Has this ever happened to you?

[zartol]

Three times in my life I have been physically attracted to lesbians (not all at the same time). I mean that I had a real desire to sleep with them. The physical attraction was intense. I don't look at a person and say 'I wonder if they are gay or straight or whatever'... It was not until after I had talked with them and gotten to know them a bit that I found out that they were gay. (She said I like women... I said I do too... she said I like only women)... well, after that we still managed to do stuff together in a non-sexual way but I never got over the feeling of wanting to have sex with them. It was useless to say anything about it. It's not love.

Would you have said anything to them about this If you had such desires? Do we always want what we can't have... to taste the forbidden fruit?

BTW, two of the women are now with each other and seem very happy... maybe I'm just a matchmaker...