he gets me almost there...then STOP

[subgrl18]

Ok here goes nothing...tonight my Master did something Hes never done before... He got me all worked up then let me touch...like many times before...this time however right before i was about to cum He said STOP and i said what and He said STOP NOW and so i did...my whole body was tingling like crazy but i stopped of course. the weird thing is i then realized that He had also stopped what he was doing. when i asked Him (in shaky voice) why He stopped if i had done something to ruin His mood He said no but His domination and sadistic side of hearing me suffer was more to Him than His orgasm He was so close to having. I understood because my submitting to His words ment more to me than any orgasm. But i continued to wonder why He had stopped...He could have cum AND listened to me pant while trying to calm down. He said to come on here and ask the Doms on here why (and if) it is more important to them to dominate their subs THAN get their own pleasure? Just curoius what other Doms will say.

 

[Betticus]

Sounds like he's just a jerk control freak.

 

[subgrl18]

hahaha oh yes he is!

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

This is funny, because Snooze and I JUST had this conversation. We'd had a really intense session last night and I felt amazing, but once he brought me back down, I realized he hadn't come. This wasn't the first time this had happened, but it was the first time I asked him about it. I told him I felt really bad that he hadn't gotten his pleasure. He explained to me that he gets the same endorphin rush from the thrill of dominating me that he gets from having an orgasm. He said for him it's about the mind fuck as much as it is the literal act.

 

[kiten69]

He said STOP and i said what and He said STOP NOW and so i did...my whole body was tingling like crazy but i stopped of course.

*sigh* I've had that done to me before. . .

The frustration in my voice was just as much a turn on for him as the act itself. . .Doms

 

[subgrl18]

*sigh* I've had that done to me before. . .

The frustration in my voice was just as much a turn on for him as the act itself. . .Doms

lol there quite interesting arent they... i wish i could get in a Doms head sometimes hahaha

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[BiBunny]

Mine is so much like me (except for the "has a penis" thing) that it's scary. Not at all hard to figure out what's going on in his mind.

 

[mytwocents]

lol there quite interesting arent they... i wish i could get in a Doms head sometimes hahaha

Do you think that it's really a self test to see if he has complete control over you? Consider this: What other way could he so satisfactorily test his capabilities than shutting off your orgasm at the last possible moment. Besides, doing so inflicts pain and feeds his sadistic nature.

 

[graceanne]

What a jerk. Dump the guy.

 

[subgrl18]

What a jerk. Dump the guy.

heheheheh hes gonna be maaaaad at you when he read this! hehe u better go run ----------------------------------------------------------> over there and hide!

 

[graceanne]

heheheheh hes gonna be maaaaad at you when he read this! hehe u better go run ----------------------------------------------------------> over there and hide!

I'm not 'skeered.

 

[subgrl18]

you SHOULD be do you know how BIG and STRONG my Dom is???

 

[mytwocents]

What a jerk. Dump the guy.

Cumming isn't everything. Haven't you ever fucked and got into it so deeply that the fucking itself became the end and not the means to the end?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Do you think that it's really a self test to see if he has complete control over you? Consider this: What other way could he so satisfactorily test his capabilities than shutting off your orgasm at the last possible moment. Besides, doing so inflicts pain and feeds his sadistic nature.

Hmmmm, not sure it inflicts pain. F has done it before, but not restricted to only orders to stop but on occasion using something like an unexpected hard slap across the face or such to instantly shock me out of the orgasm I was on the edge of.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

you SHOULD be do you know how BIG and STRONG my Dom is???

Yes, I do. I also know how far from me he is.

 

[graceanne]

Cumming isn't everything. Haven't you ever fucked and got into it so deeply that the fucking itself became the end and not the means to the end?

I'm teasing subgrl and her dom, since I know them both and am thrilled that they're together.

 

[subgrl18]

awww thankyou Gracie! *passes Gracie a chocolate cookie*

 

[subgrl18]

Do you think that it's really a self test to see if he has complete control over you? Consider this: What other way could he so satisfactorily test his capabilities than shutting off your orgasm at the last possible moment. Besides, doing so inflicts pain and feeds his sadistic nature.

yes good point that might be it.

 

[graceanne]

awww thankyou Gracie! *passes Gracie a chocolate cookie*

 

[BiBunny]

Hmmmm, not sure it inflicts pain. F has done it before, but not restricted to only orders to stop but on occasion using something like an unexpected hard slap across the face or such to instantly shock me out of the orgasm I was on the edge of.

Catalina

Well, it hurts my FEELINGS to be denied orgasm. That should count for something, right?

 

[subgrl18]

Well, it hurts my FEELINGS to be denied orgasm. That should count for something, right?

hehe of course it does!

 

[subgrl18]

i liked it tho...ALOT...because it put me in the sub headspace...it made me relize that he was in controle and not me. And when he said i was a good girl for stopping i felt more pleasure than 100 orgasms could have giving me

 

[mytwocents]

Hmmmm, not sure it inflicts pain. F has done it before, but not restricted to only orders to stop but on occasion using something like an unexpected hard slap across the face or such to instantly shock me out of the orgasm I was on the edge of.

Catalina

The pain is the consequence of denial. The sub is heading for something that's going to feel so good, but has to force herself not to get that great feeling so as to obey her Dom.
That is painful.

 

[mytwocents]

Well, it hurts my FEELINGS to be denied orgasm. That should count for something, right?

Exactly!