Have you had a threesome?

ohiobbw

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Ok, plenty of people talk about it. Lots of people want to do it (at least in theory). So have you ever had a threesome?
If so what was the gender makeup of the group. (F/F/F, M/M/M F/F/M M/M/F)
Also were you in a serious relationship at the time?
What was the relationship between the three?
Have you done it again? (Same group?)
If you haven't done it again, do you want to? If not, why?
Did it change your relationship?

Do I ask too many questions? :p

If you haven't do you want to?
What gender makeup would you want?
 
Well this was supposed to be a poll, but it didn't work!:confused:

Last few questions

Had you ever been involved in an orgy or group sex?
Do you want to?



Personally, I have not had sex at all. So no threesome here. But I have thought about it. I would prefer M/F/F or F/F/F. However if I was in a serious relationship I don't think I would do it. Because I think it would bother me to see my S/O with someone else.
 
ohiobbw said:
So have you ever had a threesome?
Yes
If so what was the gender makeup of the group. (F/F/F, M/M/M F/F/M M/M/F).........F/F/M
Also were you in a serious relationship at the time?
nope i was single at the time......
What was the relationship between the three?
She was a very good friend of mine.....
Have you done it again? (Same group?)
No, and probably never will......
If you haven't done it again, do you want to? If not, why?
Turned out to be an ugly experience......
Did it change your relationship?
Yes, she thought I was having an affair with her husband......
Do I ask too many questions? :p
No, just the right amount I guess
If you haven't do you want to?
What gender makeup would you want?
 
ohiobbw said:
If you haven't do you want to?
What gender makeup would you want? [/B]

Most definately but it would have to be with the right person, of course!

Funny thing is, my husband and I have discussed it many occasions and when the opportunity was available at one time.... he told the woman, "sorry we would love to, but we're too tired tonight". LOL
 
Yes!.....and it really pisses me off when the forth person does not show up for the g o l f uhhhh nevermind..........misread it:eek:
 
ok, i don't remember it.. but it's on video so i know the story was true

M/F/F

a roommate, a guy we picked up in a bar and myself

yes, i was in a relationship at the time, he was in alcohol rehab.

roommates husband was gone for the weekend.

we went out.. i got really drunk.. she picked up this guy.. he went home with us.. i passed out.. and in the video you see me wake up.. look at them going at it on the same bed i'm sleeping in. I roll over and wake up the next day at about 3 pm.. he's gone and she is asleep on the floor.

This counts doesn't it?:confused: :D ;)
 
I havn't had one.:( I WANT one. If I DO have one, it would be M/F/F
 
ohiobbw said:
Ok, plenty of people talk about it. Lots of people want to do it (at least in theory). So have you ever had a threesome?

Yes

If so what was the gender makeup of the group. (F/F/F, M/M/M F/F/M M/M/F)

M/M/F

Also were you in a serious relationship at the time?

I was single and dating one of the guys, but not really seriously

What was the relationship between the three?

My boyfriend at the time and one of his buddies

Have you done it again? (Same group?)

Nope

If you haven't done it again, do you want to? If not, why?

Only if the combination of people were "right"

Did it change your relationship?

No, but it wasn't a serious reletionship to begin with

Do I ask too many questions? :p

Nope, not at all.

 
Well, I thought was gonna have one the other night... PC had me all excited at the thought of it... and then he disappeared... :(

lol

seriously, I've never had one, would like to (in theory) but doubt that's an option given my current 'status'
 
I have had a threesome before....actually I have had it about 9 times in my life.

It allways affects the relationship of the people involved,provideing there is one.

I have been involved in a M/M/F one

as well as a F/F/M.

I'm a male for those of you that don't know me.




CH
 
I have been the third to a couple several different times. I was always unnattached at the time. I have never had a partner and added a third to our sexplay. If the people and situation were compatible I would consider doing it again.
 
A threesome with myself and two women has been one of my favorite fantasies for a very long time, but it is one of those fantasies that I have always considered too risky to act on. I am in a committed relationship, and I would not want to jeopardise that. I think adding another person to the mix would not be helpful to anything but my own selfish desires, and I would never do something like that to the woman I love.
 
Skibum said:
I think adding another person to the mix would not be helpful to anything but my own selfish desires, and I would never do something like that to the woman I love.
It doesn't have to be that way - but for many relationships/people that is a problem. And I agree, it is not enough to jeopardize a relationship over. A menage a trois, while a fantasy of mine, is not a requirement, just something I would like to do from time to time, or at least try once.
 
I guess I've kind of had a threesome. I had my partner and a male friend tease and please the hell out of me. Not like I'm complaining or anything! :)

Obviously M/M/F :p

Yes I was in a very serious relationship. I'd been with my partner for about 5 years.

The other guy involved was a friend of ours. We'd been involved in a swap with him and his girlfriend before.

We haven't really gotten together a lot for play in a while. I had a lot of issues in the past year that interfered with my relationship with my partner. That needed more work than having fun. I would do it again but with someone different involved. We've lost touch with the friend for totally unrelated issues.

It never really changed our relationship. We're still close and we still enjoy sex without other people involved :D

I'd love to do it again and so would my partner. He'd like F/F/M obviously and so would I :) Mind you, I'd like M/M/F too but first things first!
 
A loooooooong time ago, I participated in a F/F/F.
I do think about the possibilities of M/F/F and M/F/M.
 
Well guess this will be my first reply
Yes I have had each m/m/f and f/f/m both with the same woman and the relationship was committed and never changed how we cared for each other. It did make sex exciteing for months after each time.
the m/m/f threesome was with my best friend that, was the only way I could have done it because I trusted him and knew he would respect my girlfriend as I do.
His and my relationship has not changed either ,as a matter of fact I don't think we have ever mentioned it again.
The f/f/m was with a friend of hers for my birthday. Yes it was exciteing to see two women enjoying each other,but i have to admit it was always in the back of my mind to make sure I paid extra attention to my girlfriend than the other woman. I am horney Not Stupid Lmao
I can say from my experience if you are not very sure how you will handle it don't do it.
and it was fun!!!!!
we will some day do it again I hope
 
Never done it, but I have had an interest in it for a while. I offered to do m/f/f, or m/m/f with hubby. He said no to both. Is it just me, or is that not normal for a hetro sexual male in his mid 20's???
 
I'm guessing he is worried about jealousy--his, yours or both. He's probably being pretty wise.

I've never done this, but have a friend who has tried it a few times. She says it has always ended badly. Why she keeps trying, I don't know.
 
I think the key to our enjoyment was already being familiar with the extra in the relationship. We were already comfortable together,the threesome just added a bit of spice.
Another thing I think helped was there was no fear of STDs since I knew where my friend had been and she knew where her friend had been.
To the young lady whose husband isn't interested.
I say again if you are both not very sure of what you are doing and why you are doing it.
Don't do it.
I am sure he has his reasons.
 
Well, to answer some of your questions, yes I have had a 3some.

It involved myself, (obviously) a male friend of mine, and a mutal female friend. Did it change our relationships with each other? No, we were all drunk consenting adults. Have we done it since the first time? Yes, 2 other times after that. Was there contact between the two males? No, not at all. Mind you this all happened about 3 years ago. The woman we did this with was also the first person I had sex with. (Did I just type that?)
 
Yes, on several occassions (sp? drunk, doesn't look right - before Azwed proclaims me off my medication). It's bad with a wife, who gets jealous, but good with strangers, and sometimes awkward with an established couple (see #1).

Always been Me/F/F for the record.

Oh yeah, Imma guy!

Imus you!
 
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