Has a partner (past or present) ever refused to do something with you?

[OneEyedSteve]

Ever had a partner refuse to do something with you that they admitted to doing with a previous partner? Did it bother you?

 

[newhere2learn]

Yes various over the years, and I've always respected their limits. A few off the top ofy head:

* Anal. Quite a common one.
* Receive oral. She had body hang ups. Over the resultant years she grew to love it.
Give oral. She had history of SA as a youngster, and was a huge trigger.
* Current GF, Very reluctant to engage in vigorous/rough sex. She prefers deep and slow.
* Current GF, also doesn't like doggy style. I'm too long, she's small, it pounds her cervix which is painful.
* An ex, was very reluctant re: toys. However we conquered that and was well worthwhile for her.


There's also been some unspoken ones over the years;

* Had a couple of women who found orgasms, with a male hard to let go. Often breathing related, as they held their breath.

* Again couple have been reluctant to verbally state what does it for them. During. So in some regards one was flying blind.


Had some bi meets as well, where the other party had stringent do/don't requirements. Some didn't want to see who was getting them off, would be blindfolded and ready.


It's easier to overlook their "no list" for a 1x, or fwb or fling. Less easy if you want a relationship.

 

[luvslingerie200]

Two girls I played with separately, several months apart..... happened to be sisters. Neither of them would let me eat their pussies. Neither had an issue sucking my cock, but when it came to me eating them it was a no go.

 

[Sgts19]

Two girls I played with separately, several months apart..... happened to be sisters. Neither of them would let me eat their pussies. Neither had an issue sucking my cock, but when it came to me eating them it was a no go.

My wife would divorce me if I didn't go down on her LOL

 

[live4thebj]

Nope I got nothing.

 

[CliodhnaOB]

Once I was so into my ex fucking me I asked him not to pull out.... he pulled out (I wasn't on pill)

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Had a bf who didn’t wanna do a mmf threesome with me and his hot friend

 

[OlderBtm4U]

My wife. Frequently. Anything sexual.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Believe it or not, the man I was with before my husband absolutely would not have a FMF threesome. Partly, it was my fault for not confessing early on I was bisexual. I was young and inexperienced about such matters. When I brought the subject up, his already somewhat possessive ass went into overdrive. Somehow, he felt sexually threatened, like he wasn't enough alone. In truth, he wasn't, but not in the way he was taking it. I would have gladly shared him in a threesome. I thought the idea was hot but he felt otherwise. We broke up within days after that. A year later, I met my now current husband. My priors lovers loss was his gain. I have happily shared other women with him in our bedroom numbers of times.

 

[OralAllOver]

xwife would not peg me

 

[Britva415]

That they did with a previous partner?

The only thing that comes to mind is giving cunnilingus. I can't exactly receive that, so.

 

[MamaBitte]

She never told me about her previous sex life (even though I begged her so many times...)
So I simply don't know ...

 

[Cob083]

With all but one woman i have been with didn't want anything to do with anal sex from me.

 

[gtnlynn]

Anal, but her previous experience was very unpleasant, so I understand why she doesn't want it again.
Suck my cock while I drive. She did it in college and they almost wrecked, so I can see her reasoning.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I have been with a few women who would not do anal after having bad experiences in the past. I knew two women who preferred that I not go down on them. They had different reasons. Neither was an outright refusal, more of a preference.

The only thing my wife has ever refused was swinging with black couples. When we were in the lifestyle several black couples approached us, but she was absolutely not interested in black men or black women. She is not prejudiced, just not sexually attracted.

 

[Up4fun&69]

I distinctly remember 4 GFs who refused anything anal...touching, fingering, rimming, and penetration. What was so strange was that 3 of 4 admitted to being exposed to unwanted anal sex by family members (mainly cousins), at a young age and never having resolved that issue, it was forever off the table.

The real strange one was a FWB, with whom I did just about everything a M and F could do, refused to share a shower with me (no mention of sex with it), and did so with some anger...after which we stopped seeing each other. The reason she gave was that showering together was a very intimate act and she was saving that for that special love of her life when she'd find him.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I have never been one to force myself on anyone so I have definitely been dejected