Guys and Receiving Oral Questions???

[Kinkybytch]

Okay I gotta question when I first got involved with my hubby in the very beggining he told me he did NOT like getting head....(wtf what guy dont like that????) Then after he got more than a sample of my head game he was in love he couldnt get enough of getting a blowjob from me he wanted it it every chance he could get it My question is what guy would not like getting head and why the hell not??? Shit i always thought even if it was bad head it was still pretty good...lol Also when I go down on him he never cums off of just head and he said he has never came with a blow job from anyone Shit not to sound cocky but he is my 1st who hasnt came off of getting head from me because i am flat out the best as it gets with giving head... he oftan has to jerk himself off to th epoint where hes about to come while im giving him head thats the only way he can come.......what do you guys think here???? some insight please!!!!

 

[rocketeer50]

He might be unconsciously resisting because he can't believe you would want him to come in your mouth, since he might find the idea distasteful to him. The BJ sensation may just be too different to him to get over the top. I was that way the first few women from whom I got BJ's. I think my first CIM experience was during 69.

Try combining BJ with handjob. Presumably you can get him off by hand. When he's close to coming by hand take him in your mouth until he comes. Once he's over whatever inhibition there is he will be able to please you both that way. You could also tell him during intercourse that you want him to come in your mouth so he should tell you when he's close. Do it cowgirl so when he's about to come you can hop off and gobble him up.

 

[Kinkybytch]

He might be unconsciously resisting because he can't believe you would want him to come in your mouth, since he might find the idea distasteful to him. The BJ sensation may just be too different to him to get over the top. I was that way the first few women from whom I got BJ's. I think my first CIM experience was during 69.

Try combining BJ with handjob. Presumably you can get him off by hand. When he's close to coming by hand take him in your mouth until he comes. Once he's over whatever inhibition there is he will be able to please you both that way. You could also tell him during intercourse that you want him to come in your mouth so he should tell you when he's close. Do it cowgirl so when he's about to come you can hop off and gobble him up.

you see I have told him to come in my mouth and while i give him head and he afterwards gives himself a handjob to cum right when hes about to cum i will wrap my lips around his dick and suck and suck away when hes in the middle of cumming and make him cum in my mouth Boy you should have seen the look of shock on his face but he liked it i can tell

 

[newbiewhoishot1]

I had an ex who couldn't cum whilst receiving a blow job, never a problem for me before or since but it did knock my confidence a bit. I guess some men just can't do it, I'm sure there are some women who can't cum during oral either.

 

[gunforhire]

I had an ex who couldn't cum whilst receiving a blow job, never a problem for me before or since but it did knock my confidence a bit. I guess some men just can't do it, I'm sure there are some women who can't cum during oral either.

I wouldn't say I can't cum from a BJ but sometimes it does take quite an effort on her part. Maybe i subconsciously try to preserve the BJ. Most of the time I'm happy to have the BJ as part of foreplay anyway. (Or after a little sex, watching her taste herself on me is HOT). But when I do cum in her mouth - it is AWESOME.

 

[stickNberries]

mojo baby

I've never put much focus on getting head from a woman.

If it is something that she enjoys doing then I will not prohibit her from doing it but
my personal experience has not been stellar for reasons that while I am not clearly aware of,
are most certainly my own and are not a reflection of my female partners' "talent" or the like.
It is not competition, in spite of one's mentality about.

There have been very few occasions in which it has been wholly pleasurable, and fewer during which I have reached climax from the feeling of a woman's mouth exclusively.
I suspect the fact of being with someone I was very close to and completely comfortable with, thus having been free of inhibition under those circumstance/s.

I hope however than the woman who may for whatever reason attribute such situation, or rather
assume some level of personal responsibility could do themselves the favor of realizing that it is
just not the case if you are and have been in a substantive relationship with a man for a good period of time.

The bottom line, in any case is the dynamic that occurs between two lovers.
What aspects of sex does it lend to naturally, and what kind of work are parties
involved willing to do for the benefit of exploration and experience?