Guys into SPH, did you start out as genuinely embarrassed or ashamed?

[Luv4hotwives]

I'm into SPH, I genuinely get turned on by it. It wasn't always that way though.

I wasn't aware penis size was really a "big" deal until I think my early teen years. At the time we had the internet by then and all used it, but I wasn't really looking up penis size statistics or anything at that point. It was still pretty new at that time. But we did start talking about it among friends. None of us new what a normal size was, big or small, or what it was supposed to be when we became adults. What I do remember is, all of us boys were liars and we were all universally "6 inches" long lol.

I obviously knew I wasn't that long, I'm not sure when I first measured, but I definitely knew I wasn't 6 inches long. I wasn't embarrassed or anything at the time, because I was still growing and just assumed I'd grow up into an adult with a huge penis!

I didn't start having reservations about my size until closer to the end of high school. I didn't want to be seen flaccid, definitely not completely flaccid, because I didn't want anyone to think I was small. And I still lied about penis size, because by then I knew average and that I was smaller than it. Yet, I didn't feel like I was lying, because I hadn't accepted that I was already as big as I would get. It was also easy to fool myself, because my sexual experience was limited until I was much older, so there weren't any women to confirm one way or another.

However, in the year after I had finished high school, I started checking out statistics online and comparing. I had a couple experiences where I was partially exposed or nearly exposed, that got me thinking about my size more critically. I realized I was done growing and started to measure without cheating or rounding up. I was a little disappointed at first, but that lasted a short amount of time. It didn't take long before I was getting turned on by it. I satisfied it by comparing myself to the statistics and the like. It took me a long time before I found SPH. I had been into humiliation with my fantasies ever since I had started masturbating. So it's no surprise I found my way to SPH.

So for me, I guess it was weird. Until I accepted I was small, I would have probably been embarrassed to have had my size exposed. When I finally KNEW I was small, then the SPH kicked in! At that point, I was embarrassed about my SPH kink, but not ashamed my penis was small.

What was your experience? Were you ashamed about being small at first and it evolved into a kink? Was it always a turn on? Are you regular size or big, but it became an extension of your existing humiliation kinks?

 

[stiv837]

When I was younger I was very ashamed of having a small penis. As I reached middle age I learned to except it. I am now at the point in my life where I find it quite a turn on to be humiated about my size. I have been humiliated by both men and women, but am only turned on by the women doing it. Through photos sent in emails is how I have had my sph desires fulfilled , not through actually meeting people , other than one incident when I was in a gym shower and a friend laughed at my size.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I think I’ve always known I wasn’t very well endowed at least starting in high school. Although it’s not an accurate comparison,I started watching porn at an early age so I was witnessing these guys with enormous cocks. That probably messes with what I thought was average but regardless I felt like mine was pretty tiny especially for how large statured I am.
Fast forward to just a few years ago when I started to chat on Lit quite a bit. I had been chatting with older women about various topics,having a good time and roleplaying among other things. There was one woman that convinced me to send her a dick pick which I didn’t mind doing. Thinking she’d be turned on or impressed;her reaction immediately was to essentially laugh and be the one to tell me how small I am. I was honestly surprised but a switch was flipped at that moment. I don’t know if it was a combo of how much I’m into older,dominant women or that I was meant to be arroused by SPH subconsciously.
I was so turned on,she basically stopped chatting but I managed to find many other people,older married women especially that loved to tease me about my size. I still love to chat with women about it and share pics from time to time.
I’m also a bit of an exhibitionist,I love to be nude and fully own my size. I get erotic massages too knowing that they probably laugh in private about how small I am which only adds to the pleasure.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

When I was younger I was very ashamed of having a small penis. As I reached middle age I learned to except it. I am now at the point in my life where I find it quite a turn on to be humiated about my size. I have been humiliated by both men and women, but am only turned on by the women doing it. Through photos sent in emails is how I have had my sph desires fulfilled , not through actually meeting people , other than one incident when I was in a gym shower and a friend laughed at my size.

Was there ever a specific experience when you were younger that you were genuinely embarrassed at the time, but looking back now it was a turn on?

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I think I’ve always known I wasn’t very well endowed at least starting in high school. Although it’s not an accurate comparison,I started watching porn at an early age so I was witnessing these guys with enormous cocks. That probably messes with what I thought was average but regardless I felt like mine was pretty tiny especially for how large statured I am.
Fast forward to just a few years ago when I started to chat on Lit quite a bit. I had been chatting with older women about various topics,having a good time and roleplaying among other things. There was one woman that convinced me to send her a dick pick which I didn’t mind doing. Thinking she’d be turned on or impressed;her reaction immediately was to essentially laugh and be the one to tell me how small I am. I was honestly surprised but a switch was flipped at that moment. I don’t know if it was a combo of how much I’m into older,dominant women or that I was meant to be arroused by SPH subconsciously.
I was so turned on,she basically stopped chatting but I managed to find many other people,older married women especially that loved to tease me about my size. I still love to chat with women about it and share pics from time to time.
I’m also a bit of an exhibitionist,I love to be nude and fully own my size. I get erotic massages too knowing that they probably laugh in private about how small I am which only adds to the pleasure.

Have you ever gotten teased in person?

 

[slightlysubhub]

Have you ever gotten teased in person?

I haven’t actually which is surprising, i haven’t had a huge amount of sexual partners but none of them ever said much about it. Most of the women I’ve been with have had numerous partners prior to me so I’m sure they’ve had way bigger including my wife.
I do have a fantasy where my wife(she’s bisexual with a preference for women) decides she wants an FFM threesome and the two women end up teasing me about my size while they make love.

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

I can certainly relate to this subject. For me, it all started somewhere about the 5th grade. We had a swimming pool and I would always swim naked in front of my mom (mom and dad were divorced), never feeling ashamed, and I liked the freedom. Mom must have noticed that though I was a small kid, my penis was really tiny even at that age. So, just took me to our old man doctor for an exam one day, staying in the room while the doctor told me to drop my pants and underwear so he could check me, and his nurse was there also. I got such a rush seeing three pair of eyes looking at my little dick that I became hard while the doc examined me. He confirmed that indeed I was small (about inch and a half soft, three inches erect) and prescribed weekly growth shots to fill me out (?). This was the early 60's.

I think that set the stage in my mind always being teased and judged for my small dick (the shots apparently didn't work). The years rolled by and I've always had a fetish about exposing myself to females and getting their reaction. The many comments and stares I've received has given me intense feeling of humiliation, which has brought on intense feelings of sexual desire.

I joined Literotica to share some of these stories but I first one was rejected because of age-related material. To this day, I still will find or create situations where I can get women to look at me or examine me, so I can get that head rush.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I can certainly relate to this subject. For me, it all started somewhere about the 5th grade. We had a swimming pool and I would always swim naked in front of my mom (mom and dad were divorced), never feeling ashamed, and I liked the freedom. Mom must have noticed that though I was a small kid, my penis was really tiny even at that age. So, just took me to our old man doctor for an exam one day, staying in the room while the doctor told me to drop my pants and underwear so he could check me, and his nurse was there also. I got such a rush seeing three pair of eyes looking at my little dick that I became hard while the doc examined me. He confirmed that indeed I was small (about inch and a half soft, three inches erect) and prescribed weekly growth shots to fill me out (?). This was the early 60's.

I think that set the stage in my mind always being teased and judged for my small dick (the shots apparently didn't work). The years rolled by and I've always had a fetish about exposing myself to females and getting their reaction. The many comments and stares I've received has given me intense feeling of humiliation, which has brought on intense feelings of sexual desire.

I joined Literotica to share some of these stories but I first one was rejected because of age-related material. To this day, I still will find or create situations where I can get women to look at me or examine me, so I can get that head rush.

That's interesting, thank you for sharing!

I wonder what the shots were? I also wonder if they can do more now. They've started giving young teens who are very short human growth hormone so that they grow taller. My understanding is there is still debate about its effectiveness. But I also know if the growth plates haven't closed and someone has a disorder where they keep producing growth hormones they'll continue getting taller. So maybe there is something to it. But I wonder if it effects penis size? I doubt they are looking into that at all since it's minors getting the treatment. But then again... maybe it wouldn't help. From what I've read HGH only works for teens because their growth plates are still open. Give the same thing to adults and the bones won't grow longer bc the growth plates are closed. But that applies to bones, so there should be no similar limit to penis size, and if HGH did increase penis size in adults we'd all know about it. So there probably wouldn't be hope for me to magically increase my penis size if I ever traveled back in time lol.

Sorry for getting sidetracked. Just your comments about shots sent me on a tangent lol.

 

[bjlatx]

I was embarrassed at first. It started for me being in the group showers after gym in high school. Later as I had several girlfriends, none of them ever really said anything. In college, I was once again in a group shower situation with only a few guys that I knew. One of them was really hung. He was probably a thick 5 inches soft. Later on, he and I were roommates and I saw him fucking his girlfriend for only a few seconds. He moved out of town and his girlfriend and I ended up falling in love. She left him for me and we ended up getting married. We would talk about her exactly often and after we had been married for several years, she started making comments about “my little guy” here and there and it started to really turn me on. I asked her to take it to another level and she has. There was one time that she was surfing her phone while I was fucking her. She would tell me that she can’t feel my little dick at all. She took another level further by really humiliating me saying things like “my little dicklet is worthless and can’t please her at all”. I loved it!! I’ve had some health issues that has temporarily caused a loss of erections. She’ll now tease me that my little dicklet won’t even get hard and that she need a real man to fuck her since mine is really worthless now!! We love it.

Edit: I am 4 inches hard and about as thick as a role of quarters. It’s much much smaller soft.

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

That's interesting, thank you for sharing!

I wonder what the shots were? I also wonder if they can do more now. They've started giving young teens who are very short human growth hormone so that they grow taller. My understanding is there is still debate about its effectiveness. But I also know if the growth plates haven't closed and someone has a disorder where they keep producing growth hormones they'll continue getting taller. So maybe there is something to it. But I wonder if it effects penis size? I doubt they are looking into that at all since it's minors getting the treatment. But then again... maybe it wouldn't help. From what I've read HGH only works for teens because their growth plates are still open. Give the same thing to adults and the bones won't grow longer bc the growth plates are closed. But that applies to bones, so there should be no similar limit to penis size, and if HGH did increase penis size in adults we'd all know about it. So there probably wouldn't be hope for me to magically increase my penis size if I ever traveled back in time lol.

Sorry for getting sidetracked. Just your comments about shots sent me on a tangent lol.

I don't know what the shots contained. I've often wondered, but the Dr. is dead now and I'm sure there's no evidence of any old medical files. I'm assuming they were some kind of growth hormone, but like I said, I don't know. Hope it doesn't cause cancer! I did eventually grow to a normal physical size, but my penis never did. I'm still about the size I was then, which as I said above, has led me to accept it, and use it for my own sexual fetish. Btw, many of these occasions have been to female doctors, pa's, and nurses for help(?) restore my member to a normal size. My nuts are even small, too. The other good thing besides the intense humiliation rush, is that my dick is ultra sensitive to cumming and I have little to no recovery time. One more thing, I just recently made an appointment in March to a black older urologist to give me an exam and her opinion on anything I could possibly do at this point to help me and save me from any further embarrassment. It's not all that bad a thing to have a little dick.

 

[LizVegas79]

I'm into SPH, I genuinely get turned on by it. It wasn't always that way though.

I wasn't aware penis size was really a "big" deal until I think my early teen years. At the time we had the internet by then and all used it, but I wasn't really looking up penis size statistics or anything at that point. It was still pretty new at that time. But we did start talking about it among friends. None of us new what a normal size was, big or small, or what it was supposed to be when we became adults. What I do remember is, all of us boys were liars and we were all universally "6 inches" long lol.

I obviously knew I wasn't that long, I'm not sure when I first measured, but I definitely knew I wasn't 6 inches long. I wasn't embarrassed or anything at the time, because I was still growing and just assumed I'd grow up into an adult with a huge penis!

I didn't start having reservations about my size until closer to the end of high school. I didn't want to be seen flaccid, definitely not completely flaccid, because I didn't want anyone to think I was small. And I still lied about penis size, because by then I knew average and that I was smaller than it. Yet, I didn't feel like I was lying, because I hadn't accepted that I was already as big as I would get. It was also easy to fool myself, because my sexual experience was limited until I was much older, so there weren't any women to confirm one way or another.

However, in the year after I had finished high school, I started checking out statistics online and comparing. I had a couple experiences where I was partially exposed or nearly exposed, that got me thinking about my size more critically. I realized I was done growing and started to measure without cheating or rounding up. I was a little disappointed at first, but that lasted a short amount of time. It didn't take long before I was getting turned on by it. I satisfied it by comparing myself to the statistics and the like. It took me a long time before I found SPH. I had been into humiliation with my fantasies ever since I had started masturbating. So it's no surprise I found my way to SPH.

So for me, I guess it was weird. Until I accepted I was small, I would have probably been embarrassed to have had my size exposed. When I finally KNEW I was small, then the SPH kicked in! At that point, I was embarrassed about my SPH kink, but not ashamed my penis was small.

What was your experience? Were you ashamed about being small at first and it evolved into a kink? Was it always a turn on? Are you regular size or big, but it became an extension of your existing humiliation kinks?

OMG, this is so interesting! I've always been curious about the discoveries guys make about their bodies growing up. We girls go through A LOT of discoveries, especially when we are younger, so it's really interesting to hear from your side of the Great Divide.

Thank you for being so open and honest about how you came to realize and accept your ... shall we say ... short coming?

I've always been curious if guys ever compared themselves to other guys growing up. I've asked my husband about it and a few other guys over the years but I've mostly gotten really short answers about competing in sports that led me to believe that they mostly don't. Nothing close to the emotional detail you've just shared so thank you thank you thank you!

Girls start comparing their bodies to other girls from a really young age and most of us continue comparing ourselves to higher and higher standards of beauty for the rest of our lives. It can really mess some of us up! I love how all of you "grew" lol to accept your short comings. I had a very debilitating identity crisis growing up, partly because I had very, very small breasts. Unlike you guys though, I didn't "grow" to accept the fact and learn to love myself until I was almost 30 though. And then after I did finally accept myself, I got preggers shortly after that (twice) and my breasts finally had the growth spurt I'd been hoping for since I was 14.

I've been a size queen most of my life. But I dated one guy before my husband (who is definitely what I would call "hung") who was into SPH. He was really cute and I liked him a lot, although, to be honest, sex was not super enjoyable with him because of ... well, you know. He taught me it was okay to be a little mean to guys like him though (I always had been anyways lol) and I still enjoy the opportunity when I get it today (which is rare unfortunately). Being tall intimidates some guys already. So I've learned over the years it just adds fuel to some guys' fire when I go into detail about how and why they don't measure up to other guys. I've tried doing it a few times with my husband but he doesn't enjoy it. It doesn't really work with him anyways since one of the reasons I married him is between his legs and he knows it.

Anyways, thanks again for sharing. I never know what I'm going to find on Lit but I swear it feels like I learn something new everyday.

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

I was embarrassed at first. It started for me being in the group showers after gym in high school. Later as I had several girlfriends, none of them ever really said anything. In college, I was once again in a group shower situation with only a few guys that I knew. One of them was really hung. He was probably a thick 5 inches soft. Later on, he and I were roommates and I saw him fucking his girlfriend for only a few seconds. He moved out of town and his girlfriend and I ended up falling in love. She left him for me and we ended up getting married. We would talk about her exactly often and after we had been married for several years, she started making comments about “my little guy” here and there and it started to really turn me on. I asked her to take it to another level and she has. There was one time that she was surfing her phone while I was fucking her. She would tell me that she can’t feel my little dick at all. She took another level further by really humiliating me saying things like “my little dicklet is worthless and can’t please her at all”. I loved it!! I’ve had some health issues that has temporarily caused a loss of erections. She’ll now tease me that my little dicklet won’t even get hard and that she need a real man to fuck her since mine is really worthless now!! We love it.

Edit: I am 4 inches hard and about as thick as a role of quarters. It’s much much smaller soft.

I think this is one of the reasons my mom took me to the doctor (story above). Occasionally, I had several friends come over to swim (we lived in the South in a small town and had one of the only pools in town) and we would be naked having fun in the pool around other mothers, and sometimes the other boys would comment on my little pecker. I overheard my mom on the phone talking to her sister about some to the other moms comments too, and suggesting she have a doctor look at my "condition." You'd have to know my mom, she didn't like it when other kids or moms said anything negative about her little boy. It's funny now how back then, grown women and even sometimes, the boys older sisters would be present in their swimsuits watching a bunch of naked boys swimming and playing in the pool. I can recall both me and some of the other boys having erections off and on, but not from anything sexual, just young hard dicks doing what young hard dick's do.

 

[LizVegas79]

I haven’t actually which is surprising, i haven’t had a huge amount of sexual partners but none of them ever said much about it. Most of the women I’ve been with have had numerous partners prior to me so I’m sure they’ve had way bigger including my wife.
I do have a fantasy where my wife(she’s bisexual with a preference for women) decides she wants an FFM threesome and the two women end up teasing me about my size while they make love.

There's a couple in our swingers circle of friends who shared a similar dynamic that you and your wife seem to have. The first party we all got together I ended up with him at one point and discovered that he is very, very into SPH. He's a great guy and I already liked him a lot but it was sooooo fun discovering his secret fetish. His wife, now ex-wife, has always been really mean to him, even in public, but behind doors, omg, he turns into such a eager-to-please slave it's so hot even I couldn't resist being a total bitch to him! (he admitted before we got started he had fantasized about being my sex slave for years - turns out he's into women's shoes almost as much as me lol). Anyways, not long after that first party, the three of us got together privately and it was soooooo freaking hot! She's bi too (so am I) and we were sooooo mean to him while we made him watch us before we "allowed" him to join! So I highly, highly encourage you to pursue your fantasy threeway with your wife.

I can almost guarantee she will probably get as much enjoyment out of it as you will.

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

OMG, this is so interesting! I've always been curious about the discoveries guys make about their bodies growing up. We girls go through A LOT of discoveries, especially when we are younger, so it's really interesting to hear from your side of the Great Divide.

Thank you for being so open and honest about how you came to realize and accept your ... shall we say ... short coming?

I've always been curious if guys ever compared themselves to other guys growing up. I've asked my husband about it and a few other guys over the years but I've mostly gotten really short answers about competing in sports that led me to believe that they mostly don't. Nothing close to the emotional detail you've just shared so thank you thank you thank you!

Girls start comparing their bodies to other girls from a really young age and most of us continue comparing ourselves to higher and higher standards of beauty for the rest of our lives. It can really mess some of us up! I love how all of you "grew" lol to accept your short comings. I had a very debilitating identity crisis growing up, partly because I had very, very small breasts. Unlike you guys though, I didn't "grow" to accept the fact and learn to love myself until I was almost 30 though. And then after I did finally accept myself, I got preggers shortly after that (twice) and my breasts finally had the growth spurt I'd been hoping for since I was 14.

I've been a size queen most of my life. But I dated one guy before my husband (who is definitely what I would call "hung") who was into SPH. He was really cute and I liked him a lot, although, to be honest, sex was not super enjoyable with him because of ... well, you know. He taught me it was okay to be a little mean to guys like him though (I always had been anyways lol) and I still enjoy the opportunity when I get it today (which is rare unfortunately). Being tall intimidates some guys already. So I've learned over the years it just adds fuel to some guys' fire when I go into detail about how and why they don't measure up to other guys. I've tried doing it a few times with my husband but he doesn't enjoy it. It doesn't really work with him anyways since one of the reasons I married him is between his legs and he knows it.

Anyways, thanks again for sharing. I never know what I'm going to find on Lit but I swear it feels like I learn something new everyday.

Funny you mentioned "size queen." I got married (now divorced) as a young man and my wife never seemed to be bothered about my size until later on in our marriage. But she did sometimes say the same thing during intercouse about not being able to feel me. Actually, the reason for our divorce is that she starting having an affair with a co-worker who apparently was "well hung," and that's when she changed her attitude about having sex with me. Years later I found out she too, had a preference for big dicks that could bottom her out. That hurt at the time, but once again, I learned to use it for my own sexual desire and arousal.

 

[slightlysubhub]

There's a couple in our swingers circle of friends who shared a similar dynamic that you and your wife seem to have. The first party we all got together I ended up with him at one point and discovered that he is very, very into SPH. He's a great guy and I already liked him a lot but it was sooooo fun discovering his secret fetish. His wife, now ex-wife, has always been really mean to him, even in public, but behind doors, omg, he turns into such a eager-to-please slave it's so hot even I couldn't resist being a total bitch to him! (he admitted before we got started he had fantasized about being my sex slave for years - turns out he's into women's shoes almost as much as me lol). Anyways, not long after that first party, the three of us got together privately and it was soooooo freaking hot! She's bi too (so am I) and we were sooooo mean to him while we made him watch us before we "allowed" him to join! So I highly, highly encourage you to pursue your fantasy threeway with your wife.

I can almost guarantee she will probably get as much enjoyment out of it as you will.

Thanks so much for that Liz! I’m really hopeful for some experiences like that in the future. We’ve been together for 12 years and very comfortable and open with eachother but there’s always a bit of the nervous excitement when trying out the next kinky thing. She’s bisexual and loves to be with women but her social anxiety can get the best of her.
If we can find a fun,comfortable and willing participant then I know we can all have a great time together and hopefully make it a reoccurring situation.

 

[bjlatx]

I should probably also mention that we are in a hotwife marriage. I’ve seen my wife now enjoy big dicks in every position possible now and we both love it. She gets big dicks when she wants them and I get to have her tell me how disappointing and unsatisfying my dick is. It’s been a lot of fun for us.

 

[Deleted member 1405174]

My ex wife always said that she never wanted a big dick. She was happy with about 2 - 3 inches and mine was perfect. (the last thing anyone wants to hear.) My current wife loves it, she says it fills her perfectly. She is self conscious of her B's, they look and feel very nice to me. I think it is all about the "receiver." As long as it makes her feel good, that's all I care about.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

OMG, this is so interesting! I've always been curious about the discoveries guys make about their bodies growing up. We girls go through A LOT of discoveries, especially when we are younger, so it's really interesting to hear from your side of the Great Divide.

Thank you for being so open and honest about how you came to realize and accept your ... shall we say ... short coming?

I've always been curious if guys ever compared themselves to other guys growing up. I've asked my husband about it and a few other guys over the years but I've mostly gotten really short answers about competing in sports that led me to believe that they mostly don't. Nothing close to the emotional detail you've just shared so thank you thank you thank you!

Girls start comparing their bodies to other girls from a really young age and most of us continue comparing ourselves to higher and higher standards of beauty for the rest of our lives. It can really mess some of us up! I love how all of you "grew" lol to accept your short comings. I had a very debilitating identity crisis growing up, partly because I had very, very small breasts. Unlike you guys though, I didn't "grow" to accept the fact and learn to love myself until I was almost 30 though. And then after I did finally accept myself, I got preggers shortly after that (twice) and my breasts finally had the growth spurt I'd been hoping for since I was 14.

I've been a size queen most of my life. But I dated one guy before my husband (who is definitely what I would call "hung") who was into SPH. He was really cute and I liked him a lot, although, to be honest, sex was not super enjoyable with him because of ... well, you know. He taught me it was okay to be a little mean to guys like him though (I always had been anyways lol) and I still enjoy the opportunity when I get it today (which is rare unfortunately). Being tall intimidates some guys already. So I've learned over the years it just adds fuel to some guys' fire when I go into detail about how and why they don't measure up to other guys. I've tried doing it a few times with my husband but he doesn't enjoy it. It doesn't really work with him anyways since one of the reasons I married him is between his legs and he knows it.

Anyways, thanks again for sharing. I never know what I'm going to find on Lit but I swear it feels like I learn something new everyday.

I'm happy you enjoyed reading it! I like hearing your take as well!

Comparing penises was complicated for my age group and after. I was born in the 80s and grew up in the 90s. By the time I was in sports or PE, they no longer made kids undress for the showers anymore. So we never saw each other naked! It changed just a few years ahead of me. So we'd talk, and lie. Like I said, early teens we were ALL 6 inches, mid teens we were suddenly all 7 or 7.5 inches lol.

The irony about not seeing each other naked is that when we did start dating, girls had seen more penises than any of us. And understood far better what was small, average, or large. So even comparing measurements online, I truly didn't understand how small I was until I became sexually active.

I also am sorry guys are intimidated by your height. I'm a short guy and honestly would love a tall partner. Tall, size queen, and willing to tease little ones? I would melt in your hands seriously, they don't know what they're missing lol.

I totally agree about learning new things. Who would've thought 90s style forums on an erotica site would be so educational!

 

[Luv4hotwives]

My ex wife always said that she never wanted a big dick. She was happy with about 2 - 3 inches and mine was perfect. (the last thing anyone wants to hear.) My current wife loves it, she says it fills her perfectly. She is self conscious of her B's, they look and feel very nice to me. I think it is all about the "receiver." As long as it makes her feel good, that's all I care about.

Some women do in fact have smaller vaginas and bigger ones hurt them. Also, in the right position a small one can hit the g-spot just right!

I totally love SPH and being told it's "inadequate" but truth be told I know from personal experience women really can enjoy small ones.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I think this is one of the reasons my mom took me to the doctor (story above). Occasionally, I had several friends come over to swim (we lived in the South in a small town and had one of the only pools in town) and we would be naked having fun in the pool around other mothers, and sometimes the other boys would comment on my little pecker. I overheard my mom on the phone talking to her sister about some to the other moms comments too, and suggesting she have a doctor look at my "condition." You'd have to know my mom, she didn't like it when other kids or moms said anything negative about her little boy. It's funny now how back then, grown women and even sometimes, the boys older sisters would be present in their swimsuits watching a bunch of naked boys swimming and playing in the pool. I can recall both me and some of the other boys having erections off and on, but not from anything sexual, just young hard dicks doing what young hard dick's do.

I've heard experiences like yours before. It's crazy for me to think about, because for me we didn't get naked even in front of other boys. Not even in gym! It seems like a lot changed in regards to nudity in a rather short time.

 

[Escierto]

I'm happy you enjoyed reading it! I like hearing your take as well!

Comparing penises was complicated for my age group and after. I was born in the 80s and grew up in the 90s. By the time I was in sports or PE, they no longer made kids undress for the showers anymore. So we never saw each other naked! It changed just a few years ahead of me. So we'd talk, and lie. Like I said, early teens we were ALL 6 inches, mid teens we were suddenly all 7 or 7.5 inches lol.

The irony about not seeing each other naked is that when we did start dating, girls had seen more penises than any of us. And understood far better what was small, average, or large. So even comparing measurements online, I truly didn't understand how small I was until I became sexually active.

I also am sorry guys are intimidated by your height. I'm a short guy and honestly would love a tall partner. Tall, size queen, and willing to tease little ones? I would melt in your hands seriously, they don't know what they're missing lol.

I totally agree about learning new things. Who would've thought 90s style forums on an erotica site would be so educational!

I did not realize that guys stopped taking showers together. I went to school in the '60s and believe me, I saw more schlong than most porn actors. We knew exactly who was small, medium or large and who was a grower or a shower. No secrets in those locker rooms! Except for one guy who wasn't circumcised who hid all the time.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Funny you mentioned "size queen." I got married (now divorced) as a young man and my wife never seemed to be bothered about my size until later on in our marriage. But she did sometimes say the same thing during intercouse about not being able to feel me. Actually, the reason for our divorce is that she starting having an affair with a co-worker who apparently was "well hung," and that's when she changed her attitude about having sex with me. Years later I found out she too, had a preference for big dicks that could bottom her out. That hurt at the time, but once again, I learned to use it for my own sexual desire and arousal.

That's interesting. I had an ex that during sex would say similar things. "Did you go soft? I can't feel you?" When I was hard, but unfortunately if she got really turned on and wet, she just couldn't feel it. Or she'd say "go deeper" or "go in all the way" when I was already balls deep. She was a size queen too.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I did not realize that guys stopped taking showers together. I went to school in the '60s and believe me, I saw more schlong than most porn actors. We knew exactly who was small, medium or large and who was a grower or a shower. No secrets in those locker rooms! Except for one guy who wasn't circumcised who hid all the time.

Nudity was very rare for us and really embarrassing. We'd all get in real close to the urinals as well so no one would see our dicks. Outside of porn I never saw another guys dick in person until adulthood.

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

Something I recalled after my original post about my mom taking me to the doctor, was that he diagnosed me as having undescended testes. He said they should have dropped into my scrotum by then, and I may have missed the puberty window for proper development for my age, and it may affect any further growth. However, he could push my balls down manually and they'd stay put for a time. He also recommended to my mom that either I, or she, should try to do this on a daily basis, and maybe I would catch up. Apparently, I didn't. But, for at least the next year, every night after my bath or before my bedtime, my mom would do it for me (she knew I would never do it myself). This was NOT anything sexual in nature, but probably contributed to my further fetish since this all began at such an early age. Things were just different back then as opposed to now. I also suffered from chronic constipation as a child, and mom would give me a spoonful of castor oil and frequent enemas. I remember it always tickled so bad that my dick would get super hard during the enema. I can still picture it in my mind now being on my bed with my knees bent over in a crouching position when she touched the nozzle to my hole and slowly pushed it in, releasing the warm water. Nothing was ever said.

I finally started becoming a little self-conscious and embarrassed about my body and nakedness about the time I entered the 7th grade, though nothing had ready changed much about me. My testicles did eventually did drop somewhat (still didn't enlarge much), but not down to a low normal level. I stopped with the shots. Mom stopped with the manual manipulation, and I stayed about the same size as before. I also developed very little body/pubic hair as I got older. I have been on testosterone therapy for years due to a low level count. All of this I think, has contributed to my SPH fetish over the years as it does even today.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Something I recalled after my original post about my mom taking me to the doctor, was that he diagnosed me as having undescended testes. He said they should have dropped into my scrotum by then, and I may have missed the puberty window for proper development for my age, and it may affect any further growth. However, he could push my balls down manually and they'd stay put for a time. He also recommended to my mom that either I, or she, should try to do this on a daily basis, and maybe I would catch up. Apparently, I didn't. But, for at least the next year, every night after my bath or before my bedtime, my mom would do it for me (she knew I would never do it myself). This was NOT anything sexual in nature, but probably contributed to my further fetish since this all began at such an early age. Things were just different back then as opposed to now. I also suffered from chronic constipation as a child, and mom would give me a spoonful of castor oil and frequent enemas. I remember it always tickled so bad that my dick would get super hard during the enema. I can still picture it in my mind now being on my bed with my knees bent over in a crouching position when she touched the nozzle to my hole and slowly pushed it in, releasing the warm water. Nothing was ever said.

I finally started becoming a little self-conscious and embarrassed about my body and nakedness about the time I entered the 7th grade, though nothing had ready changed much about me. My testicles did eventually did drop somewhat (still didn't enlarge much), but not down to a low normal level. I stopped with the shots. Mom stopped with the manual manipulation, and I stayed about the same size as before. I also developed very little body/pubic hair as I got older. I have been on testosterone therapy for years due to a low level count. All of this I think, has contributed to my SPH fetish over the years as it does even today.

Wow, thank you for sharing. It's definitely safe to say your experiences are atypical, but can totally see how they contributed to how you are now.

Again, you experiences are undoubtedly more extreme than most, but it does give an interesting window into the development of the fetish. I'm sure most people would likely have it traced back to what were at the time shameful or humiliating experiences.