Guys, ever told an old friend you were interested in him / curious / available?

[Mike302]

How did it go?

I'd love to tell a friend /s of mine that and "be available".

Edited to add: They know I'm married and have a decent sex life and high libido. One understood a couple strong hints but didn't take the offer or take offense many years ago. He doesn't get much sex from his wife.

Another buddy gets sex from his wife but no bj's and he misses that badly.

Both generally dislike the "openly gay" movement.

Stubborn dummies are missing out.

 

[2wayroad]

They absolutely don’t get the clues. What may have been obvious to you, they simply didn’t understand. This is how arrow straight guys are, and how we can move among them in public and go unnoticed by them.

 

[Mike302]

They absolutely don’t get the clues. What may have been obvious to you, they simply didn’t understand. This is how arrow straight guys are, and how we can move among them in public and go unnoticed by them.

I know one of them got it.

I drop subtle hints now and then hoping one of them will straight up ask me to "help him out".

 

[CdKimMajick]

How did it go?

I'd love to tell a friend /s of mine that and "be available".

Edited to add: They know I'm married and have a decent sex life and high libido. One understood a couple strong hints but didn't take the offer or take offense many years ago. He doesn't get much sex from his wife.

Another buddy gets sex from his wife but no bj's and he misses that badly.

Both generally dislike the "openly gay" movement.

Stubborn dummies are missing out.

The first mfm 3-some I had with my first wife was with a friend of about 10 years and while he was bi he had no idea I was. I flat out told him we wanted to do a 3some but she don't know I want you to fuck me as well.

He loved it and we had a good time. we would go over to his house and the two of us would to into the bedroom for a bit while she watched tv. She hated the fact I dressed or was with a guy but she let it go on with him as she was bi herself. She never joined but that one time

 

[Mike302]

The first mfm 3-some I had with my first wife was with a friend of about 10 years and while he was bi he had no idea I was. I flat out told him we wanted to do a 3some but she don't know I want you to fuck me as well.

He loved it and we had a good time. we would go over to his house and the two of us would to into the bedroom for a bit while she watched tv. She hated the fact I dressed or was with a guy but she let it go on with him as she was bi herself. She never joined but that one time

That's cool.

My wife knows she could have sex with a man or woman if she desired but, she has no desire for that so far. My buddies could fuck the both of us, but she's not interested in me being with anyone else, either.

It's hard to for me to understand how people could be having more sex (no disease among us, and permission to fool around) but just aren't interested.

 

[CdKimMajick]

That's cool.

My wife knows she could have sex with a man or woman if she desired but, she has no desire for that so far. My buddies could fuck the both of us, but she's not interested in me being with anyone else, either.

It's hard to for me to understand how people could be having more sex (no disease among us, and permission to fool around) but just aren't interested.

That's the one thing I miss about my 3rd wife. Despite all the other issues she loved me being dressed so much she wanted me dressed at home all the time.

And while she wouldn’t join in she loved it when we picked up a guy when we were out of town to fuck me. She loved watching me ride a hard cock.

 

[load69]

This is a great topic that I have ben thinking about for a long time.

There is a high school friend of mine that I am trying to figure out if he would consider letting me suck his cock. I am going to start by asking him if he has ever done a 3some mfm. Then assuming he says no, I will say that I would love to do one and would not even mind 69ing with the girl while the guy slides his cock in her. I assume he will say some thing like he wouldn't do it. As long as he doesn't say something where he strongly objects to being the guy sliding his cock in the girl, but still says he wouldn't want to be the guy doing the 69. I will then say something like I think it would be hot to watch a cock sliding into a pussy that I was licking. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to sticking his cock in her pussy while a guy is licking her, I will then admit that if I accidentally licked his shaft while licking her pussy, that it wouldn't really bother me. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to that idea, then I will say, if the cock slid out of her, I would be ok with it sliding into my mouth and would see what it's like to suck a cock. As long as he didn't strongly object to that, I would say that actually I would love to try a cream pie some day. And again assuming he doesn't strongly object, I go for it and say that I am curious and would like to see what it would be like to suck a cock and swallow a load of hot cum. Then I say, I would suck your cock right now if you will let me. We are long time friends so I don't think even if he wouldn't do it that he would mention it to anyone else. If he is willing, I am going to have a nice clean safe cock to suck all the time. He has a nice bulge in his pants so I think he has a nice sized cock. I have been working on this idea for a long time and my cock gets hard just thinking about it. There is lot that has to go right for me to actually ask him to let me suck his cock but if he doesn't strongly object as we are talking about a three-way, I might finally get a cock in my mouth. Pete if you are reading this, get you cock ready for the best blow job of your life

 

[Inthelastrow]

I find this thread rather interesting on two levels. First is the remarks about the cluelessness of straight guys to pick up on signals from other guys. There is a thread about gaydar that mentioned this. I worked with a gent over a long period of time who was quite handsome, a real stud. I found out later, after our work ended, that he was gay. It was only after that I realized he had hit on me a number of times, but I was totally clueless.

Second level is how you go about telling someone you know. Interesting to read the stories. I guess I am too shy to mention something that intimate and perhaps threatening to a friend. I do think it's a lot more acceptable these days.

 

[slipprywenwet]

This is a great topic that I have ben thinking about for a long time.

There is a high school friend of mine that I am trying to figure out if he would consider letting me suck his cock. I am going to start by asking him if he has ever done a 3some mfm. Then assuming he says no, I will say that I would love to do one and would not even mind 69ing with the girl while the guy slides his cock in her. I assume he will say some thing like he wouldn't do it. As long as he doesn't say something where he strongly objects to being the guy sliding his cock in the girl, but still says he wouldn't want to be the guy doing the 69. I will then say something like I think it would be hot to watch a cock sliding into a pussy that I was licking. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to sticking his cock in her pussy while a guy is licking her, I will then admit that if I accidentally licked his shaft while licking her pussy, that it wouldn't really bother me. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to that idea, then I will say, if the cock slid out of her, I would be ok with it sliding into my mouth and would see what it's like to suck a cock. As long as he didn't strongly object to that, I would say that actually I would love to try a cream pie some day. And again assuming he doesn't strongly object, I go for it and say that I am curious and would like to see what it would be like to suck a cock and swallow a load of hot cum. Then I say, I would suck your cock right now if you will let me. We are long time friends so I don't think even if he wouldn't do it that he would mention it to anyone else. If he is willing, I am going to have a nice clean safe cock to suck all the time. He has a nice bulge in his pants so I think he has a nice sized cock. I have been working on this idea for a long time and my cock gets hard just thinking about it. There is lot that has to go right for me to actually ask him to let me suck his cock but if he doesn't strongly object as we are talking about a three-way, I might finally get a cock in my mouth. Pete if you are reading this, get you cock ready for the best blow job of your life

None of my business, but are any of your conversations with this friend as sexually explicit and forward as you wrote above? That might be a lot -- or not.

 

[SynareStar]

This is a great topic that I have ben thinking about for a long time.

There is a high school friend of mine that I am trying to figure out if he would consider letting me suck his cock. I am going to start by asking him if he has ever done a 3some mfm. Then assuming he says no, I will say that I would love to do one and would not even mind 69ing with the girl while the guy slides his cock in her. I assume he will say some thing like he wouldn't do it. As long as he doesn't say something where he strongly objects to being the guy sliding his cock in the girl, but still says he wouldn't want to be the guy doing the 69. I will then say something like I think it would be hot to watch a cock sliding into a pussy that I was licking. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to sticking his cock in her pussy while a guy is licking her, I will then admit that if I accidentally licked his shaft while licking her pussy, that it wouldn't really bother me. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to that idea, then I will say, if the cock slid out of her, I would be ok with it sliding into my mouth and would see what it's like to suck a cock. As long as he didn't strongly object to that, I would say that actually I would love to try a cream pie some day. And again assuming he doesn't strongly object, I go for it and say that I am curious and would like to see what it would be like to suck a cock and swallow a load of hot cum. Then I say, I would suck your cock right now if you will let me. We are long time friends so I don't think even if he wouldn't do it that he would mention it to anyone else. If he is willing, I am going to have a nice clean safe cock to suck all the time. He has a nice bulge in his pants so I think he has a nice sized cock. I have been working on this idea for a long time and my cock gets hard just thinking about it. There is lot that has to go right for me to actually ask him to let me suck his cock but if he doesn't strongly object as we are talking about a three-way, I might finally get a cock in my mouth. Pete if you are reading this, get you cock ready for the best blow job of your life

Funny enough, after reading your post, it sounds kind of familiar to my situation with a past co-worker....I am normally Hetero, but every couple of weeks I get pretty horny thinking about what it would be like to have in in my bed. I am definitely bi-curious when this happens. He is gay, and I know that he has been interested in me....I have thought about emailing him with some of my thoughts of what I would like to do in bed together, and also share some links to some very hot gay stories...Before I send the email, I let it sit for a couple of days, and I am glad that I don't send the email, but then, again, in about 2 weeks, the whole fantasy starts again...Perhaps one of these days, I will just throw caution to the wind and go for it...

 

[CambridgeBi]

For me it's a matter of some regret that I didn't. There were two gay men during my younger years I wanted to be intimate with but I wasn't ready to be open about my sexuality.

 

[SynareStar]

The more I think about it, the more horny I get....I would like to see him naked, see his cock, (and hopefully, he would like to see mine)! Then I would like to see what it feels like in my hand, on my lips, and in my mouth. I also think about what it would be like to have his cock in my ass, and what his ass would feel like with my cock inside it!

Again, though, the 'fever' I have for this disappears after a couple of days, and then re-appears again 2 to 3 weeks later.

While I am jerking off thinking about this, it is so hot! Then, after I come, I lose interest and am glad I didn't go through with sending the email! It feels like mental torture sometimes! But, each time it happens again, I get more determined to send him an email about my 'fever' dream, and seeing what his reaction would be.

Also worried that, if I did this, that would I regret this later? Like I said, mental torture! LOL Is it best just to keep it as a hot fantasy? I'm sure I am not the only ne with this same type of back and forth every few weeks....For now, I rely on my Cobra Libre and Tenga Flip hole....But it gives me some very powerful orgasms thinking about it....

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'm not really interested in my friends, though a couple of people at work and someone else who assisted one of my friends in farm work hit on me pretty hard. I didn't want to take risks so I politely said no, it might have been interesting though.

If I had lots of friends of other races I might be interested, I've had enough Indian guys interested in a fuck and suck with me, but unless they're very clean-cut IDC. Not that I'm interested in everyone else for interracial, of course, they do need to be at least a little groomed.

 

[load69]

None of my business, but are any of your conversations with this friend as sexually explicit and forward as you wrote above? That might be a lot -- or not.

We have started some of what I described but not the entire conversation yet. I just kind of have it planned out how on how I will take the conversation to see if I can get him to let me get his cock in my mouth

 

[load69]

Funny enough, after reading your post, it sounds kind of familiar to my situation with a past co-worker....I am normally Hetero, but every couple of weeks I get pretty horny thinking about what it would be like to have in in my bed. I am definitely bi-curious when this happens. He is gay, and I know that he has been interested in me....I have thought about emailing him with some of my thoughts of what I would like to do in bed together, and also share some links to some very hot gay stories...Before I send the email, I let it sit for a couple of days, and I am glad that I don't send the email, but then, again, in about 2 weeks, the whole fantasy starts again...Perhaps one of these days, I will just throw caution to the wind and go for it...

Good luck, I hope it works out for you!

 

[mtsnowrider]

This is a great topic that I have ben thinking about for a long time.

There is a high school friend of mine that I am trying to figure out if he would consider letting me suck his cock. I am going to start by asking him if he has ever done a 3some mfm. Then assuming he says no, I will say that I would love to do one and would not even mind 69ing with the girl while the guy slides his cock in her. I assume he will say some thing like he wouldn't do it. As long as he doesn't say something where he strongly objects to being the guy sliding his cock in the girl, but still says he wouldn't want to be the guy doing the 69. I will then say something like I think it would be hot to watch a cock sliding into a pussy that I was licking. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to sticking his cock in her pussy while a guy is licking her, I will then admit that if I accidentally licked his shaft while licking her pussy, that it wouldn't really bother me. Assuming he doesn't strongly object to that idea, then I will say, if the cock slid out of her, I would be ok with it sliding into my mouth and would see what it's like to suck a cock. As long as he didn't strongly object to that, I would say that actually I would love to try a cream pie some day. And again assuming he doesn't strongly object, I go for it and say that I am curious and would like to see what it would be like to suck a cock and swallow a load of hot cum. Then I say, I would suck your cock right now if you will let me. We are long time friends so I don't think even if he wouldn't do it that he would mention it to anyone else. If he is willing, I am going to have a nice clean safe cock to suck all the time. He has a nice bulge in his pants so I think he has a nice sized cock. I have been working on this idea for a long time and my cock gets hard just thinking about it. There is lot that has to go right for me to actually ask him to let me suck h

The more I think about it, the more horny I get....I would like to see him naked, see his cock, (and hopefully, he would like to see mine)! Then I would like to see what it feels like in my hand, on my lips, and in my mouth. I also think about what it would be like to have his cock in my ass, and what his ass would feel like with my cock inside it!

Again, though, the 'fever' I have for this disappears after a couple of days, and then re-appears again 2 to 3 weeks later.

While I am jerking off thinking about this, it is so hot! Then, after I come, I lose interest and am glad I didn't go through with sending the email! It feels like mental torture sometimes! But, each time it happens again, I get more determined to send him an email about my 'fever' dream, and seeing what his reaction would be.

Also worried that, if I did this, that would I regret this later? Like I said, mental torture! LOL Is it best just to keep it as a hot fantasy? I'm sure I am not the only ne with this same type of back and forth every few weeks....For now, I rely on my Cobra Libre and Tenga Flip hole....But it gives me some very powerful orgasms thinking about i

The more I think about it, the more horny I get....I would like to see him naked, see his cock, (and hopefully, he would like to see mine)! Then I would like to see what it feels like in my hand, on my lips, and in my mouth. I also think about what it would be like to have his cock in my ass, and what his ass would feel like with my cock inside it!

Again, though, the 'fever' I have for this disappears after a couple of days, and then re-appears again 2 to 3 weeks later.

While I am jerking off thinking about this, it is so hot! Then, after I come, I lose interest and am glad I didn't go through with sending the email! It feels like mental torture sometimes! But, each time it happens again, I get more determined to send him an email about my 'fever' dream, and seeing what his reaction would be.

Also worried that, if I did this, that would I regret this later? Like I said, mental torture! LOL Is it best just to keep it as a hot fantasy? I'm sure I am not the only ne with this same type of back and forth every few weeks....For now, I rely on my Cobra Libre and Tenga Flip hole....But it gives me some very powerful orgasms thinking about it....

Were you friends enough when working together that you could say you missed talking to him and suggest getting together for a beer or coffee? that might be better than surprising him with your "fever dream" email

 

[SPARTAN047]

They absolutely don’t get the clues. What may have been obvious to you, they simply didn’t understand. This is how arrow straight guys are, and how we can move among them in public and go unnoticed by them.

Great analysis. Gay guys and women can be confusing but a lot more subtle and use cues to send signals, so this is how they can go around anyone and completely bamboozle them as to where they went and what they're planning to do.

 

[Mike302]

I have had a guy I work with offer his garage (larger than mine) to do some upgrades to my vehicle or just regular maintenance. Very recently.

I don't know his entire situation (married? kids) but he's about my age and fit. I do know he has a stable job, and reputation has a responsible person. I'm sure it would be a down-low situation.

But I have no idea if it's just an attempt to share a hobby, a lure to get me into his church (I have no idea if he's a church guy but there are alot where I work) or something else.

 

[mtsnowrider]

I have had a guy I work with offer his garage (larger than mine) to do some upgrades to my vehicle or just regular maintenance. Very recently.

I don't know his entire situation (married? kids) but he's about my age and fit. I do know he has a stable job, and reputation has a responsible person. I'm sure it would be a down-low situation.

But I have no idea if it's just an attempt to share a hobby, a lure to get me into his church (I have no idea if he's a church guy but there are alot where I work) or something else.

Are you going to try to find out?

 

[Mike302]

Are you going to try to find out?

Yea, maybe dig a little when we can talk alone.

 

[Ciceri]

I had a fairly new acquaintance confess his romantic interest in me and I sorta panicked. I wasn't interested and sidestepped my way out of contact with him. Had I been interested I would have welcomed that info.

 

[n2kay17]

In the past, there's no doubt I missed several guys that expressed an interest and only figured it out much later.
When I was with an old friend while whacking the little white ball we got onto the topic, I mentioned the interest and available directly to him.
Later that afternoon, he showed me his driver and plunged balls deep into me, I was shocked it was happening but enjoying it.
Recently, I mentioned to another old friend and he's definitely gay I'd be willing to do it again, he was a previous missed opportunity.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Not a close friend, because I wouldn’t want to run the risk of jeopardizing a friendship over something that’s not important to me (more of a desire to step outside my normal life). But I did with a gay coworker—he was quite surprised but totally down and respectful of the situation, which was perfect

 

[griff5499]

I once had sex with my brother in law. I was very comfortable around him and he knew I was gay. One time we both had to go to a convention for our work and when we got to the hotel we noticed that there was only one bed. He said he didn't mind sleeping in the same bed with me and I happy thinking that maybe this would be a good opportunity. We went out to dinner with some other coworkers and after we went to a straight strip club. After a few strong drinks and getting the straight men all worked up over pussy we took a taxi back to the hotel. I told him that I sleep totally nude. He said he also liked that but my sister insisted he wore pajamas. We both stripped off our clothes and I noticed he had a semi hard cock. It was about 6in long in that state so I knew it would be much bigger when fully erect! We got in bed and the next thing he was saying how horny he was after the strip club. I told him that I would help him out if he wanted. He threw the covers off and his cock was fully erect. It was 9in and beautiful. He said that my sister didn't like giving him blow job's and he really missed having his cock sucked. I reached over and took his magnificent cock in my hand and slowly started stroking him. He was moaning and told me that he thought about asking me to suck his cock many times but chickened out. I told him I would suck him off anytime he wanted. He said that would be great. I started sucking him and he was telling me how good it felt. I sucked his cock and balls real good and I told him to raise his legs. I started licking his asshole and he went wild. He said he had never had anyone do that but he really liked it. Then I sucked his cock until he started cumming and I swallowed it all. He thanked me and said he had next Saturday off and my sister had to work so could I come over and suck his cock again and I said I would go wherever he wanted for a chance to his cock! We met up that Saturday and started seeing him every week for 10 years until they divorced and he moved away.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Mine was a very long time ago, I had graduated high school and was in my 1st year of college, Brian was a friend who was the son of one the couples my parents were friends with I was 19 and he 18 a senior in high school. I had a few previous experiences in my earlier years but was getting an urge to want to be with a guy, like really with one. He & I were in my car one day and we stopped to talk and I asked him outright if he was gay or thought about guys, he told me he thought he was but had never been with anyone and I asked him if he would like for me to be his 1st telling him about some of the other times with guys which was just touching and jerking off.

We ended up secretly being together for a bit over a year after that keeping it hidden from our friends and family until he went into the service and I never saw him again.