Has anyone else ever had this problem?

[Levi36m]

Yes Fish4fun, it was in board daylight that this happened. I just couldn't believe what I was seeing, but it was a turn on to watch such a sight. I am truly sorry to hear you say that you never get flashed. You my friend are being denied the joy of daily what I believe is a great daily therapy. So, here is a *flash * to start your day off right.

I drive too.. but for a large company.. I cant disclose the nature of the big bad brown company... but I love legs..... I love getting to see... a woman flashing..... me...... knowing its going to drive me crazy for the rest of the day..

 

[fish4fun]

Thanks for the flash sweetaspeaches. Is that you by any chance doing the flashing? If so have you thought about doing more photo's of yourself? Guess i'll have to get batteries for my digital and flash you back hon. It's only fair.*L* Are you on the road all the time or just on ocasions? Hope to chat with you soon gal

 

[sweetaspeaches]

Fish4fun I am sorry to say that isn't me doing the *flashing* but if you like you can see my pics @
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58950

I do hope that you enjoy them. I want to say thanks to all who posted to my question. Your replys were quite helpful. My lover came home off the road for 4 days and we spent alot of time together. I decided to take the advice of some of you and be alittle less aggressive sexually and let him be in *control* of the situation, so to speak. And guess what guys? It worked!! We had absolutely awesome sex. I can honestly say that I haven't been that satisfied in a quite long time. I must have came at least 20 times the first night we were together and I lost count the times after that. I still agree that being aggressive is great and I will always be so. For I am a woman who knows what I like, where I like it, and how much of it I want and nothing will ever change that. But for the time being, I will let my aggressive side sit in the shadows, that is until I get him broken in. Then Buddy he better watch out because one day the better side of me will come alive again.

 

[sweetaspeaches]

BUMP

 

[badmatt]

sweetaspeaches...

only thing I can think of...and even for Me, it's a little stretch...
is he's that much of a control freak that hearing you ask for it took the control from him and turned him off

 

[sweetaspeaches]

badmatt-
Yes, I do believe that he is somewhat of a control freak and I am also aware of several facts that I just recently found out about. One- he just came out of a 10yr relationship. Two- that relationship was with a woman that was not only very controlling but was also 10yrs older than him. Third- but not least he came home one day put the key in the door only to find that all of his possesion and his family were gone. Giving him a feeling of losing all sence of control in every aspect of his life. I can now understand why he is trying to keep control of any and all situations(including sexual ones) that he is involved with. I know that when there is a stronger bond between us and gained trust the guard that he has put up, as well as his control issues will lessen. There is one positive note to this situation the sex is getting better everytime we are together.

 

[Ukin]

Are there any guys out there that are turned off by a woman who is sexually aggressive? If so, why? The reason for this question is that I just started dating a new guy and the sex thus far has been great when I can get it. The problem is we were riding down the road in his truck with me wearing a short mini and a low cut blouse. I kept catching him looking at me with wanting eyes, so I looked over at him and said "Why don't you pull over and take me right here and now?" With that is was told that I had turned him off. He said that he had kept looking at me thinking to himself what he wanted to me and that he was totally turned on by his thoughts. But when I told him that I wanted him to fuck me, it turned him off. He had no reason or explaination why this happened. Do any of you have a glue? If so, would you please shed some light on this situation.

Honey..had you said that to me...you would have had to driven home naked...as I would have ripped your clothes off!

 

[kevinb_99]

Never had this problem

Most guys I know, (including myself) love a woman who expresses herself when she wants sex. Nothing worse than when I hear..."well.. I was horny the last 2 nights and you just went to sleep" Its just part of the communication that is needed for long-term happiness.

Your man really does not know how good he has it.

BTW - wouldn't a hairless peach be a nectarine?

Kevin

 

[sweetaspeaches]

Re: Re: Has anyone else ever had this problem?

Honey..had you said that to me...you would have had to driven home naked...as I would have ripped your clothes off!

Ukin~
I have to say that would be a ride home that would have left a smile on both our faces.

 

[Jaded1]

Well, darl'n............

After reading your original post I would have to say it's time to find another bf. One that is a little more active. If in fact you look any thing like your AV I would have gone into a four wheel brake lock up. Moved smartly to the side of the road (hate being rear end by another car when making love it throws you timing off). Thrown you on top of the hood of the truck and ravaged that sweet body repeatly in different positions.... The reason for the hood of the truck is to make the other people driving by jealous.............

Jaded1, CT

Oh, to bad you live so far away. I would show you exactly what I mean.............

 

[sweetaspeaches]

Jaded1,
No need to find one that is alittle more active, the one I got seems to be well on his way. The guards are cumming down and the relationship as well as the sex is getting better and better everyday. But thanks for the advice and the very vivid image of just what the hood of a truck can be used for. Yes! It is truly to bad that I live so far away, I would LOVE to have you show me just what you would do to me.

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

One other thought.

Sweetpeaches,
Just one more thought about the problem. I agree that control appears to be at issue, but you might also be caught in the old double standard. Women who want sex are sluts and therefore not desirable versus a woman who is flaunting everything and pretending that she is totally innocent is incredibly desirable.

So just a thought, maybe next time, you abent mindedly open your shirt or hike your skirt and ask him like an innocent little girl, "What are you thinking about?" Followed by a "Oh my, I've never done that before, but would you show me how?"

If he doesn't develop a stain on his pants, lock the door honey and get ready.

 

[sweetaspeaches]

Thanks once again Bug Eyed Monster for your kind words of advice. It seems that once again you are on the right track. I will give your words of wisdom a try and see just what happens. "Thanks again Darlin", said as I slowly turn towards my lover uncrossing my legs and re-adjusting my mini. Giving him an eyeful of a pantyless crotch before recrossing my legs and casually turning back out of his view. By the look on his face I think it might be working.