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Before we answer can we ask if you’re day drinking? :cattail:

I’ve interacted with loads of people without having a clue where they are from for ages... but I may not be a great control group - I’m not really looking for romance.. or sex... or whatever...

It’s 10.20 in California.... I haven’t even had a cup of tea yet ( I was struck by The Insomnia last night). Just getting out of bed... the quaint little stove top kettle is whistling
 
Hello all... hello new people of indeterminate gender

Can I do that really irritating thing I do which is a random swerve of subject matter?
So, you may be aware that I am in possession of a vagina and as such attract a certain volume of PMs. To be brutal the vast majority of them I do not respond to ( terrible manners I know) Primarily I don’t answer for reasons that have been discussed before .... generic content, no profile info, no posts etc. But am I being a xenophobic bitch to not respond to someone because of the country they originate from? This is nothing to do with cultural differences or attitudes towards women which might be a concern in some places ( UAE) this is purely about looks. As an example is it ever ok to go “ Hmmmm men from China are not really my thing “. I know that you could show me beautiful Chinese men who I would find attractive but overall I’m not generally attracted. ( NB the country in question is not China)

I’m going to lose my “ liberal” card carrying status aren’t I ?

Indian. Can't give a good reason (and I'm sure there'd be exceptions)

And scouse accents (soz) too harsh
 
But am I being a xenophobic bitch to not respond to someone because of the country they originate from? This is nothing to do with cultural differences or attitudes towards women which might be a concern in some places ( UAE) this is purely about looks. As an example is it ever ok to go “ Hmmmm men from China are not really my thing “. I know that you could show me beautiful Chinese men who I would find attractive but overall I’m not generally attracted. ( NB the country in question is not China)
I’m going to lose my “ liberal” card carrying status aren’t I ?

You would be a xenophobic bitch if you were saying that you didn't want to give a job to, live nextdoor to, or be friends with someone based on their country of origin. I don't think we have a lot of control over the physical qualities that attract us to others. If you are generally attracted to Nordic types, a guy with typically Greek or Turkish looks might not do it for you. I don't think that makes you a xenophobic or less "liberal" person. If you are using it as a first step to weed through the copious amount of pm's you have, I think that's fine.

However, I think many of us have had great relationships and/or great sex with people who aren't physically our "type". In my case, a short, skinny, stereotypically NYC Jewish guy and a guy with albinism. That said, if I was attempting your task, the person in question would go in the "maybe" pile, not the "definitely respond" pile.
 
Oh isn't the fun in not knowing,,, actually I think the film 'The Crying Game' showed us that the fun is definitely not in the not knowing..

Fucking excellent start there...

Hi!

Kudos to referencing a chick with a dick fairly straight off the bat!

What???

(Nope, not drink but lack of sleep)
 
Welcome f3x0r ... yes, Allia does speak truth; more details about you is a courtesy.

Other newcomers, welcome!
 
I think we're playing with the wrong shaped balls , bach. Is there a fantasy best game played in God's own country league?

Na too many variables.

And the fans actually have a life of drinking down the pub talking to each other;)
 
Oh I’ve seen her before yes she’s gorgeous. I tell you where you don’t want to be if you’re a Rubenesque pale British woman.... on the beach in California that’s where.
 
Go sports teams! Do the thing with the sports ball that gets the sports points!

Also yes, that girl is smoking hot.

However...

Sometimes I'm a little irritated by plus size models. Well not by them precisely. It seems to me that to be considered beautiful at a plus size, you must simply have a skinny face. Where are all the beautiful big women who have chins for days?
 
Go sports teams! Do the thing with the sports ball that gets the sports points!

Also yes, that girl is smoking hot.

However...

Sometimes I'm a little irritated by plus size models. Well not by them precisely. It seems to me that to be considered beautiful at a plus size, you must simply have a skinny face. Where are all the beautiful big women who have chins for days?

They’re definitely within certain parameters of conventional beauty I do agree. Generally hourglass shape for a start, young and tall. ( and while we’re at it white). I think the two women on the Boots advert who are heading to the beach with their sarongs on are supposed to represent “ normal” women but look like a size UK 10/12 to me.

https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/boots-advert-summer-2019
 
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