Have you been a victim of a player???

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[Big Giant Head]

I was manipulated years ago. its something I am still bothered by and I guess the biggest reason why is I blame myself the most. I knew it was a damaging relationship but I let it continue. In the end I was nothing more than a tool to make a womans boyfriend jealous as hell and my freind was turned agains me and he was used to try to hurt me.

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[Stiffy Says...]

I have been played, but have only met one person on here, briefly. She was nice, but wow, it was akward. I did nto play her either.

I think all of us have been hurt, and the strongest of us are the ones who choose to trust again later anyways.

But we always have that fear lurking...and choose not to inflict it on others.

I hope that your heart heals quickly from this incident, and that in the future, your trust and compassion are rewarded.

Stiffy...

 

[ElusivButterfly]

I have been played by someone...I met this guy online soon after joining Lit...the Guy made pans to meet me face to face 3 times...all three times broken...now with the Litogether coming this spring in the guy's hometown, he says he will be there...I think he is full of shit. I am thank full that after that supossed meet, I didn't leave early. I was suppose to drive 3 hours to meet him (1/2 way for each of us). I told him to call me before he left....all ready and bags packed...I waited...and waited....didn't call, didn't im me...didn't pm me...didn't hear from him til 3 weeks later...and i am suppose to look for him at the event in April? Uhhhh I don't think so!

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[babydoll2u]

oh yeah.... I've been played by two different someone's on here. I truly hope it's not happening again. I don't think so.... but only time will tell.

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[babydoll2u]

I hope so also babydoll. I know how bad it hurts when you find things are not true or people are not who they say they are.

Or they lead you to believe... or just outright tell you... that they feel something they don't really feel... and give you the infamous line "I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to lead you on". BS!

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[DLL]

Originally posted by MysteriousRomantic
Yes babydoll that is what they do. I have been there. Or explaining away their actions. Not looking inside honestly. It is so sad that some really do not care who or how they hurt someone.

I play everyone....fuck 'em if they can't take a joke
oh did I mention I just had my nails done and my hair ..I look spectatular!!!!!
MR...wanna play????






I hope you realize I am totally kidding with that post but I don't want to ruin my rep. as a self absorbed princess)

 

[MT_Pitcher]

I play everyone....fuck 'em if they can't take a joke
oh did I mention I just had my nails done and my hair ..I look spectatular!!!!!
MR...wanna play????






I hope you realize I am totally kidding with that post but I don't want to ruin my rep. as a self absorbed princess)

Your reputation is safe.....





Good thing I love ya anyway....

 

[ElusivButterfly]

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope he truly does not think you truly want to meet him now. I would try to stay away as far from him as possible.

OH I will not be looking for him and do not want to meet him at all....but I am looking forward to meeting alot of others who are going to be there

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[Diariest]

Re: Being played

Well I never met anyone on here and fell in love be because I am a scary cat because I always have this fear that I may end up dead somewhere. But anyway,I was married to this man and I loved him so much unconditionally. At the time I was going to church and was really into my relationship with my God and show him not only in word but in dead as well. And one day I caught him with another man. It made me so angry and hurt, the hurt cut me so deep. I write in a journal so every since I was 11 years that is many years ago but I still right in one. An writing in a journal has helped me. Here is my online journal of my hurt and anger towards him. Because the hurt that we suffer has to be come out some kind of way. So why not healthy. I have added a URL of my jounal.
Everyone is invited There. It explains all I went through ,I HAVE OPENED MYSELF IN ORDER TO HEAL And how I am not trying to get over my anger

PLEASE MY JOURNAL OF MY HURT AND ANGER.... IT IS WORTH READING!!!!

HTTP://JEHOVAHSJEWEL.DEARDIARY.NET

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[MysteriousRomantic]

 

[dragonhearted]

interesting thread Mysterious