Group sex with wife/gf

[MrRelaxer8002]

Its a huge fantasy of mine, we often watch group porn together. But she says she would never try it, has anyone tried it with there bf/gf wife or husband? How was it?

 

[Money1969]

did it in college and loved it. Don't think I'd do it now. When I was young and more adventurous it was great fun.

 

[MrRelaxer8002]

Yeah we are in our 30's, so not sure how it would go over now.

 

[pcarp]

How big a group? G/F and I regularly engage in 3somes, ffm in the past and currently mmf. We would love to try a 4way, mmff. And we are in our late (very) 40's.

 

[blooflame]

It's fun, but

Hard to find people who don't have issues... husband of one pair was lying to all, he had 'sex addiction' was doing risky unprotected sex unbeknownst to wife and us, risked all

 

[Experiencedguy]

The last point raised is the best. Just too damn unsafe anymore (no matter what protection is used -- too many things can just go wrong). Many years ago, when no matter what, you just had to go to the local Doctor for a couple of embarrassing shots, My best friend, myself, and both of our wives had a massive gangbang of about 20 guys, and it was fantastic. Some of the guys couldn't perform at all, but a few of them managed three times. Lasted several hours, and my buddy and I went last. There was cum everywhere. Anymore, best enjoyed as a fantasy (unless you can trust all the players with your life).

 

[shewantsmore]

thats a very good reason why you have to be carefull or know the people well or of course use protection.Ive had 3s mmf and mff and in the past group sex which was totally unbelieveable.these days its only with people i know well.
Its not only health but also partners can get jealous or other issues so not for everyone but for me i loved

 

[hungdavid]

did it in college and loved it. Don't think I'd do it now. When I was young and more adventurous it was great fun.

We could pretend that you were still in college, sweetheart... and even let your husband watch, if he wanted to..

 

[PrettyDemoN]

Its my bf's ultimate fantacy to swing, I am not so sure yet, we both have jealousy issues. It turns me on when - think of him with another woman in front of me but then the jealous mind kicks in and the "what if she is better" questions start popping up

 

[LindsayRae]

I suppose it totally depends on what you consider "group sex" to be. Different people have different definitions.

In my twenties, I had been involved with swingers. More times than not I was a single bi female hooking up with couples. Then there was one man I was dating, and began swinging. (Only soft swinging at that point.) And, again when single, I was involved in a "small" (my definition) orgy/swing party where a friend of mine invited a few other couples (and two of them showed up). That made six people including my friend and I. Three men, three women. All females bi.

Would I do it with a man that I truly/totally cared about and loved? No. Why? I don't think I would be able to get past any jealousy issues seeing my man fucking another woman - and seeing him enjoy it. Jealously is human nature.

Frankly, and this is my opinion so I am not trying to claim it as "fact for all" or whatever, I believe that if someone wouldn't mind seeing their lover fuck another then they don't truly love them deeply enough.

 

[LindsayRae]

Its my bf's ultimate fantacy to swing, I am not so sure yet, we both have jealousy issues. It turns me on when - think of him with another woman in front of me but then the jealous mind kicks in and the "what if she is better" questions start popping up

In my opinion, PrettyDemoN is an example of someone who does love her partner so much that the REALITY of seeing him fuck another hurts her/makes her jealous.

I think she gets it.





And, no, I am not condemning swingers or whatever. I just think your love isn't as strong since you don't care who fucks your lover.

 

[MrRelaxer8002]

Yeah i think its a great fantasy, but in reality to move forward with something like that just opens up to many avenues for destruction of the relationship. As hot as it sounds, it just seems to risky and if someone liked it to much it could lead to cheating outside of the agreed upon group. i mean if it happens it happens,but i dont think i could sit and plan it.

 

[partsecond]

Yeah we are in our 30's, so not sure how it would go over now.

Same here. I wonder is we over 30 are more grounded, or just overly cautious.

 

[aniowachick]

And, no, I am not condemning swingers or whatever. I just think your love isn't as strong since you don't care who fucks your lover.

You think wrong.
I am desperately in love with my husband.
There is a huge difference between love and sex.

We make love to eachother but have sex with other couples for fun. Its like a card game ... just fun

 

[shewantsmore]

You think wrong.
I am desperately in love with my husband.
There is a huge difference between love and sex.

We make love to eachother but have sex with other couples for fun. Its like a card game ... just fun

thats totally right,swinging is not for everyone but if you have a stable relationship and want to have fun then i dont see any harm in it

 

[hungdavid]

You think wrong.
I am desperately in love with my husband.
There is a huge difference between love and sex.

We make love to eachother but have sex with other couples for fun. Its like a card game ... just fun

thats totally right,swinging is not for everyone but if you have a stable relationship and want to have fun then i dont see any harm in it

.

I absolutely agree with these two ladies... (Good morning girls..)

 

[LindsayRae]

You think wrong...

As is your opinion. Maybe I think you think wrong.





Have a blessed Sunday!

 

[aniowachick]

As is your opinion. Maybe I think you think wrong.





Have a blessed Sunday!

I am definitely not wrong in how deeply I am in love with my husband.

When we first met and were dating and about 12 years into our marriage I couldnt imagine him having sex with anyone else but me. The whole thing tore me up.

Watching porn etc and talking dirty we got comfortable with fantasizing about threesomes etc.
Our first and only threesome was with our best friend. She has known him for 21 years and me for 17. We are all so close it came natural. I know in my heart neither one want to be together..

I felt jealous for about 2 hours after... but we all slept in same bed and it was me he held all night. Kissing my head.. showing his love.

I can truely say you are wrong I love him more than you can possibly know.

We have since been with another couple.. but that didnt work out like we hoped.. Maybe with our new friends

 

[reinanal]

i can say i thought it was fun me my gf my best friend and her husband all together. i had a great time it was one of my favorite things to do

 

[Babeslady]

In my opinion, PrettyDemoN is an example of someone who does love her partner so much that the REALITY of seeing him fuck another hurts her/makes her jealous.

I think she gets it.





And, no, I am not condemning swingers or whatever. I just think your love isn't as strong since you don't care who fucks your lover.

Jealousy is a fear based emotion. As PrettyDemoN stated. She is worried that he will love someome more than her. Therefore seeing him enjoy another hurts. Not because of how much she loves HIM but because of how much she loves HERSELF or doesn't. The REALITY is that she feels that she can't give him everything he wants.

Giving someone everything they want is not love. Letting someone be the best they can be is loving them. Trying to give your partner everything yourself even if you don't like it, or can't is not loving them and it ultimately hurts you.

Sharing your partner is not for everyone and many people are happy to compromise and pretend fantasies or dirty talk but never act on their fantasies. That is cool. But those people do not have the right to pretend that they love their partner more than the ones who are brave enough to have the real thing.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it is yours. If it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be.

 

[LindsayRae]

Jealousy is a fear based emotion. As PrettyDemoN stated. She is worried that he will love someome more than her.

I do not think she is worried that her man would love another woman more than her, I have a feeling that she worries that he may enjoy sex with another woman more.

But, of course, only she can answer for herself.