HELP!!girlfriend was raped

blondi84 said:
I cant believe that someone stood by while his girlfriend was bieng raped, let alone said that. Course I have never understood a lot of the things men do. Just add that to the list!

The rapist had a gun. The bf was afraid of being shot, as well as a selfish prick.
 
gravyrug said:
The one thing you should NOT do, is say, "Well, since you're not a virgin anymore..."

This was the reaction of my cousin's bf after she was raped in front of him.

Are you f'ing kidding me?
 
BoobsNBrains said:
*drums fingers on desk*

You're in the clear.

But we've established that a large number of n00bs who claim to be from either state have been worthless.

A couple of long-term posters fall within that category, too.
 
what a bunch of great remarks from some of the people with the biggest hearts ever.

no, this is not a attention getter, nor a start of a story, or a joke. she was raped and yes the autorities were called, and all the normal outlets. why come here and ask, cause i actually enjoy a lot of the boards here and despite the majority of the people that have posted thus far, people seem careing here and understanding. so if you people with the high iq's noticed i asked how you help someone thru it. supportive ideas, comments, activities, anything to help bring them thru it, to get them to help open back up. the reason here? cause ive heard a lot of girls on this "porn site" say they have been thru it. so who etter to get advice from....so please unless you have something positive to bring...take your lil 2 cent smart ass comments that are not wanted and go somewhere else...
 
joemorgan said:
supportive ideas, comments, activities, anything to help bring them thru it, to get them to help open back up. the reason here? cause ive heard a lot of girls on this "porn site" say they have been thru it. so who etter to get advice from......

Something akin to this should've been your first post in this thread.

But it wasn't, because you are a moron.

I'll post my smart ass comments wherever I wish, and there isn't fuck all you can do about it. :cool:
 
joemorgan said:
what a bunch of great remarks from some of the people with the biggest hearts ever.

no, this is not a attention getter, nor a start of a story, or a joke. she was raped and yes the autorities were called, and all the normal outlets. why come here and ask, cause i actually enjoy a lot of the boards here and despite the majority of the people that have posted thus far, people seem careing here and understanding. so if you people with the high iq's noticed i asked how you help someone thru it. supportive ideas, comments, activities, anything to help bring them thru it, to get them to help open back up. the reason here? cause ive heard a lot of girls on this "porn site" say they have been thru it. so who etter to get advice from....so please unless you have something positive to bring...take your lil 2 cent smart ass comments that are not wanted and go somewhere else...

Fuck off. You're full of shit and you know it. Trying to get us to feel bad aint gonna work cuz nobody gives a shit.
 
well joe

you sure told me..thanks alot..i must go cry ....in case your to thick in the head to catch it, that was sarcasm...but thanks for putting me in my place


queen, sorry i ddint get more into the first post, as i was putting it down something came up and i had to get off real quick, but i wanted to get it posted
 
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Joe, it's a long haul. A few things might be helpful - ask the police for some information about places that can help you both. Read some books etc. to learn about how it can effect your girlfriend. While the experience is different for everyone, there are often common responses, feelings, thoughts she'd be feeling. The most important thing is support and patience I think.

You might want to read some of this thread - a slightly different topic but some good thoughts.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=119289
 
joemorgan said:
thanks cathleen, ill check out that thread, and thanks for the ideas
You're welcome Joe. I wish the best for both of you.
 
joemorgan said:
what a bunch of great remarks from some of the people with the biggest hearts ever.

no, this is not a attention getter, nor a start of a story, or a joke. she was raped and yes the autorities were called, and all the normal outlets. why come here and ask, cause i actually enjoy a lot of the boards here and despite the majority of the people that have posted thus far, people seem careing here and understanding. so if you people with the high iq's noticed i asked how you help someone thru it. supportive ideas, comments, activities, anything to help bring them thru it, to get them to help open back up. the reason here? cause ive heard a lot of girls on this "porn site" say they have been thru it. so who etter to get advice from....so please unless you have something positive to bring...take your lil 2 cent smart ass comments that are not wanted and go somewhere else...

How can strangers on a message board help your girlfriend who was raped? This calls for serious professional intervention. Sure, we can empathize with your plight all day long, but it is not going to help you or your girlfriend.

I still sense bullshit.
 
Amazing that this thread has been making me laugh hysterically.
 
KRCummings said:
Fuck off. You're full of shit and you know it. Trying to get us to feel bad aint gonna work cuz nobody gives a shit.

This is why your kids have autism. Why they are so cold in response to you.

Because you are a refridgerator.


Your parents fucked your head right up and you never recovered.

You were probably molested or raped yourself.
 
joemorgan said:
what a bunch of great remarks from some of the people with the biggest hearts ever.

no, this is not a attention getter, nor a start of a story, or a joke. she was raped and yes the autorities were called, and all the normal outlets. why come here and ask, cause i actually enjoy a lot of the boards here and despite the majority of the people that have posted thus far, people seem careing here and understanding. so if you people with the high iq's noticed i asked how you help someone thru it. supportive ideas, comments, activities, anything to help bring them thru it, to get them to help open back up. the reason here? cause ive heard a lot of girls on this "porn site" say they have been thru it. so who etter to get advice from....so please unless you have something positive to bring...take your lil 2 cent smart ass comments that are not wanted and go somewhere else...

Don't worry kid, looks like you caught the afternoon shift. There are a lot of really nice and helpful people here, it just appears that a few of them are PMSing.

The two most important things you can do for your GF are to be kind to her and to get her into counseling. Talking about it will help her through it, but it may be some time before she's ready to talk to you. Don't push her too much, but be available and understanding. Lots of hugs and snuggles can't hurt, too.

Oh, and it may be a while before you get laid again. For your sake, I hope I'm wrong, but check out the Ampics section just in case. :p
 
joemorgan said:
to those people who asked, pm'd and had good things to say....thanks alot

These that you mention and those akin in ways to them are the best amongst us.


Whether you are or arent legit isnt relevant to the larger issue. Your earlier request bears scrutiny, consideration and respect to those who deal with being a rape victim or those trying to be supportive whether personally or professionally.

An old Lit link thread on this

Link that some one posted earlier in this thread, it is in Lit "How To" section which was also recommended.

Peace wished with encouragement to all victims in this and those who care for them.
 
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