Guys, do you remember when you first got aroused by men?

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I just love stories about guys' first gay sex. I like how it involves a self-revelation that can be both terrifying and blissful. I have several of these stories in the works. I like writing them because I haven't had sex with another man, and I find it very arousing to imagine different scenarios.

The first times I have experienced were times when I unexpectedly got turned-on by catching a glimpse at man parts. The one that sticks out in my memory most involves a friend of mine who would occasionally let me see him undressed. I hadn't really seen naked boys growing up; I was never forced to shower after gym, for example. So I was shocked, when seeing his penis, I got rock hard in seconds. Before this happened, I didn't know how pleasing a dick could look to me. I looked away out of modesty, but I really wanted to get a better look.

I starting thinking about my friend when jacking off, and I would ask myself if I only liked the appearance of his cock, or if I wanted more. When I would approach climax, I decided I wanted to touch it and most of all put it in my mouth. I was a little taken back by this declaration, and it made me a little ashamed of myself, but it was also titillating.

At about the same time, I recorded a late night HBO sex magazine. One of the segments featured male strippers in full frontal nudity. The guys finished their performance by swinging their rather large cocks around. The flopping man-meat made me ridiculously excited. I forgot about all the girls on the tape, and jerked off to the men. I would jerk off to this many, many more times.

I want to know if other guys have some memories like these. For example, for those who had to shower at school, did you suddenly find yourself enjoying the show. I have thought about this scenario and wondered how someone would avoid being caught with an erection, and still check out his classmates. For some, this may have been more trouble than its worth, I would guess. Please share.
 
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sneaking playboys

Started by sneaking a peek at playboys.....taking them out too the woods and drooling over the mags.....One particular neighborhood friend and I started pulling out our dicks and showing that we were hard........:)
 
I just love stories about guys' first gay sex. I like how it involves a self-revelation that can be both terrifying and blissful. I have several of these stories in the works. I like writing them because I haven't had sex with another man, and I find it very arousing to imagine different scenarios.

The first times I have experienced were times when I unexpectedly got turned-on by catching a glimpse at man parts. The one that sticks out in my memory most involves a friend of mine who would occasionally let me see him undressed. I hadn't really seen naked boys growing up; I was never forced to shower after gym, for example. So I was shocked, when seeing his penis, I got rock hard in seconds. Before this happened, I didn't know how pleasing a dick could look to me. I looked away out of modesty, but I really wanted to get a better look.

I starting thinking about my friend when jacking off, and I would ask myself if I only liked the appearance of his cock, or if I wanted more. When I would approach climax, I decided I wanted to touch it and most of all put it in my mouth. I was a little taken back by this declaration, and it made me a little ashamed of myself, but it was also titillating.

At about the same time, I recorded a late night HBO sex magazine. One of the segments featured male strippers in full frontal nudity. The guys finished their performance by swinging their rather large cocks around. The flopping man-meat made me ridiculously excited. I forgot about all the girls on the tape, and jerked off to the men. I would jerk off to this many, many more times.

I want to know if other guys have some memories like these. For example, for those who had to shower at school, did you suddenly find yourself enjoying the show. I have thought about this scenario and wondered how someone would avoid being caught with an erection, and still check out his classmates. For some, this may have been more trouble than its worth, I would guess. Please share.

I first got turned on by sucking my friends cock. A cock did not appeal to me and I was a virgin and wanted girls but you know how 18 year old guys can be. He asked me to cuck his dick and I said no and he kept on and sid I will suck you if you suckme and that went on and one and I did not trust him. I figured I would suck him and he would refuse to suck me. so he finally agree to suck my dick and when he was done> i felt I had to live up to my bargan that if id sucked me fisrst I would suck him, so I sucked my fisrt dick and it really tunred me on. I then found the penis to be a very lovely and desirable thing. I still like women more but the though of a prettcy cock cummming inside my mouth is a hot turn on. When I see a lovely dick I want to suck it.
 
I first got turned on by sucking my friends cock. A cock did not appeal to me and I was a virgin and wanted girls but you know how 18 year old guys can be. He asked me to cuck his dick and I said no and he kept on and sid I will suck you if you suckme and that went on and one and I did not trust him. I figured I would suck him and he would refuse to suck me. so he finally agree to suck my dick and when he was done> i felt I had to live up to my bargan that if id sucked me fisrst I would suck him, so I sucked my fisrt dick and it really tunred me on. I then found the penis to be a very lovely and desirable thing. I still like women more but the though of a prettcy cock cummming inside my mouth is a hot turn on. When I see a lovely dick I want to suck it.

That's like jumping into the deep end. At least with your method, you're pretty much initiated from then on. Did your second experience come naturally, then?

After what I described in the original post, I got into cum shot porn. Sure enough, I found myself craving cum. I ate my own for a while, but I found it to be too much bother. (I want to get a picture of myself with a mouthful or facial however). My girlfriends never cared for giving head, which irritated me because it meant I had more desire to suck cock than them. I don't care very much for eating pussy, at least with the girls I have been with. They almost never came, and I would get bored. I think sucking dick is more interesting. I like watching a cock spasm during ejaculation, and, you can get a taste of semen which I think is hot.
 
Mine was a roommate. I was 19 and shared an apartment with him and his wife. He was rather big, about 10 inches. We were in the Navy, and I saw him jacking off in the shower. I was surprised to be turned on, but didn't really fantasize about it.

About a month later, we were in our apartment drinking, just me and him, and he complained that his wife didn't give him head. He joked that since I was single, we should help each other out. I just laughed him off, and he dropped it. We never talked about it again, but I fantasized about it a lot after that.

I'm glad I didn't do it, because he had a big mouth. But I sometimes wish I would have started as soon as I realized I wanted to.
 
Started by sneaking a peek at playboys.....taking them out too the woods and drooling over the mags.....One particular neighborhood friend and I started pulling out our dicks and showing that we were hard........:)

......that was the hook that caught my interest... seeing mine was one thing seeing another.....had my pulse rate going up.....plus the fear of getting caught, he had an up-ward curve, and was long and thin, myself, even back then, I wasn't as long but much thicker than Andy and bigger handing balls.

We would run like hell too our secret hiding spot, before we would pull out we always did a reCon, to make sure we were not followed ( The one time we didn't heeh, a girl in the neighborhood came strolling by;)).....since we became comfortable with our situation, we would first drop our shorts and undies.....even before we started in with the mags we would check each other out. Seeing who was hard first......kids.....:D
 
At first I was primarily interested in cock and I first learned I liked it was when I saw a shemale porn where she was fucking a girl and for some reason I got turned on this is when I was 19. Later I began seeking out shemale porn and like seeing them get fucked. At first I would j/o and then feel really bad about it even throwing up a couple of times. Fast froward a couple of yrs. and I was really dying to try cock so I met a guy to give sucking a try but, I did not like it. A month passed and I was still craving cock so, I j/o w/ another guy but, he did not want to see me again. So the third guy was the I have really been aroused by.At first I was only interested in cock but, with him I get aroused by more. His body is so small and smooth. There was a couple of months were I could not see him and I missed him and it is then I first realized I was aroused by a man.
 
I had a habit in the 60s of going to those little "art" theatres to sit for hours and masturbate as I watched the skin-flicks....usually they were nudist films...."naturalist" films....I particularly liked the movies with women with large breasts....on one occasion, a fellow in the row agead of me turned around and looked at me rubbing my erection....I'd never experienced this before....he was staring at my erect penis, with me stroking....and I could tell that he was masturbating himself as he was looking at me masturbate....I was not attracted to him, but my penis seemed to get firmer and more sensitive with him watching me....
 
In high school, my friend and I would jerk off together which evolved into mutual handjobs and ultimately, blowjobs. Up until then, we did it in order to have it done to us, but when it came to blowjobs, I was surprised at how much I really loved sucking his cock. In fact, given the choice between sucking him or getting sucked, I would much prefer to blow him. When my friend realized how much I loved to suck his cock, he gradually blew me less and less often until eventually, it was just me blowing him. By then we had discovered girls, and my girlfriend at the time liked to suck my cock, so I really didn't mind being his personal cocksucker. In fact, I kind of liked it. I still love sucking cock.
 
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Oddly enough, I sucked a cock years before I became aware of my interest in men. When I was in my early teens a freind convinced me to suck his cock. It was interesting but he didn't cum, and I put it behind me.

When I got into my mid forties I discoverd bi and gay porn. It wasn't too long before I realized how much seeing a guy with a cock in his mouth or ass turned me on. It took a few years, but I finally did live out my fantasy and have been hooked ever since.
 
sports=locker rooms

Growing up and playing sports.....you see a lot of cocks in the locker room....After those earlier years, and the discovery of Girls....the MM action slowed for few years.....nun the less, I witnessed all shapes and sizes in the locker Rooms....true though, you had to be very careful at how you checked them out....
 
I just love stories about guys' first gay sex. I like how it involves a self-revelation that can be both terrifying and blissful. I have several of these stories in the works. I like writing them because I haven't had sex with another man, and I find it very arousing to imagine different scenarios.

The first times I have experienced were times when I unexpectedly got turned-on by catching a glimpse at man parts. The one that sticks out in my memory most involves a friend of mine who would occasionally let me see him undressed. I hadn't really seen naked boys growing up; I was never forced to shower after gym, for example. So I was shocked, when seeing his penis, I got rock hard in seconds. Before this happened, I didn't know how pleasing a dick could look to me. I looked away out of modesty, but I really wanted to get a better look.

I starting thinking about my friend when jacking off, and I would ask myself if I only liked the appearance of his cock, or if I wanted more. When I would approach climax, I decided I wanted to touch it and most of all put it in my mouth. I was a little taken back by this declaration, and it made me a little ashamed of myself, but it was also titillating.

At about the same time, I recorded a late night HBO sex magazine. One of the segments featured male strippers in full frontal nudity. The guys finished their performance by swinging their rather large cocks around. The flopping man-meat made me ridiculously excited. I forgot about all the girls on the tape, and jerked off to the men. I would jerk off to this many, many more times.

I want to know if other guys have some memories like these. For example, for those who had to shower at school, did you suddenly find yourself enjoying the show. I have thought about this scenario and wondered how someone would avoid being caught with an erection, and still check out his classmates. For some, this may have been more trouble than its worth, I would guess. Please share.

It was a much worse than that for some of us. I was attracted to several of my classmates (boys) but never acted on it for fear. Somehow I was able to avoid the common shower in athletics, staying late for practices had its benefits. I had a pretty good idea that I wasn't attracted to girls when in late grade school and many in my class were gaga over the developing girls, and I just had no clue. I went to an all boy high school and man oh man some of my class mates were cute. I didnt date girls and finally had sex for the first time when I was between my juniour and senior year in HS...with my summer job boss. I kinda figured it all out shortly thereafter :)
 
HI! Good question!

For me, it was maybe when 12 years old, certain when 13 and 14, I think that at that age I 'knew' that I was attracted to men, well, boys, even if maybe I didn't have a label of 'gay or 'bisexual' to put with it.
Well, kids being kids, or as I shoudl say 'boys being boys', and having comunial showers after PE/sports at school I remember really trying not* to look at the cocks of my peers, for fear of getting an erection (yeh I guess you can imagine the teasing that would have ensued being in the shower after football and getting an erection...).
My fasination though was great at that age (13 if not younger), and I remember really wanting to find out what it was like to suck another boys cock, and touch and play with it, and I guess luckily I was 14 when I got to do that; Though strangely after several 'gay experiances' when really young at age 14 or so, I then spent my later teenage years and really until my early twentys, just being with women; Such is the effect of peers and society; until I gave up giving a toss of what people might think and just went openly bisexual with all family and friends...
 
Middle school summer football training in the locker room. First time I had seen other boys nude. I had a hard on all the time, all ways keep a towel or a wash rage to cover myself. Back then guys called you queer if you had a boner in the shower. Actually stopped playing football in high school and took up track, because we could leave after practice and go home and shower. That way I didn't have to worry about having a hard on in the shower room. The stigma of being called queer would have been devastating. Didn't get around to being with a guy until my 30's, what a waste of time between 18 and 30.
 
Don't... remind me.. those* wasted years... still kick myself that I just gave in and 'forgot' about my 'gay' side for those all so important late teenager years... Mind at least I gave up the pretense by the time I hit university, that'd have been a heck of a duller experiance has I not been turning myself in to the fettish slut I am today with other guys in and outside of the Uni...
 
Started by sneaking a peek at playboys.....taking them out too the woods and drooling over the mags.....One particular neighborhood friend and I started pulling out our dicks and showing that we were hard........:)

Ahhh - brings back nice memories:)
 
My first arousal probably came when I was about 4 or 5 years old and watching "The Wild Wild West" on TV. That James West could sure get himself in a predicament, lol. Needless to say I had no idea what was going on. Later years came my dad's Playboy mags and the November & December issues would have naked men in them and I was drawn to them but didn't know why. Then come junior high school and taking showers after gym class and I was really freaking out wondering why I was drooling over all these guys and their big hot looking cocks. Still, sadly, I never had a cock in my mouth until I was 19, and I have never looked back. LOL! Man, I love cock! Yes, I also love fucking a hot ass and would never turn down a good blow job. :)
 
I also remember

I also remember the first time that I realized that I turned another guy on!
It was on Santa Monica beach in CA. I had been having beers with some friends, and when they went home I just went down to the beach because I was feeling pretty good and didn't want to go home.
I was sitting on the boardwalk when a nice looking younger guy came along and sat next to me. I didn't think much of it - we just started chatting.
It started to get dark, and he kind of surprised me by asking if I'd ever walked the beach at night. I said no, and he asked if I'd join him - he said it was really nice. It started to dawn on me that the guy might be gay - he didn't look or act like it at all - and I was just curious enough to see where this would go.
We started walking on the beach, and I noticed the bulge for the first time. There was no doubt he was turned on, and it turned me on to think that he was so attracted to me.
To make a long story short, we ended up finding a fairly quiet spot, and we played with each other very discretely while watching for others. We both ended up cumming. I'll always remember how great it felt to get him off! I loved the feeling that I had turned another guy on to the point where he got an erection for me.
We exchanged phone numbers, but never got in contact again. I sure wish I had.
 
I'll never forget.

I'd been on the fence for a long time when an attractive gay couple emailed me online. They invited me over, and I went, but nothing happened the first time. I didn't see them again until nine months later, and that day, it happened. We were in their living room, talking for a while when they came over to me, dropped their shorts, and their cocks bobbed semi-erect in front of me. I grasped them both in each hand, and noticed how similar to my own they were. Hard and soft at the same time, it just felt natural to hold. I took the bigger one in my mouth, then the smaller, and just tasted them. There really wasn't a taste, just a sensation. It was natural to have them in my mouth, and I sucked until the bigger cock told me to stop; he was close to cumming and didn't want to yet. I felt pretty proud that in my first five minutes of cocksucking, I nearly got the guy off. They took me in the bedroom and took turns sucking my cock and kneeling so I could suck one off while the other sucked me. He inserted a finger into my ass and gave me my first prostate orgasm that day. I saw them again a month later, and that day, the bigger guy worked his cock into my ass. I came with that monster in my ass and the other guy sucking my cock. Eventually it progressed to them taking turns fucking me, and the last time I was with them, the bigger cock came in my ass. I loved the sensation of feeling him pump me full. We've been having sex for the last few years maybe once a month ever since.

I've got a date to see them Saturday morning. ;)
 
I was never attracted to any classmates or anyone in my circle when I was younger. It was only after I was out of college that I realized when watching certain male performers in straight porn. One day I realized while watching one of these movies that I was picturing myself in the womans position.

I find myself being arouse by men far more often now. One day, I may get gustsy enough to try one.
 
That's like jumping into the deep end. At least with your method, you're pretty much initiated from then on. Did your second experience come naturally, then?

After what I described in the original post, I got into cum shot porn. Sure enough, I found myself craving cum. I ate my own for a while, but I found it to be too much bother. (I want to get a picture of myself with a mouthful or facial however). My girlfriends never cared for giving head, which irritated me because it meant I had more desire to suck cock than them. I don't care very much for eating pussy, at least with the girls I have been with. They almost never came, and I would get bored. I think sucking dick is more interesting. I like watching a cock spasm during ejaculation, and, you can get a taste of semen which I think is hot.

Yes, the second time was more natural. I love eating pussy and sucking cock. I have been able to give women more orgasms orally than they recieve with penetration.
 
Yes, the second time was more natural. I love eating pussy and sucking cock. I have been able to give women more orgasms orally than they recieve with penetration.
I forgot to mention that even today almost 40 years later I still wish I could suck my friend I sucked when we were only 18. I still remember how good his dick tasted.
 
I forgot to mention that even today almost 40 years later I still wish I could suck my friend I sucked when we were only 18. I still remember how good his dick tasted.

Same here!! My most vivid and sexually satisfying memories are those of me, as a teenager, on my knees sucking my best friends very big cock and swallowing his cum. I never got enough and I blew him as often as he would let me.
 
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