Guys who have bottomed

SparkyMark1961

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I have read quite a few stories about a guy getting penetrated for the first time and him loving the feeling so much that he cannot wait to do it again.
My question is for those who have bottomed, is it really like that? Once you have had a cock in you do you crave it more and more? Not ever having done it, although wanting to try, I can see where it might be like that.
But is it?
Just wanted to hear what others think.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
 
My reaction

The effect on me was more psychological than physical, I felt less masculine, and the effect lasted a long time. I enjoyed and would do it again. However, I am far more selective about who fucks me than I am about whose cock I suck.
 
I still prefer to top, but there have been cocks I wanted to ride more than once because they hit my prostate just right. I can't say I have a general ongoing burning desire to ride cocks since my first time. I suppose if someone's first time was really good, then they might try to experience that same feeling again.
 
I'm a middle-aged, married, white male who had been curious for many years about what it would be like to be with another guy. In 2003 I met a guy online who was also married but seemed to have some experience with men. It's also worth mentioning that he was a pastor. Anyway, we traded texts and phone calls for a number of weeks before finally agreeing to meet. Before our encounter I had been playing with various "toys" (in my ass) for many years. I knew it felt good and couldn't wait to feel a real cock inside me. The first time me and my friend met we simply exchanged oral, but on subsequent get-togethers we not only exchanged oral (to completion) but he also fucked me. Words can't accurately describe how good it felt to have this guys 9-inch cock inside me, slowly moving in and out of me at first, but gradually increasing the tempo until he was pounding me so hard that our sweat drenched bodies were slapping together loudly.

So...yes....after the first time I was hooked. For me, receiving anal is a truly mind-blowing experience.
 
To StarrOftheNite and midwestmomlvr thank you for relaying to me your experiences. Maybe one day soon I will be able to tell of my first penetration experience.
 
My first time was an eye opening, liberating experience. Done with an older guy I'd just met that night. It was totally spontaneous, done without preparation in the midst of a night of unrestrained passion.
It felt great, and didn't hurt at all. No lube, no prep. He wasn't rough or forceful, and he didn't cum. An eye opening, threshold moment. I'd lost my virginity again.
I wish I'd stayed with him, and done a lot more sex together, but I woke in the morning with a hangover, and I just wanted to leave.
Now I wouldn't say I 'crave it more and more,' but anytime I'm with a man I offer my ass, hoping he will fuck me. So it's more than just wanting it, and being availale; I'm eager for it, hoping he will fuck me.
I should add that I love fucking guy's asses almost as much as I love getting fucked by them. In a perfect world I would prep myself for a date I know wants a piece of my ass, and get fucked at least once a week. Even better if it were mutual.
 
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I am 57 bi mwm. I have played with my ass for many years with dildos and but plugs.
I had wanted a real cock in my ass for so long. I finally got together with another man and we enjoyed oral a few times, I told him that I really want him inside me. The next time we got together we enjoyed sucking each other, then he asked me if I was ready to be fucked. I got on my back and spread my legs, I wanted to watch him fuck me!
He lubed up my ass and his cock, He slide in me nice and slow. OMG it felt so good. He just kept sliding in and out of my ass, faster and faster till he came! I loved every second of it.
We don't fuck every time we get together but I do really enjoy a nice hard cock in my ass!
 
I haven't had the experience of an actual cock in my ass, but I have been fucked with a dildo and it was a mind blowing experience for me. I had waves of orgasms almost the whole time. I look forward to the next time. But I will say up front that any guy that I let fuck me will have to be someone special to me. I'm more likely to suck someone's cock than let him fuck me.
 
I haven't had the experience of an actual cock in my ass, but I have been fucked with a dildo and it was a mind blowing experience for me. I had waves of orgasms almost the whole time. I look forward to the next time. But I will say up front that any guy that I let fuck me will have to be someone special to me. I'm more likely to suck someone's cock than let him fuck me.

I agree with a lot of this. Solo fun only so far, but I leak and orgasm a lot from anal play.


Tried sucking, hated it. My ass desires pounding still
 
Once you get the itch it never goes away...........MMMMmmmmm
 
I have only ridden a dildo and would love to ride a real cock. I am sure that once I tried it, I would want more:)
 
The effect on me was more psychological than physical, I felt less masculine, and the effect lasted a long time. I enjoyed and would do it again. However, I am far more selective about who fucks me than I am about whose cock I suck.

Yes, same as that. I'm not attracted to men although nobody believes me because I suck cock, but I want to feel like a woman and opening your legs to be penetrated certainly achieves that.
 
Had one oral experience but never any anal. Dont know if I want to go there but think about it from time to time.
 
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Over the place I suppose. I love sucking cock, real or strap on, don’t care. I’ve bottomed a few times but want more. The first time the guys couldn’t get it up and it was frustrating but made me want it even more. That said I am not attracted to guy really, just the package.
 
Virgin

I'm an almost 60 yo SWM who has never been fucked with anything except small dildos and fingers, which I love BTW. I've sucked plenty of cocks and love doing that to completion...nothing I love more at the moment than a hard cock cumming in my mouth. I fell in love with cocksucking from the first time I did it, god over 30 yrs ago now. It has been awhile though.

I went through a pretty bad divorce about 1 yr and a half ago and have been reluctant to put myself out there again for fear of getting hurt again. I would love to meet a decent looking top guy starting out as friends then becoming intimate. I am so looking forward to to having a man inside me for the first time, and my therapist keeps pushing me to get out there.

I will let yall know how it goes when it happens.
 
The physical aspect of having a cock slide into my ass is incredible, feeling it slide in and out in an ever more forceful manner is wonderful. There is also the mental aspect of giving yourself to another man, knowing that once hes in your hole he is not going to stop until he is finished.
Im Bi and yea, I love it
 
i love it when i first bottomed i wanted to do every position i wanted to do it over again i never ever wanted to be the top having dick in my arse is great
 
Countless number of fingers (mine and theirs), a handful of toys, and even a dildo or two...but only one real cock; wielded by a beautiful TS lady I hooked up with a couple of times. The feeling, while initially painful, became quite enjoyable. Though due to the hormones she was taking, she couldn't cum (in the condom). Even better was the feeling that lasted a day of so afterwards. Given the right circumstances, I'd do it again. Sucking cock...now there's something I'd like to do a lot more often.
 
Loved It That First Time

My first experience was with a Vietnamese man who was rather small in the cock department...so it didn't hurt at all. Instead, it was freeing and liberating. If the top is kind enough to prepare you for it (or you do so yourself) it can be wonderful. I agree, that much of it is psychological....submitting, receiving, being taken, etc) as much as it is physical.
 
did it with dildo which I suspected was quite big. But heat of the moment took over. It barely went anywhere at first but the lube helped loads and I'm fucking livid that I missed out on this till now.
 
First time was in a 3some with my wife. But I prepped and cleaned. Put in a butt plug to loosen up before going to the real thing. After that he was able to slide right in without any pain. Fucked me doggy style and it felt amazing. Wife got under and blew me and I came quickly to the most amazing orgasm I've ever had. I also ended up riding him. I do crave having it again, but no more so than the urge I had to try it in the first place I think.
 
I have read quite a few stories about a guy getting penetrated for the first time and him loving the feeling so much that he cannot wait to do it again.
My question is for those who have bottomed, is it really like that? Once you have had a cock in you do you crave it more and more? Not ever having done it, although wanting to try, I can see where it might be like that.
But is it?
Just wanted to hear what others think.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Short answer for this sissy is no.
The first time was unexpected and after a lot of dil-dos and strapons.
He was there for Her not sissy but She said it was sissy's time to become a full sissy. So it happened and sissy did enjoy after the first few minutes but, this type action is only at the request of Her and is not sought out by this sissy, even though it is enjoyable to this sissy.
sissy likes the feeling especially when it is deep and filling.
It was like wine, it took several times to reach a peak.
 
I love having a nice cock inside me but, if he has a thick penis or one with a big head, it's not happening. I like slim cocks that are around 6 to 7 inches long, the smaller the head is the better.

I love rubbing my cock against a big one tho and sucking it too, especially if he wants to piss in my mouth!
 
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