having sex while pregnant

[Voosla]

Ok, here's the deal. I'm 7 months pregnant, i've been horny as hell through most of the pregnancy, still am, but it's becoming difficult enjoying sex. The other night my hubby and I started to have sex, it had been about 2 weeks since the last time, and the baby went thru a growth spurt. No matter what we did I couldnt enjoy it. We started out in missionary position, but with my tummy in the way we were having problems. We switched positions, i was on the couch he was kneeling in front of me, didn't touch my tummy at all. But I just couldn't get into it. Muscles were starting to ache, the actual sex was somewhat painful, etc. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions?? I think part of my problem is that lately I've been doing a lot of pleasing him, back rubs, oral sex, playing with him a lot before sex, teasing him till he can't stand it, etc, but haven't been getting much in return. Don't get me wrong, I love to please him, and it turns me on so much to do so, but sometimes you need a little back. And yes i've tried talking to him, maybe not as much as I should, but when ever it comes up we seem to get into an argument, or as emotional as i am being pregnant, i start to cry and can't get any words out.

Anyways, any suggestions would help.

 

[huskie]

Sorry about him not pleasing you. Or I should say his lack of trying to. Tell him, "you don't eat my pussy now, Then I'll not be sucking your cock for the six weeks after the birth !!"

Possistions? Try laying on your side with one leg pulled up. My wife started that when she was pregnate and now prefers it most of the time.

 

[NoJo]

What the fuck

Voosla, we men are weird. We tend regress even more when the baby's born. We get scared of the responsibities, financial and otherwise. We also get shit scared of you when you get pregnant. You get so big and powerful, some of us just can't handle it!
We want you to be Mommy, whore, and sometimes Virgin Mary, whenever WE feel like it.

My suggestion is to use this time an opportunity to get some real unselfish service out of him. I just can't believe YOU'RE giving HIM back rubs! Fuck his back rubs -- this is definitely a time when you should come first -- literally!

Joe (two great kids, one huge mortgage)

 

[Tropism]

I somewhat agree with Sub Joe; you should come first right now. While I dont have any practical experience to share-- if you havent come across this site yet, it might be worth a browse:

Pregnancy

Some excerpts:

Q: I haven't really been in the mood since I got pregnant. Is this normal?
A: Yes. The big changes in your body are bound to change your sex life. Some women, finally free from worries about conception and contraception, feel sexier than ever. But others are just too tired or nauseated to make love, especially in the first trimester. The second trimester is often marked by a resurging libido. Your desire may wane again in the third trimester as birth, labor, and your belly loom large, or you may simply feel unattractive.



Q: Which positions are the most comfortable?
A: Here are some time-tested positions and tips for making love while you're pregnant:
• Lie sideways. Having your partner on top demands increasingly creative gymnastics as your tummy swells. But lying partly sideways allows your partner to keep most of his weight off your uterus.

• Use the bed as a prop. Your bulge isn't an obstacle if you lie on your back at the side or foot of the bed with your knees bent, and your bottom and feet perched at the edge of the mattress. Your partner can either kneel or stand in front of you.

• Lie side-by-side in the spoon position, which allows for only shallow penetration. Deep thrusts can become uncomfortable as the months pass.

• Get on top of your partner. It puts no weight on your abdomen and allows you to control the depth of penetration.

• Enter from a sitting position, which also puts no weight on the uterus. Try sitting on your partner's lap as he sits on a [sturdy] chair.

 

[DDebby]

He needs to give you some oral loving , you dont get any then he doesnt get any.

 

[Monazwx]

I was going to suggest the side-by-side sex but Huskie already did.
BUT, you should give him any sex until he tends to your needs.
Pregnancy is a special time in a woman's life where she needs to be pampered.
Tell your guy to be more attentive.

Mona

 

[Lilbudy]

CONGRATS

Congrats are first in order.

I'm not sure I can idenity with your man on not paying you proper attention in your pregger state. To me a pregnant woman is MOST attractive/sexy. They've always seemed especailly sexy to me.

As for positions, you may try lay'n on your back with him at your side. Raise one of your legs slightly and he can place one or both of his legs under your raised leg. That allows him to enter you from a sorta side position. It does have all of the baby's weight on your stomach though and you many not find that comfortable, but he's not pressing on your belly at all.

Best wish and good luck,

xoxo

lb

 

[NoJo]

Off topic

Mona, I've fallen in helplessly in love with your avatar. Maybe after my 100th post my avatar and your avatar can get together for a drink sometime!

Joe

 

[Rooster]

My wife just gave birth about a month ago .... When she was pregnant .... during sex ..... I'd sit on the couch .... leaning back ... she'd squat on top of me, feet planted on the cousions next to me .... She controlled all the movement ..... about 80% of the time .... she had an orgasim.

Everytime I tried to thrust ... it'd screw it up for her ... so Ihad to lay still .... but her riding me ... pick the angle and movements made up for it entirely.