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[niceguy5575]

gosh dang it

while having conversation with her this week she goes I am off this weekend then I tell her im off everyday then she smile at me without teeth dang it and then she talks about her weekend and today I wrote her on facebook telling her about my weekend plans finally

 

[Touch_72]

while having conversation with her this week she goes I am off this weekend then I tell her im off everyday then she smile at me

So, what if she was handing it to you on a silver platter ("I'm off this weekend... hint hint... here's your opening.") and smiled because she THOUGHT you were taking the opening when you said you were off everyday (including the weekend)?

without teeth dang it

I'm assuming you mean she smiled without showing teeth, not that she smiled and it turned out she had no teeth. But, what is "dang it" about? Are you thinking because she showed no teeth it means something? I smile without showing my teeth all the time.

and then she talks about her weekend and today I wrote her on facebook telling her about my weekend plans finally

I'm gonna be blunt and somewhat snarky for a reason: Great. You sealed a non-date. But, at least you have weekend plans.

Seriously... if you're interested and a woman floats out there that she's off and smiles when you essentially tell her you're off too... that's your perfect opportunity to... ask her out!!! If she shoots you down, then you know. If she takes you up on it, congrats. Either way, it's settled.

My advice is to stop posting in this thread until you've asked her out or talked to her about your interest. Women tend to move on if a guy sits and does nothing despite cues they throw out. You're wasting your time talking to us about how confused you are that you could be spending taking opportunities you're otherwise just thinking about. Post in here again without doing so and I (possibly others too) am going to kick you.

 

[niceguy5575]

So, what if she was handing it to you on a silver platter ("I'm off this weekend... hint hint... here's your opening.") and smiled because she THOUGHT you were taking the opening when you said you were off everyday (including the weekend)?



I'm assuming you mean she smiled without showing teeth, not that she smiled and it turned out she had no teeth. But, what is "dang it" about? Are you thinking because she showed no teeth it means something? I smile without showing my teeth all the time.



I'm gonna be blunt and somewhat snarky for a reason: Great. You sealed a non-date. But, at least you have weekend plans.

Seriously... if you're interested and a woman floats out there that she's off and smiles when you essentially tell her you're off too... that's your perfect opportunity to... ask her out!!! If she shoots you down, then you know. If she takes you up on it, congrats. Either way, it's settled.

My advice is to stop posting in this thread until you've asked her out or talked to her about your interest. Women tend to move on if a guy sits and does nothing despite cues they throw out. You're wasting your time talking to us about how confused you are that you could be spending taking opportunities you're otherwise just thinking about. Post in here again without doing so and I (possibly others too) am going to kick you.

I am sorry I am done now

 

[Touch_72]

I am sorry I am done now

I think you're missing my point. I wasn't trying to run you out of here, just spur you to go find out by doing something rather than spending all your time and energy wondering and posting.

 

[niceguy5575]

she told me I like friends

 

[Emerson40]

she told me I like friends

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As mentioned above, you are over-thinking and over-complicating things.

Tell the girl - face to face, and not via a friend or Faceblech - what you think about her and where you hope things may go. Be direct and not wishy-washy.

She may not feel the same way, sure. But at least then you'll know and can decide a) move on, or b) we'll be pals, date, boinky-boinky, whatever.

You can't make her change her feelings or the way she thinks about you, but if you talk openly and directly with her, she likely will do the same, and you'll know what those thoughts and feelings are. You won't have to try and figure out what teethless smiles or the colour of her handbag is code for.

 

[niceguy5575]

I think I got help I need thanks moving on now to something else