Heartbreak?

[KnightInArmour]

I am undergoing through a terrible heartbreak and it pains me more to log in here everytime since this is the place we first met.I am totally destroyed and I thought if i shared it with somebody,it would lessen some pain and clear my head so that i could continue working.Now I do not have much posts but i sure wanna be part of this.And thanks to the chaps who run this place.Fine job.I just met the "love of my life here".Anyway I am not rich and she met someone quite wealthy and well settled with better means in a better location.So thats obvious .She chose him.
Would you like to share your heartbreaks in this thread if you ever had , what were the reasons and how you got over it.
Any kind of replies would be welome anyway.

 

[Mrs.P]

Sorry to hear you are going through that. It hurts when you lose someone you loved. Can you still be friends? keep in touch some way?

 

[KnightInArmour]

Sorry to hear you are going through that. It hurts when you lose someone you loved. Can you still be friends? keep in touch some way?

She still wanted to be friends but I cannot see her in someone else's arms.It magnifies the pain and morever as I have caught Jaundice and have to work and go to college, A hectic lifestyle,I dont think I will be able to handle that magnified pain.So I chose to suffer alone.I have no friends down here too as I do not find much time to socialise.So it looks better when sweet people like you care to reply.Anyway how can you still be friends with someone whom you saw your life with, dreamt about night and day?She still hasn't replied to any messages and does not pick her phone when I call.So i guess this is it.I am at a very important junction of my life and have to work now.Anyway i recently topped my university which I had worked for all my life(as i left home at 14) and three days after the result I am sad.Thats how life is sometimes.
Thanks for replying.It helps.

 

[Mrs.P]

awww, well, don't deny yourself the right to grieve. If you gotta cry, you cry, but then you pick yourself up and move on. It sounds like you've got a lot going for you and a long life ahead of you. The right person will come along.

What's this about jaundice? I've never heard of that in an adult before.

 

[sereneone4u]

KIA, check your emails--i did respond. I have children and responsibilities. I did not pick the other man bc of money--I never said he had money, I told you what his job is and his age and how much I love him. You are 21 and I am 37--I am very flattered by your attentions, but you will see in the long run that I was right. I will gladly be your friend.

 

[KnightInArmour]

KIA, check your emails--i did respond. I have children and responsibilities. I did not pick the other man bc of money--I never said he had money, I told you what his job is and his age and how much I love him. You are 21 and I am 37--I am very flattered by your attentions, but you will see in the long run that I was right. I will gladly be your friend.

I did tell you I was 21,I opened my life's book in front of you.
1.I told you I was 21.
2.I told you I didn't have money.
3.I said I loved You.
But things got along right and i am grateful for that.
But you did tell me that:
1.You are 37.
2.You had children and resposibilities(I too have.everybody has)
3.You told me that you cared .
Then why do you repeat the same things again?
Anyway ,i dont want to force my way up you.You are always your life's master.I dont force and i dont beg.I thought about it.And yes I would like to continue to be your friend.But please reply to your messages at lit.Give me a call atleast sweetheart as i gave you one.
You can well do it , cant you.I understand.Its allright.
Still love you.Can we still talk on MSN?You are online.Plz come if you want to talk still.

 

[KnightInArmour]

That is still no good.You cant share my pain and I need to move on.More comments welcome plz.It Helps.