Guilty

[CelestialBody]

 

[ridddder]

I used to like that song by gravity kills called guilty....reminded me of the first CD by filter, edgy, and hard....

 

[bknight2602]

How many people have been tempted to cheat? I mean seriously tempted? Not for physical reasons, but because someone has so much in common with you, who's funny, and smart, and has similar values, and background as you?

More than tempted! hehehe

 

[His_kitty]

I was very tempted once ... it didn't happen though. Not because either of us backed out, but life interupted. I'm not sure how I feel about that ... there is a part of me that is glad that I didn't betray my (at that time) marital vows and yet a part of me is sad.

 

[MissTaken]

When I was married, none of my needs were met.

There were times when someone I worked with would send a chill up my spine.

There were also a couple of male friends I had at work, who filled some of my needs, for good conversation or simply a smile and some reassurance when things were lousy.

It may seem strange, cheating never occured to me as an option.

It seems strange to me given the barren desert of a marriage I had, highlighted by conflict and fear...as it's only forms of excitement.

Oh well, guess it just isn't me.

 

[Ham Murabi]

If you're asking for a guess (and it appears you are), I'd put the number at 1,427,409,721.

 

[I'mVan]

Tempted? Sure, though not for those reasons. If that's floating your boat, possibly you aren't getting what you need (and deserve) at home.

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[sexy-girl]

i don't think theres anything wrong with admiring qualitys of other people

but if you're really tempted to cheat then maybe theres something wrong with the relationship you're in


i think if someone longs to cheat instead of just admiring a person from afar ... then it maybe means you're actually longing to be out of the relationship your in rather then you acutally wanting the person you're thinking about cheating with ... but your longing is perhaps just being personified by the temptation to cheat

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[sexy-girl]

long distance relationships are really really really hard ... sometimes the hard work involved can actually be so much of the relationship that you can hardly see or feel the good stuff in the relationship

if you've never met this new guy how do you know it couldn't end up the same as it sounds like it would be another long distance relationship

maybe you're just wanting to get away from the hard work of the long distance relationship ? ... which is understandable because i know how hard they can be


only you can really know though and any advice on here is just that advice ... we don't know the situation or the people involved well enough to tell you what to do (i know thats not what you're asking anyway)


i wish you luck though and i hope you sort things out that make you happy ... just be careful that sometimes the new and easy option is just easy and new ... because its new

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[sexy-girl]

i didn't really realize if this was a question about you personally or just in general at first ... im sorry if i sounded all preachy to start with i honestly wish you luck

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Temptress_1960]

I only cheat on my hubby if he's there with me....

or if he knows and approves.

*smiling sweetly*

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm scared mostly. It's not that I want to cheat necessarily, but maybe make a clean break? I love Brian, but things are tepid, and he and I very dissimilar. I don't know. I really don't. I don't remember the last time I was this confused.

I don't know. I LOVE B-but I'm not sure if we're not morethan just close friends now, I like J tremendously, and feel like given half a chance, we'd be unbelievably good for each other. I just don't know.

It sounds like you are less confused than you think, you just don't like the answers you are coming up with when you think about it.

If Brian isn't the right person for you, you aren't doing him any favors by trying to fix the relationship when you get back.

Good luck, CB.