Have you ever...

[SensualCealy]

been in a situation where you could masterbate every single night of the week or hour of the day, yet when your partner is around you want absolutely nothing to do with him/her?

I love him, but just not interested lately, I guess my imagination is more of a turn on right now...any thoughts?

C

 

[TheeGoatPig]

been in a situation where you could masterbate every single night of the week or hour of the day, yet when your partner is around you want absolutely nothing to do with him/her?

I love him, but just not interested lately, I guess my imagination is more of a turn on right now...any thoughts?

C

No. I didn't start masturbating in the first place until my sex life was officially over already.

 

[only_more_so]

been in a situation where you could masterbate every single night of the week or hour of the day, yet when your partner is around you want absolutely nothing to do with him/her?

I love him, but just not interested lately, I guess my imagination is more of a turn on right now...any thoughts?

C

Well, the question is why don't you want him? Does it not feel good? Is there something he does that you don't like? Some smell, or taste? Tired of worrying about condoms or such? Do you get left unsatisfied or worry too much about satisfying him?

I think there are a lot of mental blocks that could contribute to what you're talking about, you just need to figure out which it is. Maybe you just don't find him sexy, even though you love him (since they aren't the same thing!)

 

[somberReality]

No. I didn't start masturbating in the first place until my sex life was officially over already.

I agree with him. Same situation here.

And it sucks.

Not in a good way either.

Bah!!

 

[flavortang]

My imagination is my mistress... and I fuck that bitch every night. But I make her breakfast in the morning so it's all good.

 

[human_male]

It doesn't sound like you're that into him.

I can't be bothered with anything. I force myself now and again coz it's unhealthy not to, but nothing seems to turn me on anymore.

I hope it's not going to be like this for the rest of my life. Porn, wanking and filth in general was the one thing I could always count on.

 

[impressive]

been in a situation where you could masterbate every single night of the week or hour of the day, yet when your partner is around you want absolutely nothing to do with him/her?

I love him, but just not interested lately, I guess my imagination is more of a turn on right now...any thoughts?

C

Been there. I was very interested in sex -- just not with him. I married the most vanilla man ever. Guess I thought he'd loosen up over time. WRONG!

He'd be content to have the exact same formula sex each and every damned time. Bland, recipe sex. *yawn* No spice whatsoever. Oh, I could bring it -- and he'd kinda go along -- but not before I saw that flash of revulsion on his face. After a while, it got to require more energy than it was worth.

Now, of course, that we're divorcing, he's suggesting all manner of things in an effort to resurrect something that's quite dead.

But, I digress.