Hand job

One caveat with a handjob is that enthusiasm matters. For a while at the end of our sex life, my wife would get off from me fingering or licking her and then offer me a very halfhearted “are you going to be done soon, my arm is tired” handjob. More than once I had to finish it myself because she was both incompetent with a cock, and completely uncaring about it. I’ve gone to bed with my balls aching before because I refused to finish it myself, and she couldn’t/wouldn’t finish it.
 
I’ve never engaged in manual sex. I wonder if some people prefer it over other forms of sex. Some of my allosexual friends think it’s a bit juvenile, though.
 
I’ve never engaged in manual sex. I wonder if some people prefer it over other forms of sex. Some of my allosexual friends think it’s a bit juvenile, though.
If they have a formula for being edged while your partner is talking dirty that isn't manual sex, I demand they share it: The happiness of mankind depends on it.

Seriously, why is it juvenile except in the sense that it usually a lower (and thus easier to reach) rung on the ladder of sexual contact? By that logic, blowjobs yield to intercourse and vaginal to anal penetration.

Sex often leaves one out of breath, unable to say much coherently if at all. Handjobs are never so exhausting.
 
So me and hubby were taking the other day about what would happen if I went in a bar and he came in a while later. He says I would get hit on. I say I am too old (50). He says if I get hit on how far would I let it go. I said the most I would do is give the guy a handjob. What do guys think about them ?
Love a good hand job. Does hubby want to watch?
 
I’ve never engaged in manual sex. I wonder if some people prefer it over other forms of sex. Some of my allosexual friends think it’s a bit juvenile, though.
On the other hand (pun intended), thinking it does not mean not engaging in it. And we only stop doing it when we stop having any kind of sexual activity. :)
 
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