is a HUGE problem, I want her soooo badly! I didn't know that until I told her one day that I could *ahem* "help her out" I had thought about it but I thought I was just being stupid. I just want to jump her. And I've told her that I've had dreams about doing things with her and she's like *blush* Then she's like, I'm up for it but not at this exact moment. But she's very no, then when she sees someone she's like, OH GOD YES!!! So, I know she'll want me when I see her but what do I say to get things started?