Ok, so I've never had problems getting my girlfriends to have an orgasm before - they've all told me that I'm the best they've ever had, even after we've broken up, or even if she hates me now. So I feel like I know what I'm doing around a girls body, and feel confident in my abilities to get her to orgasm.
My current girlfriend is being somewhat of a problem - well, she isn't the problem, but I'm having issues getting her to have an orgasm. In fact, she says she has never had one (we're both 21 and have had semi-active sexual live, so she has definitely had the opportunity to have one, but just never has)
When I found this out, I, of course, took it as a challenge. However, there are a few things standing in my way, which is why I am coming here for some help. First of all, I'm really into breasts, and enjoy everything abuot them. I've been able to have girls orgasm just from stimulating their breasts in nipples, so the first hurdle and question - she has close to no feeling in her breasts. Her boobs aren't large, they're more medium/large, and i've heard that sometiems if they are really big, girls can't feel anything. I feel like this isn't the case with her. Now is also a good time to explain that she is a jock - we're both hardcore athletes. What should I do about this part?
I have always enjoyed going down on girls - she hates it. She thinks its disgusting and it doesnt do anything for her. Strike two for me. She likes it when I finger her - but it doesn't cause much more than a relaxation - which is nice, but not if I want her to have an orgasm. Because of my previous successful attempts, i've never worried abuot having to focus solely on the clit, but I feel like maybe I will this time, but i'm not entirely sure where it is, even though I am rather intimate with that area of the woman's body.
So I guess those are the problems. We have no problems with the earlier stages of making out, we're both great kissers and whatnot, but I'd like to be able to do more for her, as I get pleasure out of making her happy.
Any help would be most, MOST appreciated, by me, and hopefully by her
My current girlfriend is being somewhat of a problem - well, she isn't the problem, but I'm having issues getting her to have an orgasm. In fact, she says she has never had one (we're both 21 and have had semi-active sexual live, so she has definitely had the opportunity to have one, but just never has)
When I found this out, I, of course, took it as a challenge. However, there are a few things standing in my way, which is why I am coming here for some help. First of all, I'm really into breasts, and enjoy everything abuot them. I've been able to have girls orgasm just from stimulating their breasts in nipples, so the first hurdle and question - she has close to no feeling in her breasts. Her boobs aren't large, they're more medium/large, and i've heard that sometiems if they are really big, girls can't feel anything. I feel like this isn't the case with her. Now is also a good time to explain that she is a jock - we're both hardcore athletes. What should I do about this part?
I have always enjoyed going down on girls - she hates it. She thinks its disgusting and it doesnt do anything for her. Strike two for me. She likes it when I finger her - but it doesn't cause much more than a relaxation - which is nice, but not if I want her to have an orgasm. Because of my previous successful attempts, i've never worried abuot having to focus solely on the clit, but I feel like maybe I will this time, but i'm not entirely sure where it is, even though I am rather intimate with that area of the woman's body.
So I guess those are the problems. We have no problems with the earlier stages of making out, we're both great kissers and whatnot, but I'd like to be able to do more for her, as I get pleasure out of making her happy.
Any help would be most, MOST appreciated, by me, and hopefully by her
