Guilt

[BattlingSoul]

Is GUILT a fetish?

How many people have joined and left the site at least ONCE due to feeling guilty about being here but, wind up coming back - possibly leaving again - AND COMING BACK?

 

[kdb]

Is GUILT a fetish?

How many people have joined and left the site at least ONCE due to feeling guilty about being here but, wind up coming back - possibly leaving again - AND COMING BACK?

Yes. Been here, left here back here....

 

[Funnbrandy]

Don't feel the least bit guilty about being on lit, it's just a little stimulation for the mind.....but I do understand being addicted to the guilt of say cheating.....and there's several levels, sometimes it's guilt guilt, and you completely 100% regret it, other times you know you shouldn't be doing it.....but deep down inside you're grining and you know your gonna do it again.....I've enjoyed that guilt before, lol

 

[ssremember129]

Don't feel the least bit guilty about being on lit, it's just a little stimulation for the mind.....but I do understand being addicted to the guilt of say cheating.....and there's several levels, sometimes it's guilt guilt, and you completely 100% regret it, other times you know you shouldn't be doing it.....but deep down inside you're grining and you know your gonna do it again.....I've enjoyed that guilt before, lol

Being a little older, I can say you're spot on. While the guilt may be there initially, there is something that drives us back into the same or similar situation. I remember several women and men who were flirting with me for years and I really enjoyed their company. When the time and the circumstances allowed, (as each were in relationships but made no excuse that they wanted to have sex with me), I fell the guilt afterwards rather than just enjoy the time I had with them. Yet, I think back to those experiences and the desire that remained and wished I could do it again ...

 

[BattlingSoul]

Thanks for the answers so far, hope to hear from more of you...

 

[dondd]

I too feel guilt about it.
I'm in my 50s and like a lot of guys, married to a woman who isn't interested in sex.

Though I wasn't a virgin before I married, that doesn't mean I had been with a lot of women (only a handful of 'times').

I look-back & fantasize about doing more than "everything...but" with the women I dated in my mid-late 20s before I married in my early 30s.

I sometimes wonder what it would've been like had I pushed things farther & penetrated some of them, instead of settling for cumming over their tummy and giving them heavy oral.

I don't think it would've been so bad. After all, one Christian woman I dated for 1.5 years, she told me she wanted me. But like a fool, still hung-up over sex, didn't proceed to penetrate her, like I now wish I'd done.

 

[o2baPrince]

Is GUILT a fetish?

How many people have joined and left the site at least ONCE due to feeling guilty about being here but, wind up coming back - possibly leaving again - AND COMING BACK?

once, possibly twice...

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[PapaRomantic]

Just thinking off the top of my head here, but I think when guilt is coupled with the activity that makes you feel guilty, it could become a fetish. I think it could spiral higher and higher, the more you feel guilty, the more pleasure it takes to override the guilt, until it becomes a problem.

Not sure if this makes sense or not, but you probably won't feel guilt if there wasn't some type of pleasure attached to it.

I say this not just about being on Lit, but guilt in general.

 

[live4thebj]

Is GUILT a fetish?

How many people have joined and left the site at least ONCE due to feeling guilty about being here but, wind up coming back - possibly leaving again - AND COMING BACK?

Many times and many handles. But far from a fetish IMHO.