Hello...married, lonely and scared of my own shadow

xxkjxx

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Hi. I’m a married woman. My husband is a wonderful man he just likes me in more of a friendship sort of way. We have had sex 3 and I’ve given him a blow job twice in the last 4 years. The last time I dropped to my knees and started to unbutton his pants he pushed me off and said no.

I never posted in the personals before but have been reading and liking stories for close to 3 years under the name kjzee4. (I forgot my password to my account and so I made this new one which is my signature anyway.) I’ve even responded to a few.

I don’t really know what I want. I am not pretty, I am 43 and fat. I am disorganized, I get confused and off track easy and am just kind of drifting along through life right now personally.

Sexually, I am just so turned on by so many things that I read in the stories are posted and that I find in the things that people say.

I’m not exactly sure what it is
 
Sexually, I am just so turned on by so many things that I read in the stories are posted and that I find in the things that people say.

I’m not exactly sure what it is[/QUOTE]


Welcome, I would love to talk with you.
 
Sent you a private message

Check them in the upper right hand corner of the Lit screen.
 
Common now!

Hi KJ,

Ok, your 43 and the 40's are the time a lot of married poeple start to have trouble and feel just like you are describing. I don't want to diminish what your saying in any way and how do you know your ugly? You could be the most beautiful woman in the world just arriving at that moment that your gonna see it. I bumped my way through my late 30's to my mid 40's thinking something was wrong with me and all it meant was I needed a change in my life. I needed to feel it to become aware and then do something about it.

So, here you are. Maybe this is the start of your change. Im saying hello because I know your not ugly and I am all ears. And send me a message if you want and I will make sure to respond. Be kind to yourself KJ and welcome to lit.

Will
 
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Hello there. Sent a PM but i would love to strile up a chat witj you in interested.
 
hey kj hoping to here from u today...pm box filled lucky u
 
I am so sorry

Wow! Thank you so so much! I am so grateful for your responses! I am having trouble figuring how to do anything other than delete messages which I don’t want to do until I get to talk to you! I’m working on it and appreciate your advice, your good perspectives and just your time!
 
Wow! Thank you so so much! I am so grateful for your responses! I am having trouble figuring how to do anything other than delete messages which I don’t want to do until I get to talk to you! I’m working on it and appreciate your advice, your good perspectives and just your time!
Here is a tip for you:

Go to your private message inbox and scroll down to near the bottom. You will find that you can download all of your private messages into three different file formats — including text. Do that and ensure that you can read them from the saved file; then once you can confirm that, you can delete your entire private message inbox so that you may receive more private messages.

I wish all the best for you, xxkjxx — and may your private message inbox keep filling to capacity with all of the potential ways in which your erotic fantasies may be fulfilled.
 
Thanks Eisranac! I’ll try that right now 😊 I hope those things for you as well!
 
Kj,
Reading your post made me happy and sad for you all at once.
Happy you are finding your voice and seeking out some diversion for yourself on Lit.
Sad how your self talk is so negative.

It’s easy for me to say because I, too, speak very poorly about myself at times.

As someone else said the 40’s are a time we reflect a lot.

My marriage is shaky and I make a million and one excuses why I don’t go. At time we aren’t even friends. But this isn’t about me, it’s about you.

You said “I’m 43 and fat”. So what??? You’re 43 and have nothing to prove but to yourself! You’re unorganized, so what? Some of the best people in life are unorganized.

I’m glad to hear your inbox is flooded! I hope you can find your escape and also reflect about your self worth.

If you need a female friend to talk and express yourself you can always send me a message. I hate to see other women so down on themselves. There no motivation in my message for anything other than being a friend.

Have a great week!!
 
For what its worth, I think we all go through this and experience these feelings. I know I have been.
 
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