Help, I'm Not Sure Anymore

[Leyther100]

Heya, ive been around for a while on these boards normally viewing lol. But today i need to ask advice. Me and my ex split months ago, and since then ive had a few girls etc. But my problem is that i dont think another woman is what i need i think i might be gay, and well im really unsure about myself recently, i like girls, but i think i want a man, am i gay or do i want some one who is a woman and a man, transexual, has anybody else ever had these problems or thoughts. I also am worried as ive begun to crossdress and am reallly enjoying it, so is there anybody who could offer me advice etc, in England or anywhere to be honest.....im just so confused.....i guess advice and other people experiences will help so thanks for reading and hope you all will give me advice. Ta Pete xxx

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Hi, IMHO I think you have anumber of different issues here that are getting all mixed up and confusing the hell out of you in the process.

Are you gay, probably not, Bi- curious is more likely.

Since splitting with your ex, you haave been looking for the same depth of feeling in lovemaking which you probaly are not finding in the casualsex you have had since.
I would suggest you try reading some of the gay stories on lit and see if you can imagine yourself in some of those scenarios, it will give you an opportunity to see if it does reallly turn you on.

As for crossdressing, if you are enjoying it, why are you worried? A lot of straight men such as myself crossdress its great fun, feels good, and ladies as well as other guys appreciate it.

As for thinking a transexual would be the solution to your probs, I woud say definitely no. A transexual is a man or a woman, not both. If you dont understand them & respect them, they would steer miles clear of getting involved with you too.

What ever you decided to do, please be safe, carry & use condoms and dont put yourself at risk *HUGS*

 

[HeavenCanWait]

i think naughtyinsilk has it right, you could do a lot worse to listen to her.

If you want some advice from me, feel free to PM me your msn or something. I too recently split with a gf of 2.5 years, I'm now in my first relationship with a man. The journey over the last few months was confusing, but rewarding, so perhaps I can advise you.

Take care for now Pete