Have you ever followed a stranger just to stare at their body longer?

[CurtGiles46]

Have you ever followed a stranger in public just to stare at their body longer?

I’ve done this a few times. When I was in college, I saw a beautiful blonde professor walking in the hallways of the Spanish building. I had never had her as a teacher for a class. I just noticed her walking by one day and slowly realized her identity as a professor.

I liked her fashion sense: blouses, pencil skirts, pantyhose, high heels.

I only followed her inside the Spanish building so it wasn’t like I was following her to her car or anything super weird like that. I remember one day standing closely behind her ass as she walked up the stairs. I think I just enjoyed the visual of her body up close and the emotional rush from doing this. My heart was racing so it made me feel very alive.

 

[jaF0]

^^^ Have you ever been arrested for stalking?

 

[CurtGiles46]

^^^ Have you ever been arrested for stalking?

Following someone around a small college building while you are a student at that school isn’t exactly stalking. I thought this of all forums wouldn’t have a hysterical response. Reality check, it was also 25 years ago! Did you skip your meds today?

 

[CurtGiles46]

The feminist author and lecturer, Camille Paglia, once said she followed the French actress Catherine Deneuve around a mall in New York City when she saw her shopping there.

 

[jaF0]

Many of your posts and threads have been somewhat questionable. I've more or less left them alone so far, but that may not continue.

 

[Orchidea73]

Have you ever followed a stranger in public just to stare at their body longer?

Yep. A woman in Budva, Montenegro, summer 2001. Not exactly "following" her. She was strolling down the belvedere with a baby carriage and I was behind her. I slowed down the walk just to look at her for a little longer. I'm not into women but I know a beauty when I see one and the lady was a stunner.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Does crashing your motorbike into a car because you were looking at a hot chick count ?

 

[ericalauren]

Sounds creepy, tbh.

 

[Orchidea73]

Does crashing your motorbike into a car because you were looking at a hot chick count ?

Definitely. And with a bonus for the motorbike. lol

 

[CurtGiles46]

Many of your posts and threads have been somewhat questionable. I've more or less left them alone so far, but that may not continue.

There’s nothing questionable about this thread. At no point did I say the woman involved was even aware of what I was doing. You do understand that the legal definition of stalking requires that the person actually feels stalked and expresses that? You have no proof from my story that she was ever aware of anything.

So you invented a false narrative about my story simply because you dislike me as a poster. Is that really good moderating?

 

[twister947]

Have you ever followed a stranger in public just to stare at their body longer?

Sure, but people watching isn't a crime. I'm talking to you, JaFo; I'm no stalker.

 

[FGB]

First time I saw a string Bikni!
I was at the Beach in Galveston, srolling along watching the Tan Babes!
Then a Blonde and a Brunette came out of the Ladiess changing little building/restroom From my right and crossed my line of sight... My God they were Smoking HOT!

I swear I did not see that concrete retaining wall just below knee high! 

For a few seconds I thought...laying there on the hot sand, that I had broke both legs!
Totally worth it.

 

[Mostlyherefortheporn]

There’s nothing questionable about this thread. At no point did I say the woman involved was even aware of what I was doing. You do understand that the legal definition of stalking requires that the person actually feels stalked and expresses that? You have no proof from my story that she was ever aware of anything.

Your semantic defense makes your first post seem a whole lot creepier, imo.

 

[Filipinawife]

Yes

 

[Filipinawife]

First time I saw a string Bikni!
I was at the Beach in Galveston, srolling along watching the Tan Babes!
Then a Blonde and a Brunette cam out of the Ladiess changing little building/restroom From my right and crossed my line of sight... My God they were Smoking HOT!

I swear I did not see that concrete retaining wall just below knee high! 

For a few seconds I thought...laying there on the hot sand, that I had broke both legs!
Totally worth it.

Lovely

 

[Paul_Chance]

Oh, I've certainly done it. Sometimes you just see people who are, for whatever reason, so alluring you want to keep them in your sight for a while longer. I suspect everyone, male or female, has done it at one point or another in their lives.

 

[CurtGiles46]

Sounds creepy, tbh.

Your semantic defense makes your first post seem a whole lot creepier, imo.

No, it’s called understanding legal definitions and appreciating them. Take a Law class and learn some respect for accuracy. People like you are so emotional and loose with your concepts that you’d call an arm touch rape. And such a distorted mentality cries wolf and undermines the prosecution of real crimes.

Utterly bizarre that seeing a woman for 20 minutes a week for one semester is somehow imagined as violent crime by people who weren’t there.

What exactly is triggering you? The word “follow”? I would be lingering in a college building where I had a class anyway waiting for my class to begin. I’d see the professor and just walk in her direction for a minute or two. And I did this for one semester 25 years ago!

25 years ago! Huh? Am I missing something here? I didn’t grope her, didn’t catcall, etc.....

The reaction to my post is absolute madness.

And I’m not backing down so you can shove it. Stop trying to make this a Matt Lauer crusade.

 

[jaF0]

Someone seems ... defensive.

 

[CurtGiles46]

Someone seems ... defensive.

A behavior I did for a single semester 25 years ago for a few minutes per week. Not quite grasping why this is sending anyone into hysterics?

The response is quite out of proportion to the action.

 

[CarlyAnn]

I don’t see anything wrong with the question. And yes, one day at the mall I saw him in a tight white T (possibly painted on), tight jeans and what appeared to be Timberland boots. He was in Dick’s Sporting Goods and I wanted to see what he bought. I walked away when I saw him in the knife section.

 

[jaF0]

Someone also has made a number of near/bordeline underage references that need to stop.

 

[CurtGiles46]

Someone also has made a number of near/bordeline underage references that need to stop.

Someone also has made a number of near/bordeline underage references that need to stop.

18 is either legal or it isn’t. I hope you aren’t defining that as borderline.

 

[ishtat]

Many of your posts and threads have been somewhat questionable. I've more or less left them alone so far, but that may not continue.

You might become a competent moderater if you could tone down the smart-arsery and unnecessary threats. Folks here are plenty smart enough to form their own opinions without you.

 

[RachelWalsh]

this is sadly entertaining for me.

 

[craig7091]

Yes I confess...