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KillerMuffin
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I think my actual physical limit would be 3 including me. Preferably two males.
Mentally though, I could go for a lesbian orgy every once in a while. Something about all those ladies having sex is titillating.
Mentally though, I could go for a lesbian orgy every once in a while. Something about all those ladies having sex is titillating.
ksmybuttons
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Lit is the only group sex I want.
I like my sexual interactions one on one, one in one, one above one, one under one, just one and one.
I like my sexual interactions one on one, one in one, one above one, one under one, just one and one.
erosman
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OK, but this is only because you asked so nicely.
For me, it is difficult to quantify a number of partners. I have yet to experience the female, that stretched my sexual creativity and metabolism to a threshhold of exhaustion. I am sure that they exist, but the right time and place has yet to present itself to find the conclusion of the matter. In my fantasies, there is an endless line of hungry, creative pussy.
For me, it is difficult to quantify a number of partners. I have yet to experience the female, that stretched my sexual creativity and metabolism to a threshhold of exhaustion. I am sure that they exist, but the right time and place has yet to present itself to find the conclusion of the matter. In my fantasies, there is an endless line of hungry, creative pussy.
Hamletmaschine
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I had a 3-way with two women one time, but I was too young to take full advantage of it. I was just a kid and didn't know what the fuck I was doing. And the two women weren't into any girl-girl action at all, so it was basically a one-on-one times two.
I'd like to try it again, but I think three's the limit, preferably with two women who weren't opposed to making it with each other as well as me.
I'd like to try it again, but I think three's the limit, preferably with two women who weren't opposed to making it with each other as well as me.
One time, anonymous, intimacy is unappealing.
Great sex happens between people that are in
tune with each others needs and desires.
How many people do any of us know and like
well enough to share that kind of intimacy?
Finding 3 people is tough, each added person
is exponentially more difficult and impersonal.
It will probably remain a fantasy but the right
people at the right time could be fabulous.
Great sex happens between people that are in
tune with each others needs and desires.
How many people do any of us know and like
well enough to share that kind of intimacy?
Finding 3 people is tough, each added person
is exponentially more difficult and impersonal.
It will probably remain a fantasy but the right
people at the right time could be fabulous.
april-wine
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I am not a group sex person, I would have difficulties even participating for my lover....I have sharing issues as well lol
bluemuse
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I agree
While I have fantasized about it.......usually three way, MFM or FMF............I honestly think that I would end up feeling yucky about it afterwards. I am not one to engage in sexual activities with someone I'm not connected to on an emotional level. Could I handle watching someone that I'm involved with engaging in such activities with someone else? I'm worried that I would end up on the sidelines. Would I be able to participate? Maybe after a couple of shots of tequila......
The perfect set up would be with people who I care about......who I'm connected to and I trust...........but not committed to. Oh.......and a couple shots of tequila.
bluemuse
NoRegrets said:
While I have fantasized about it.......usually three way, MFM or FMF............I honestly think that I would end up feeling yucky about it afterwards. I am not one to engage in sexual activities with someone I'm not connected to on an emotional level. Could I handle watching someone that I'm involved with engaging in such activities with someone else? I'm worried that I would end up on the sidelines. Would I be able to participate? Maybe after a couple of shots of tequila......
The perfect set up would be with people who I care about......who I'm connected to and I trust...........but not committed to. Oh.......and a couple shots of tequila.
bluemuse
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I enjoyed reading group sex stories before I became a general board junkie, but it's strictly fantasy.
I know I'm not emotionally equipped for it, because, to use the terminology of the board in these matters, I "only want to make love, not fuck". I'd want the relationships to be permanent, even if I didn't start with that intention.
The things that are interesting about the group scenario is that 1)you can have it all....you don't have to choose between body types, hair, skin, or eye colors. a person could be included for a specialized purpose due to one sexy physical feature. 2) You can have more...why not a mouth for each erogenous zone? Or genitalia for both hands? 3) Nobody is particularly responsible for anybody's orgasm, everybody gets sated in due course. 4) More skin contact :what can you get from one person, about 40%?5) The idea of being the center of attention.
I know I'm not emotionally equipped for it, because, to use the terminology of the board in these matters, I "only want to make love, not fuck". I'd want the relationships to be permanent, even if I didn't start with that intention.
The things that are interesting about the group scenario is that 1)you can have it all....you don't have to choose between body types, hair, skin, or eye colors. a person could be included for a specialized purpose due to one sexy physical feature. 2) You can have more...why not a mouth for each erogenous zone? Or genitalia for both hands? 3) Nobody is particularly responsible for anybody's orgasm, everybody gets sated in due course. 4) More skin contact :what can you get from one person, about 40%?5) The idea of being the center of attention.
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Of course, I fantasize about making multiple women. The foto submission speaks for itself, I can honestly say I would dive in head first with gusto, a tongue, and a very erect phallus.
I have little if any desire at this moment in my life to be part of an MMF circumstance. I think. I might be able to handle that someday, because I do love sex, but right now, oh, I just feel so insecure about it. (and the SNL dude says, "And that's OK").
But allow me to relate some near MMF experiences.
Of the 1st Kind:
At a local club a woman, dressed in black with a goth look to her came and sat on my lap. She began to explain to me that she had recently found herself very sexual in her life and that she liked to fuck men while her husband watched. She pointed to a man across the club watching us and said, That's him, he gets off on it..... She picked up the burning candle on my table and dripped hot wax onto her inner thigh and gasped. Oh god, she said, I think I am going to come.... oh no, I cannot come here... Of course at this point my dick was almost thoroughly primed. She left me then, and I never saw her or her husband again.
Of the 2nd Kind:
Me and my old housemate went to a party at a friends house. My friend had expressed interest in my roommate, so I communicated this interest to him. That night as the party died the three of us were left together and she asked us to the bedroom. She had candles lit, soft romantic music playing. Her room was beautiful. She asked us to lie in bed with her and listen to the music and talk with her. We were all cuddled about. Next thing I know, my roommate is making out with her. I didn't know why I was in the room in the bed.... I felt uncomfortable. I laid there and went to sleep.
I have never had an MMF of the 3rd kind so far as I know. But to be honest, that MMF of the 1st kind experience was something else. I was participating in something of which I was clueless. All I know is that I loved it.
I have little if any desire at this moment in my life to be part of an MMF circumstance. I think. I might be able to handle that someday, because I do love sex, but right now, oh, I just feel so insecure about it. (and the SNL dude says, "And that's OK").
But allow me to relate some near MMF experiences.
Of the 1st Kind:
At a local club a woman, dressed in black with a goth look to her came and sat on my lap. She began to explain to me that she had recently found herself very sexual in her life and that she liked to fuck men while her husband watched. She pointed to a man across the club watching us and said, That's him, he gets off on it..... She picked up the burning candle on my table and dripped hot wax onto her inner thigh and gasped. Oh god, she said, I think I am going to come.... oh no, I cannot come here... Of course at this point my dick was almost thoroughly primed. She left me then, and I never saw her or her husband again.
Of the 2nd Kind:
Me and my old housemate went to a party at a friends house. My friend had expressed interest in my roommate, so I communicated this interest to him. That night as the party died the three of us were left together and she asked us to the bedroom. She had candles lit, soft romantic music playing. Her room was beautiful. She asked us to lie in bed with her and listen to the music and talk with her. We were all cuddled about. Next thing I know, my roommate is making out with her. I didn't know why I was in the room in the bed.... I felt uncomfortable. I laid there and went to sleep.
I have never had an MMF of the 3rd kind so far as I know. But to be honest, that MMF of the 1st kind experience was something else. I was participating in something of which I was clueless. All I know is that I loved it.
Group sex doesnt do anything for me, unless I am a watching perv. 
Seriously though, I fantasize about threesomes, mostly FFM but if I was emotionally attached to one of the other persons, I couldnt do it. I give myself fully and I want the same back. I wouldnt enjoy seeing him get off by another girl.....if I gave him my heart. It would hurt too much. Just the kinda girlie I am! But if it was meaningless sex......im sure i would do it in a heartbeat.....and Im not into meaningless sex....
Seriously though, I fantasize about threesomes, mostly FFM but if I was emotionally attached to one of the other persons, I couldnt do it. I give myself fully and I want the same back. I wouldnt enjoy seeing him get off by another girl.....if I gave him my heart. It would hurt too much. Just the kinda girlie I am! But if it was meaningless sex......im sure i would do it in a heartbeat.....and Im not into meaningless sex....
erosman
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lavender said:
It is interesting to me as I have read here at Lit regarding 3somes, that there is a fear that it ruins, or tears apart as you suggested. I do think that a 3some has the potential to provide greater insight into one's own sexuality. But, that would be an entirely different approach than just the physical satisfaction that could be derived. It probably would take special individuals to spelunk into that darkened cave of sexuality and examine the underpinnings that you talk of. There would have to be some serious cerebral sexmaniacs. It actually sounds fascinating when you picture it this way. Definitely not for the faint of heart.
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How many people do you think you could handle or would want in a group sex romp?
For some reason group sex does not call my attention. I think that would be way to many people involved and others things which as I am typing this, I am conjuring up images and they are not to appealing concerning this whole group sex.
I think I would say yes to a 3some though , I see a 3some as smaller and I am thinking in a 3some there would be more attention and a lot more action ... in the sense that I can keep track of the action as it is happening.
I have been approached to be involved in a 3some, the first time was when I was 20 yrs old and I was working on an island resort. My "boss" was having an affair with the bartender *she was a woman* and they had this thing about always teasing me & the bartender would always give me explict details about what she & my boss did ... she mentioned my boss liked me & he how she wanted to surprise him & would I join along in "games".
Of course I said "no" @ the time I was young & naive. Later on in life I was approached again & I have always said no .. I guess I am to PRUDE or some thing. *adjusting my halo*
But any ways ... I think I would *if ever brave enough* join in a 3some. A MMF 3some though ... the problem with me is that odds are I would just love watching the men go at it !!! That alone would be AMAZING !!
For some reason group sex does not call my attention. I think that would be way to many people involved and others things which as I am typing this, I am conjuring up images and they are not to appealing concerning this whole group sex.
I think I would say yes to a 3some though , I see a 3some as smaller and I am thinking in a 3some there would be more attention and a lot more action ... in the sense that I can keep track of the action as it is happening.
I have been approached to be involved in a 3some, the first time was when I was 20 yrs old and I was working on an island resort. My "boss" was having an affair with the bartender *she was a woman* and they had this thing about always teasing me & the bartender would always give me explict details about what she & my boss did ... she mentioned my boss liked me & he how she wanted to surprise him & would I join along in "games".
Of course I said "no" @ the time I was young & naive. Later on in life I was approached again & I have always said no .. I guess I am to PRUDE or some thing. *adjusting my halo*
But any ways ... I think I would *if ever brave enough* join in a 3some. A MMF 3some though ... the problem with me is that odds are I would just love watching the men go at it !!! That alone would be AMAZING !!
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Aphrodisiac said:But any ways ... I think I would *if ever brave enough* join in a 3some. A MMF 3some though ... the problem with me is that odds are I would just love watching the men go at it !!! That alone would be AMAZING !!
LMAO hehehe
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also...
If there was an openess on all parties to dig deep into their sexual identities and reveal their 'first thoughts' and 'inner voice' regarding their appetites and desires, it would be more of an intellectual/emotional trip. I'm not sure which would be more intriguing: to be a participant who helps the discovery process for another, or to be the one who, for the moment, is having their sexuality dissected and displayed in the other participant's actions. There would definitely be a deep bonding between the participants.
Damn it Lav, you've hijacked my thinking now.
If there was an openess on all parties to dig deep into their sexual identities and reveal their 'first thoughts' and 'inner voice' regarding their appetites and desires, it would be more of an intellectual/emotional trip. I'm not sure which would be more intriguing: to be a participant who helps the discovery process for another, or to be the one who, for the moment, is having their sexuality dissected and displayed in the other participant's actions. There would definitely be a deep bonding between the participants.
Damn it Lav, you've hijacked my thinking now.
erosman
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Aphrodisiac said:[B... the problem with me is that odds are I would just love watching the men go at it !!! That alone would be AMAZING !!
I don't know.....I don't think that I could just watch. I'd have to be right in the middle of the action. This just doesn't seem to fit the label of 'spectator sport', or maybe I just don't wear that label well.
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Aphrodisiac said:
hahaha, I think you meant prude
As to the question:
I don't have any desire to be sexual with a woman ... not that I don't understand the appeal, just doesn't appeal to me.
It would KILL me to watch (or even think) of my big guy even remotely sexually involved with another woman.
<-- does not share well with others!!!
BUtttttttt, I would love to fade into the curtains, invisible like, and WATCH group sex of any multiples. Even better, if I was watching with my man. That is a voyeuristic fantasy which we may explore in the near future.
Private Vasquez
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I've been in a situation where there were three of us, no couples involved, just three single people (FFM)...and we did some thangs. It was wicked enjoyable and I'd go at it again.
