Help me manipulate the Dom!

[Karleksknop]

To be honest I don´t think I am a very pretty girl. Too heavy and with stretchmarks. You know how it is...

What would make You totally forget about your subs looks and send you off to pleasureland with a silly smile?

(He likes oral sex so tips and tricks there are very welcome)

 

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[Homburg]

You may not want to hear this, but it sounds to me like the person most distracted by your (perceived) looks is you. You have a relationship with this guy, so he can't think you are all that unkind to the eyes. It is not unusual, however, for someone to attempt to wow with technique so as to cover up perceived faults.

My advice is to either do something about your appearance to make you happier with yourself, or to see what he thinks. You may just be perfect in his eyes. Either way, becoming more comfortable with yourself will lead to better sex more than some new technique.

 

[Karleksknop]

Well... This thread is not so serious as it obviously seems

I know good girls are not supposed to manipulate the Dom, but somehow I believe many Doms could be forgiving in a case like this

I also know that guys rarely get into relationships with girls they can´t stand the sight of, and this is just a half joking attempt to perhaps have something to focus on instead of being self conscious. (Which I am sure I am not the only one to be)


Whatever. Just ignore it.

 

[Etoile]

Focus on performing well. Whatever you are asked to do, focus on THAT. Trust me, if you're sucking his cock the best you can, he's not going to be thinking about what you look like.

 

[Harmony_1985]

Focus on performing well. Whatever you are asked to do, focus on THAT. Trust me, if you're sucking his cock the best you can, he's not going to be thinking about what you look like.

Amen!

And honey, just because you have stretch marks doesn't mean you're ugly, not by any means.

I'm quite overweight, small chested, stretch marks and I have a huge surgery scar across my torso. I think I'm ugly as hell, but Sir tells me I'm beautiful.

You just need some self confidence!

 

[ultramarineblue]

Amen!

And honey, just because you have stretch marks doesn't mean you're ugly, not by any means.

I'm quite overweight, small chested, stretch marks and I have a huge surgery scar across my torso. I think I'm ugly as hell, but Sir tells me I'm beautiful.

You just need some self confidence!

Once you get the self confidence thing, work like hell to maintain it. That's the thing that always trips me up.