Hands-free Orgasm

[ThinkerLover]

For men and women - I've experimented in this many times but never managed to get exactly what I want out of it. Have you ever made it to orgasm without any physical contact at all?

I've been honing in on it for a long time and think it may be very helpful for many people of all walks of life, besides being altogether exciting.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Probably not what you're thinking of but my Master has achieved this with me when I have been serving in a non sexual capacity (e.g. on my hands and knees, being a footstool) and he has spent a long time talking to me and telling me exactly what I am to him and all the myriad nasty things he can do to me because I'm filthy enough to want to be his. After a long session of something like that, he can command me to cum and sometimes I will. It's not as strong as a physically induced orgasm but the very fact that I'm able to do such a thing for him gives it a powerful adrenaline/endorphine charged kick.

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

I am always confused by the use of the term "physical contact". Does that mean without any touching to the genitals at all?

 

[fieryjen]

Some people can do it with a full bladder.

 

[thehoaxer]

if it's possible

I would like to hear how it works. I think the touch is all part of it, i think just cumming would not be as exciting or fulfilling without the touching

 

[littleangryfly]

I've done it in a half awake half asleep state before - not quite intentionally, but during a semi lucid dream. It wasn't powerful, but it was lovely.

I've been close to it through kissing and nipple stimulation, but never got there without touching.

I don't see a reason why it isn't possible though. The dreaming thing shows that it's all in the mind really, doesn't it?

 

[ash959]

im not exactly sure but i think ive done it. i just concentrate and all of a sudden my pussy is doing the same thing it does when i masturbate. doesnt feel as good.

 

[fieryjen]

I've done it in a half awake half asleep state before - not quite intentionally, but during a semi lucid dream. It wasn't powerful, but it was lovely.

I've been close to it through kissing and nipple stimulation, but never got there without touching.

I don't see a reason why it isn't possible though. The dreaming thing shows that it's all in the mind really, doesn't it?

I've done the dream thing too - it really is a very pleasant experience, very serene.

I know it is possible, the thing is though that we're not all wired exactly the same, and that means that what's possible for some people may not be for others. Some may never have this kind of experience despite trying really hard, while others find it easy to accomplish.

 

[Akito01]

Boy, not only have I done it, I even posted video evidence of the deed up on PornoTube (though I don't think it's there anymore, because something went wrong with the video quality and I got rid of them, but I got an email a few months ago from someone who found it kicking around somewhere). I keep meaning to do another video, but haven't gotten around to it. I actually still have the original video files in my computer, though.

This little trick, if you will, came about largely as an accidental discovery, although I had always been fascinated by the idea of a hands-free orgasm. In fact, it wasn't until after I was 30 that I had that experience, which came about after a session of 'edge play'. Having brought myself to the very edge of climax, I became very focused on the sensations, and realized that I was so close that all I'd need to do to bring myself over was strain my thighs a bit. I believe it's the same muscular tension that women use for kegal exercises, and it's my theory that such straining compresses the prostate in some way.

After that first time, I wondered if it were possible to go from start to finish completely hands free -to arouse myself with the power of a sexual fantasy, and finish myself off with that muscular tension in the legs. Much to my surprise, it did indeed work after at least half an hour of pure ecstatic torture. A half hour does tend to be the most typical window of time, though I have managed to get it down to 15 minutes and even under 10.

I think there are really three keys to this kind of self pleasuring -involvement in a sexual fantasy (this makes physical stimulation unnecessary to raise arousal), the application of tension throughout the legs as you strain to push yourself over (much more exhausting than one might think), and a very specific awareness of the tingling sensations in your penis (especially the glans -I find that if I can feel and picture my glans growing in size, it will certainly trigger orgasm).

If you try this yourself, be aware and don't be put off if you can't keep your erection firm for the entire session. Remarkably, in the absence of direct physical stimulation, you can continue to feel arousal and growing excitement even as your erection softens. It can be soft even up to the final moments, when it will stiffen very suddenly in advance of the ejaculation.

 

[silverwhisper]

yes, it's most definitely possible. :>

ed

 

[steelknight]

If I haven't ejaculated in some time I can bring myself to orgasm through fantasy alone, without touching my cock at all. It doesn't feel as powerful, but it is definately an orgasm.

 

[Hello4Kitty]

For some women, kegals make it possible. Learning how to use the different muscles really helps with other things as well.

 

[SexualDreamer]

It is .... It is possible

The trick to masturbating in this way is how much imagination you have I believe. I have cybered with some people and my fingers never leaving the keyboard had an orgasm. But for me there has to be a certain type of cybering that can bring this about and the state my mind is in as well. When I get the right type of cyber buddy and they cyber in a certain manner, in my mind I try and picture what ever is going on in the cyber is happening to me. I try think about what that certain touch would feel like and how I would react. I keep doing that until I finally have an orgasm.

However, I have to say that this type of orgasim is not nearly as good as having someone really touching you and the feeling of their body next to yours.

 

[steelknight]

I absolutely agree Sexual Dreamer

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I agree...

I can cum without touching my cunt, but it's soooo much more pleasant with touch... I definitely cum a lot harder and longer when I have my fingers stroking myself...

 

[temp256]

I've done it dozens of times a day, nearly every day. I get intense spasmodic shivers running through my body, so powerful I nearly fall out of my chair with each one. And they keep coming every few seconds. It takes control of me, having its way with me. Sometimes it lasts for hours. They might not be full orgasms, but they're very close.

This sounds wonderful, but it isn't. It's a tease. A horrible horrible tease with no hope of release. As good as they are, they're not the least bit satisfying. Each leaves me wanting more and more. I'm desperate for some release, but even touching myself does nothing at this point. All I can do is lay back and voice slutty moans like a cat in heat, begging for someone to take me.

I'm like this nearly the whole day. Every day. I'm going crazy...