Has anyone here ever worked as a professional dominatrix?

liked, not loved!!! the money

hated the customers, what was being done, having to take this "dom-ly" attitude -- I quickly learned I am not a domme and that being a pro was not worth the money

Laura
 
guys who wanted to lick my shoes... tied with big, bear guys who wanted to wear latex frenchmaid outfits and scrub my bathroom... whee... joy... yawwwwnnnnn :(
no fun for somebody who identifies more as a top than a domme
Laura (who's actually a switch but thats another thread)
 
MladyPain.........

Did any of them do things like paint your toenails or do your hair?
 
Oooh no! they never touched me - then it would be prostitution as defined in that town.
Laura
 
MLadypain......

I never knew that......

So you could make a man crossdress and do femenine chores, but if he ever washed your hair, it would be classed as prostitution?

What if you were to whip someone?
 
I can't answer for most geographical areas but where I was at that time..... any physical contact, with monetary exchange, with intent to arouse could be considered prostitution.

At the girly-bars, patrons & dancers could not physically touch each other when they got a lap dance, because money exchanged hands.

There was never ever skin-to-skin contact between me and the clients.

As for dressing a guy up... check your local/state laws. Most states have laws that can be used against any sexual aberations. If I'm remembering correctly one state has an "intent to deceive" law they use against DragQueens and Cross Dressers when convenient. Even if you agree to be flogged & spanked, your partner could charged with battery and/or sexual assault. If there is a law against it, you can not legal consent to do it.
Laura
 
I have done it as well and my experience was the same as MLadyPain. I hated it but the money was very good. I had a hard time domming perfect strangers and had a lot of guilt about it.

Luckily, prostitution isn't illegal where I live, only soliciting for it is so I never had to worry about that. I did it privately and got my clients from a professional Domme who was a friend of mine. I didn't do it very many times because I couldn't handle it emotionally. I had a regular who was a major pain slut and I had a lot of trouble dealing with that. he was such a nice guy it really bugged me.

Funny how laws are different from state to state and country to country. Here in Quebec, full contact lap dancing is legal but you aren't allowed to sit and have a drink with a client because that would be considered soliciting! Go figure.....
 
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