Help me. I'm lost.

[musicalwhovian]

Hi I've been abandoned by the man I thought loved me more than anyone else. It seems to me though that it was a lie. I don't think he cared like he said he did. Anyway, I'm looking for someine to talk to because I can't stand being alone around the holidays. Anyone up to chat?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Hi I've been abandoned by the man I thought loved me more than anyone else. It seems to me though that it was a lie. I don't think he cared like he said he did. Anyway, I'm looking for someine to talk to because I can't stand being alone around the holidays. Anyone up to chat?

Will Daddy mind?

 

[BoyNextDoor]

Please ignore ms_man_thrope. Most people do.

 

[musicalwhovian]

He's the one who isn't talking to me. I really don't think he gives a damn what I do.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

There you go. BoyNextDoor has been looking for a hook-up all night.

Ca-ching.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

He's the one who isn't talking to me. I really don't think he gives a damn what I do.

Did he ask for anal and you turned him down?

 

[musicalwhovian]

Listen, if you're just going to use my legitimate request for companionship to throw punches at someone, please don't bother yourself and go through the trouble of typing a rsponse out on this thread.

Thank you!

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Listen, if you're just going to use my legitimate request for companionship to throw punches at someone, please don't bother yourself and go through the trouble of typing a rsponse out on this thread.

Thank you!

If you don't quote, no one knows who the hell you're talking to. Tell us more about Daddy.

 

[Lord_Steve]

you are going to be okay. try to focus on your hobbies and passions.

 

[musicalwhovian]

you are going to be okay. try to focus on your hobbies and passions.

Thank you.

 

[musicalwhovian]

If you don't quote, no one knows who the hell you're talking to. Tell us more about Daddy.

Don't tell me how to run my life. Why are being so rude? Where is your holiday spirit?


P. S. There's your fucking quote

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Don't tell me how to run my life. Why are being so rude? Where is your holiday spirit?


P. S. There's your fucking quote

Wow. No wonder Daddy won't talk to you. Are you mean to him too?

 

[Lord_Steve]

Wow. No wonder Daddy won't talk to you. Are you mean to him too?

are you okay? nobody is this shitty by choice.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

are you okay? nobody is this shitty by choice.

Are you a dom? Dom's are shitty to people by choice.

Just sayin'...

 

[barefootgirl69]

you are going to be okay. try to focus on your hobbies and passions.

He's very right! We have to be strong, too. When there's no one else to be there. Make friends here, or on the playground to help if your mind needs occupying.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

He's very right! We have to be strong, too. When there's no one else to be there. Make friends here, or on the playground to help if your mind needs occupying.

Don't tell her how to run her life!

 

[zoso682001]

Hi I've been abandoned by the man I thought loved me more than anyone else. It seems to me though that it was a lie. I don't think he cared like he said he did. Anyway, I'm looking for someine to talk to because I can't stand being alone around the holidays. Anyone up to chat?

A long time ago , while I was in a similar place as you I used a method I learned from a Bob Dylan song . As best as I remember it goes like this .

" If anybody asks me is it easy to forget I'll say It's easily done you just pick anyone and pretend that you never have met "

Took some time but it worked for me . Hang in there and keep yourself busy . It'll pass.....

 

[barefootgirl69]

Don't tell her how to run her life!

Please hush. It's not right to use someone's pain for sarcasm and snide remarks. If you can't be helpful, just go to another thread. Go, on...off with you, bother the others who love to do battle with you.

There's enough people hurting this time of year. Show some grace.

 

[Debbie]

Have you got family and friends you can turn to?


If you do find someone to chat to here while you're feeling hurt and probably vulnerable plz remember to keep yourself safe by not divulging too much personal info. We have some amazing people here but there are also trolls and asshats who make it a hobby to use peoples personal information for nefarious reasons.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Please hush. It's not right to use someone's pain for sarcasm and snide remarks. If you can't be helpful, just go to another thread. Go, on...off with you, bother the others who love to do battle with you.

There's enough people hurting this time of year. Show some grace.

I'm trying to help but she won't tell me what she did to piss Daddy off. I'm thinking Daddy gave her a little self humiliation project to work on since the same thread is over on the BDSM board. Being a sub yourself, you probably know what that's all about.

 

[musicalwhovian]

I'm trying to help but she won't tell me what she did to piss Daddy off. I'm thinking Daddy gave her a little self humiliation project to work on since the same thread is over on the BDSM board. Being a sub yourself, you probably know what that's all about.

Wow. I feel sorry for you. Especially if you think not communicating with someone for 3 weeks (without telling them what, if anything, they did wrong) is an acceptable "punishment." By the way, I was never rude to him. I was good. I watched my manners and my tongue. I know the fundamentals of being a good sub. Oh and before you ASSume shit, you may want to think about what other issues there may be, like, oh I don't know, maybe he knows my fear of abandonment considering what happened to me when I was a child.

I'm going to pray for you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I'm trying to help but she won't tell me what she did to piss Daddy off. I'm thinking Daddy gave her a little self humiliation project to work on since the same thread is over on the BDSM board. Being a sub yourself, you probably know what that's all about.

I know what happens when online daddy's disappear. Sometimes it happens for no other reason than wifey found out. Sometimes, they just go because they weren't a real DD to begin with. No matter what the reason, it still hurts. Maybe she did nothing. If she had, she might not be wondering why he's acting this way.

Someone told me earlier, I always am too nice, always assuming good things and giving people the benefit of the doubt. It's hard being a princess *fixes tiara*.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Wow. I feel sorry for you. Especially if you think not communicating with someone for 3 weeks (without telling them what, if anything, they did wrong) is an acceptable "punishment." By the way, I was never rude to him. I was good. I watched my manners and my tongue. I know the fundamentals of being a good sub. Oh and before you ASSume shit, you may want to think about what other issues there may be, like, oh I don't know, maybe he knows my fear of abandonment considering what happened to me when I was a child.

I'm going to pray for you.

Sounds like he was just using you. Just my 2 cents but that whole BDSM sub/dom thing is just window dressing for sexual abuse. You should run from it screaming.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I know what happens when online daddy's disappear. Sometimes it happens for no other reason than wifey found out. Sometimes, they just go because they weren't a real DD to begin with. No matter what the reason, it still hurts. Maybe she did nothing. If she had, she might not be wondering why he's acting this way.

Someone told me earlier, I always am too nice, always assuming good things and giving people the benefit of the doubt. It's hard being a princess *fixes tiara*.

Play fucked up games...get fucked up.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Play fucked up games...get fucked up.

I'm still trying to figure out why you're here if you really don't care to do anything but say things that are hurtful.