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[niceguy5575]

ok she keeps asking if I am here for the night ? , what is she talking about ? I go to bar everyday and play pool and have a drink and she does work at the bar and ok hope this is better not trying to confused anyone

someone can delete this if they want since I confused someone already im sorry

 

[niceguy5575]

other day she tells me she going at the bar late here tonight while telling someone else I be here until 2 am here she goes again makes me wanted write a dang story lol

 

[_Hogster]

If you can explain in English, I'll try to help

 

[niceguy5575]

hows that now sorry

 

[_Hogster]

Your posts make no sense. If you could explain your question in clear English, even if it's simple words, we could help you.

 

[niceguy5575]

now how is that , im trying now

 

[Touch_72]

ok she keeps asking if I am here for the night ? , what is she talking about ? I go to bar everyday and play pool and have a drink and she does work at the bar and ok hope this is better not trying to confused anyone

1. Who is "she"? What is her relation to you?
2. Where is "here"?
3. What is it you're actually trying to figure out or get help with?

other day she tells me she going at the bar late here tonight while telling someone else I be here until 2 am here she goes again makes me wanted write a dang story lol

4. She told them she's going to the bar late that night or do you mean tonight?
5. By "I" do you mean she told someone, "I'll be here until 2am" (meaning she was saying she would be "here" till then) or do you mean she was saying that you will be "here" until then? With the way you write, it's hard to tell if there are implied quotes.
6. And, again, where is "here"?

 

[SunDevilGirl]

She is probably as confused as we are.

It sounds like she's trying to start a conversation with you. Talk to her.

 

[niceguy5575]

1. Who is "she"? What is her relation to you? shes a friend I met at the bar
2. Where is "here"? the bar I guess
3. What is it you're actually trying to figure out or get help with? im confused with her each time and I confused her



4. She told them she's going to the bar late that night or do you mean tonight? no she said one time she going be here late tonight must be working late
5. By "I" do you mean she told someone, "I'll be here until 2am" (meaning she was saying she would be "here" till then) or do you mean she was saying that you will be "here" until then? With the way you write, it's hard to tell if there are implied quotes. yeah she be there working at work until 2 am then she tells me she be here late tonight
6. And, again, where is "here"?

the bar i guess

 

[niceguy5575]

She is probably as confused as we are.

It sounds like she's trying to start a conversation with you. Talk to her.

thanks for the hlep

 

[niceguy5575]

she told another guy she be there at bar until 2 am because she works there and while I was leaving she tells me I be here late tonight lol see I am confused she is confusing chick to me this was other day she told me

 

[Ellafun]

Wait, wait, wait....I think I get this. She told a customer that she would be at the bar until 2, but she told you that she would be there later than 2, and you are trying to figure out if she is hinting that you should come back to see her after 2?

crap, I think I just confused myself.

 

[Corbal]

Wait, wait, wait....I think I get this. She told a customer that she would be at the bar until 2, but she told you that she would be there later than 2, and you are trying to figure out if she is hinting that you should come back to see her after 2?

crap, I think I just confused myself.

After I read this, I'm under the assumption you'll be over about 2. Lol

 

[GiggLeGasm]

ok she keeps asking if I am here for the night ? , what is she talking about ? I go to bar everyday and play pool and have a drink and she does work at the bar and ok hope this is better not trying to confused anyone

someone can delete this if they want since I confused someone already im sorry

I think I recognize this. It was one of the questions on my stats final. I have the same questions as everyone else and am selecting:

D. Not enough information given

other day she tells me she going at the bar late here tonight while telling someone else I be here until 2 am here she goes again makes me wanted write a dang story lol

Please.. lol.. whatever you do.. don't write a dang story!!

 

[niceguy5575]

Wait, wait, wait....I think I get this. She told a customer that she would be at the bar until 2, but she told you that she would be there later than 2, and you are trying to figure out if she is hinting that you should come back to see her after 2?

crap, I think I just confused myself.

yeah that's it if should came back that day now but I didn't

 

[niceguy5575]

After I read this, I'm under the assumption you'll be over about 2. Lol

I didn't go back oh well I hope it wasn't mistake

 

[niceguy5575]

I think I recognize this. It was one of the questions on my stats final. I have the same questions as everyone else and am selecting:

D. Not enough information given




Please.. lol.. whatever you do.. don't write a dang story!!

oh gosh no story I met her at the bar and she works there and she likes me as person and someone was telling me she good friend for me then other day like I said she tells me she be at work late like I am suppose to come back for her , I talk to her now for over 2 months so hope this helps now

 

[Ellafun]

yeah that's it if should came back that day now but I didn't

I would say you should just come out and ask her if she's interested or not. Don't rely on what a "friend" says; go ask her out!

 

[niceguy5575]

I would say you should just come out and ask her if she's interested or not. Don't rely on what a "friend" says; go ask her out!

lol ok I try my best to do that thanks

 

[niceguy5575]

her calling me a nice guy does that hurt my chances asking her out ?

 

[writeradonia]

Do it already

Be bold- don't be such a chicken. Flirt tell her she looks great. Stop acting like she is a million times better than you. She IS human! Lol

 

[niceguy5575]

ok thanks lol

 

[Touch_72]

her calling me a nice guy does that hurt my chances asking her out ?

Either it does or it doesn't... either she's interested in that way or she's not. It's hard to say, but trust me (from experience) when I say sitting around trying to figure it out in your mind is not going to get you as far as just going, being yourself and asking her if she'd be interested in doing something on a night off.

You don't need to lay your heart out on the line or stick your neck out on any chopping block... you're just a guy casually asking, "Hey, what do you think about having dinner with me when you have a night off?" If she says yes, you take it from there and see how it goes.

But, as for her telling the other guy she's there till 2am, bartenders often let people know when they're working. The more people they have coming around while they're on shift, the more people they have coming in to tip. Since they rely a lot on tips, how well they do depends on how they treat their bar guests and how many "regulars" they draw when on shift. That said, that does not mean that's what she's doing with you... bartenders are human and though they can be just being hospitable in some cases, there can be attraction there in others. You never know.

 

[niceguy5575]

Either it does or it doesn't... either she's interested in that way or she's not. It's hard to say, but trust me (from experience) when I say sitting around trying to figure it out in your mind is not going to get you as far as just going, being yourself and asking her if she'd be interested in doing something on a night off.

You don't need to lay your heart out on the line or stick your neck out on any chopping block... you're just a guy casually asking, "Hey, what do you think about having dinner with me when you have a night off?" If she says yes, you take it from there and see how it goes.

But, as for her telling the other guy she's there till 2am, bartenders often let people know when they're working. The more people they have coming around while they're on shift, the more people they have coming in to tip. Since they rely a lot on tips, how well they do depends on how they treat their bar guests and how many "regulars" they draw when on shift. That said, that does not mean that's what she's doing with you... bartenders are human and though they can be just being hospitable in some cases, there can be attraction there in others. You never know.

I haven't been a real date with her yet but I did asked her to play pool with me again after playing pool with her once and she did say yes to that

 

[niceguy5575]

thank you

thanks for support so far those that answer I am only human too