Hard to find like minded people???

[SWEET_SASSY86]

Let me just start off by saying hello to all, and apologize in advance as I just joined today. I am so thankful to find this place and be able to read posts from people who seem so like minded. I feel alone at times, aside from my wonderful Dom. It is so hard to find people who are into the bdsm lifestyle. I agree it's not for everyone. Maybe it's the fear they will pull back because they will not understand. A few of them are into the kinkier side of sex. But to me it is so much more. I know they would not understand. I am so truly happy and blessed to have found my Dom. And I would love nothing more than to talk to my closest friends about our lifestyle, and the reason for my new found happiness. I just don't want to lose a friend because she will not understand and think I'm completely nuts. Am I the only one that has these issues? Is it just me being stuck inside my own head? Help!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm not sure what there is to discuss, besides generic happy relationship stuff, or we went to a burlesque show in October, or that he brings me coffee in bed [when he's in town]. My best friend of 20 years (who was the first one to point out I was submissive/kinky) and I don't discuss details of my relationship beyond that.

If you're looking to expand your social circle, try getting on Fetlife.com and looking through the events tab - it should show you everything that's going on in your area - workshops, munches, parties, etc.

 

[subgreen]

I'm not in bdsm, but I like it here. I think there are some normal, everyday folks here that like to fantasize about sex and talk and write about. It's fun to dream.
In real life I'm a balding guy with glasses and pretty serious.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Ditto on Fetlife for finding chatty kinky community to gab with. Also, stay here as it's truly packed full of so many beautiful folks.