Har to ejacuate

[DrimeDrive]

Since I got a circumcision it has been very hard for me to cum. Both when my girl gives head and when having intercourse. Is there any thing I can do to actually ejacuate?

 

[SweetErika]

Do you have trouble when you masturbate?

How often do you masturbate?

How long has it been since the circumcision?

 

[DrimeDrive]

Do you have trouble when you masturbate?

How often do you masturbate?

How long has it been since the circumcision?

No trouble when I mastrubate and I do it several times a week.

It's a little bit over a year since that circumcision thing, but that's enough details

Btw, I'm 20 years old if it matters.

 

[SweetErika]

Try cutting back on the masturbation and/or using a lighter touch with more lube when you do jack off to simulate the decreased friction you experience when you're receiving oral and having sex. Eventually your body should get used to coming with less stimulation, and when it does, you can slowly add light masturbation back in.

You might try masturbating lightly without getting off before you get together with your gf, too, so you're more ready to come when you receive stimulation from her.

If you're being smart by using condoms when you're with your partner, try using them when you masturbate, as well. That difference in sensation may be (one of the places) where your block is occurring. Also try putting a drop or two of lube in the very tip of the condom before you pinch it and roll it on, if you're not doing so already.

 

[DrimeDrive]

If you're being smart by using condoms when you're with your partner, try using them when you masturbate, as well. That difference in sensation may be (one of the places) where your block is occurring. Also try putting a drop or two of lube in the very tip of the condom before you pinch it and roll it on, if you're not doing so already.

My girl and I are using condoms every time we're *doing it*, I'm making sure to use the thin ones though to actually feel something. I'm sure it would be better without condoms, but even though she says she's on the pill I don't trust her a 100%. And the last thing I want is a kid right now...

I'm thinking about trying this though lol:

http://www.adameve.com/sexy-extras/sex-lubes/stay-hard-tightening-lubes/sp-tong-balm-116.aspx

 

[gregor2001us]

I was circumcised and what you describe fits what it was like for me. Now I am partly restored and I have not trouble at all. Don't forget that historically, the main reason for infant circumcision was to reduce sensations.


That said, if you are wearing condoms to protect against pregnancy, you might try natural lambskin condoms. They always felt sooo much better to me when I needed condoms.

And you can always restore your foreskin if you decide you want to go back. It won't be easy/quick, and it will not get you back to the same experience you had with your original equipment, but it will dramatically improve things and get you most of the way back to where you were. At least that is my experience.

Best wishes

 

[DrimeDrive]

Any thoughts about using a tongue balm to get orgasms?

 

[Cattypuss]

How could that possibly help if you are like you say, using condoms?

 

[DrimeDrive]

How could that possibly help if you are like you say, using condoms?

I'm not using rubber when she gives head..

 

[DrimeDrive]

Bumping this thread a bit;D