He keeps coming out... HELP

[Serenahh]

When I'm on top, it often happens that my boyfriend's penis sort of comes out. Its not that he's small - in fact, he's the biggest I've had..... Am I just pulling up too high? Anyone else have this problem? Anyone have any suggestions?

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Could be your going to high, or your both not in the same motion. I know sometimes me and my gf come out from her going to high and to fast, or just hitting the angel wrong.

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, you're likely going up too high. I've also found it happens when I lean then move too far forward or back and move at a pace that allows me to keep some amount of control. You might try more of a back and forth motion, moving your pelvis around, varying speed and gripping him with your vaginal muscles for different types of stimulation for both of you. Lifting up so high he's coming out isn't necessary at all, and staying closer increases clitoral stimulation.

You also might try Reverse Cowgirl or doing it on a couch, chair, or with him sitting up in bed so you have more control and are still able to be close and kiss. I'm also a big fan of sitting positions because I can brace myself with my arms and move in such a way that my g-spot gets a lot of extra attention.

 

[Duco]

It's happened to me several times and I can honestly tell you that it can really hurt the dude if it gets "stubbed" trying to find it's way back in. Sometimes my wifes is really getting into it and I have to hold her down some cause I don't want to feel that pain again. OUCH!

 

[e-monster]

When I'm on top, it often happens that my boyfriend's penis sort of comes out. Its not that he's small - in fact, he's the biggest I've had..... Am I just pulling up too high? Anyone else have this problem? Anyone have any suggestions?

You must be really be enjoying youself!

I agree with Duco's advice. Use caution when coming back down.

 

[mastagraff]

its not that your going to high if he is fucking you and it comes out its he is pulling to far back and doenst know how to keep it in or your soaking wet and it slips out, and if your going to high he should know and adjust himself so you dont pop off..............................................

 

[M's girl]

Even (......) happens in porn.
Mostly they will cut it out but sometimes you see it happening there too so...

You can work on getting a better rhythm together and see what positions are better. But is it a bad thing? Yeah... if you are close and break the spell that way I guess. I think overall it happens to everyone at one point.

Mastagraff makes a valid point too.... it's also something he can influence, certainly if he is making the motions underneath you.

 

[human_male]

Console yourself with the knowledge that's he's probably never been fucked like that before in his life.

 

[silverwhisper]

this happens rather a lot to me and most commonly b/c there isn't a rhythm.

ed

 

[TBKahuna123]

Console yourself with the knowledge that's he's probably never been fucked like that before in his life.

LOL That's exactly what I was thinking! This is nothing more than a problem of overenthusiasm on your part, his part, or maybe both. Lord knows there are worse problems to have, right?

The key to remember is that the further forward you lean, the less of him which will be able to penetrate you, do the less you can move. My wife loves to lay forward on my chest and kiss me, but she knows she can't move too much or I'll pop out. If she is straight upright she can go to town for the most part. Angle does matter. We've found that Reverse Cowgirl is perfect for those times when she wants to be on top and feeling vigorous, for lack of a better term. It also allows her to achieve deeper penetration, because of that angle.

 

[Serenahh]

Thanks for the advice

Thanks for the advice everyone - Obviously its not the worst porblem in the world - its just that its a new guy.... I think its height and rhythm - we don't have "our" rhythm yet - but I bet we'll have a lot of fun finding it!

 

[jason_jenn]

If it reoccurs a lot but you like being on top, just sit on him and roll your hips back and forth or side to side... It's a bit more gentle and feels GGGrrreat!!

 

[Tuomas]

Or, it could be you are going too low. An ex did that a lot, and it actually hurt quite a lot....

 

[Argetni]

It happens often with my wife, I have a small penis (5.5") and she gets so wet and so wild that it just pops out.

Sometimes it pokes her butt and she squeals

 

[human_male]

It happens often with my wife, I have a small penis (5.5") and she gets so wet and so wild that it just pops out.

Sometimes it pokes her butt and she squeals

5.5" isn't small.

 

[phoenix1224]

5.5" isn't small.

Exactly.

Seeing since 5.03" is sited by the editors of "Men's Health" as being "average", 5.5" makes you "above average".

 

[yudi_lks]

Maybe you watch too much porn... Not everyone has 8" penis you know...

 

[Chicklet]

5.5" isn't small.

i feel like the only reason guys mention their penis size in their posts is to hear "oh, that's not small!"

(sorry for hijack)

 

[molonel]

That happens with me and my redhead. It's occasionally because of rhythm, but lubrication also plays a part.