Have you ever gotten offered something for free as a come on?

[TheNiteSiren]

This sounds silly but I have had it happen before. Just this morning in a chat I met a nice guy who is a massage therapist one town over. I am going to be there later on today for a medical appointment. Sweet guy with a nice sense of humor and a job, almost as rare as purple elephant in these parts but he's way too young for me. He said that didn't matter, that we could be friends and if i ever came in that I could have one massage paid by him.

Has this ever happened to you? (not talking free sex but more like my story) Did you take the offer? (if u don;t want to say then thats cool) Do you see that as using the person whether or not you end up going out? I am very inexperienced and frankly have no idea how I should have answered but I was honest with him.

Just curious as to what you guys think.

 

[Pondlife]

Don't think it ever has happened to me.

I do think you should go for it, if that's also part of the question.

 

[TheNiteSiren]

Don't think it ever has happened to me.

I do think you should go for it, if that's also part of the question.

Sort of. I just don't want to lead anyone on. I have seen girls use my brother (the idiot) to get their nails done, their hair done. I just hated them for that and they turned around and never spoke to him again. Never want to be one of those.

 

[ashk85]

I was in the pub once after an Ed Byrne show, and this semi-drunk guy started talking to me; he asked me what I did, and I told him I was a computer animation student. He said he worked for a bank and they needed someone to do their advertising.

Anyway, it quickly dawned on me that it was a ruse to get my number, so I bailed quickly.

 

[Pondlife]

Sort of. I just don't want to lead anyone on. I have seen girls use my brother (the idiot) to get their nails done, their hair done. I just hated them for that and they turned around and never spoke to him again. Never want to be one of those.

Sounds like you've been open and honest and that he's still happy enough about it, doesn't really sound same scenario as brothers.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I've accepted a cup of coffee..

don't know that I'd accept a massage. I've never had a massage where I wasn't naked.. under a sheet.. with my eyes closed..
as a come on, I might question his professional ethics.. lol

(now if I already knew that I wanted to be naked with him.. bring it on!)

 

[Beck31]

Sort of. A former flat mate offered me a free pint each time I went out with his cousin. This was a few years ago. While I like the idea of a free pint I would have gone out with his cousin anyway.

 

[C5MiGuy]

What is this "come on" of which you speak?

I am unfamiliar with such an action being directed towards me.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

yes i have..