Good Love, Good Sex

[sulamaire]

I have a series of responses to the question "What is love" from children.

I will give one of them at a time.

Please respond with your answer to how do you know when you are having really good sex.

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds:
"What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.
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"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."

Your turn, What does "good sex" mean?

 

[Neale]

Good question

Good sex means that something beyond the physical has just occurred, and all involved parties shared something transcendant.

which is not to say that not-good sex has to be bad!

 

[sulamaire]

Good one.

The second child's version of "What is love?" is:

"When someone loves you,the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth."

 

[Angelus]

Hmmm, this is a tough one but I would have to say this:

Good sex is where both people involved become one- I don't mean in the physical sense where as there is that but I mean in mind, heart and soul as well so that they don't even have to think if what they are doing is right they just know.

 

[ericred50]

Good sex, when persons, respond to each other,
each giving pleasure. They must enjoy giving as much as receiving, to the point where the other persons, gives more than they receive. The results is that the persons concerned, both or all receive an equal amount, resulting in good organsims for all concerned.

 

[Latina]

Good sex is when you feel yourselves joining as one soul. When you care as much or more about the other person's pleasure as your own. When you feel a powerful feeling of love and respect for the man wash over you, along with the orgasm that washes over you. When you know each other's bodies, each other's hot spots, so well that you just KNOW when, how, and where to touch, without guidance. When you are BOTH enjoying the foreplay so much that you put off moving to the "main event" for as long as you can, and then delay it even LONGER. When afterward, all that you BOTH want to do is lie in each other's loving arms forever. When he doesn't pull out right away, and you feel him pulsing and throbbing even AFTER your mutual orgasms, the throbbing that tells you he is still excited to be with you and still deeply in love with you even after nearly 5 years of our relationship, and that is why he is taking a long time to calm down and regain his composure. When contentment washes over your soul, and you rest peacefully together, and then after you've both calmed down and regained normal breathing, you start in on a second round. When sex is the first thing you do in the morning and the last thing at night--and something you WANT to do all the time. When you can't imagine spending the rest of your life without him, and without having frequent and glorious sex with him. When you go the whole day at work feeling his come inside you, and you ache to hold him again, you can't wait to show him how much you love him and lust for him and think he is the sexiest guy in the world, and you can't wait to get back home and be in his arms again, you can't wait to feel him slowly slipping into you again.

That is good sex. I'm so lucky I don't have to settle for less than that any more, but I wish it hadn't taken me until the age of 45 to find this!

-- Latina

 

[willywanker]

Uuuuuhhh, I want some of what Latina's getting. Wow, how do you top that?

But Great Sex starts between your ears. It's being with the one you want to be with, no outside distraction, no time limits and probably most important, great sex is fun. Looking back at the times in my life that I consider to have had great sex, laughter is always involved. Sex is supposed to be fun, and I think we put to much pressure on ourselves sometime to have fun.

 

[Jake2001]

Godd sex is

...when she gets really really wet

 

[TonyG]

Good sex is when the mind has been seduced, the soul completely yields and the body receives the physical pleasure.

 

[sulamaire]

Hmmm, this is a tough one but I would have to say this:

Good sex is where both people involved become one- I don't mean in the physical sense where as there is that but I mean in mind, heart and soul as well so that they don't even have to think if what they are doing is right they just know.

MMMmm, yes, I like that, and I agree. I hate to be so trivial after such a lovely answer, but I promised.

Here is what one child said:

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."

 

[sulamaire]

at work feeling his come inside you, and you ache to hold him again, you can't wait to show him how much you love him and lust for him and think he is the sexiest guy in the world, and you can't wait to get back home and be in his arms again, you can't wait to feel him slowly slipping into you again.

That is good sex. I'm so lucky I don't have to settle for less than that any more, but I wish it hadn't taken me until the age of 45 to find this!

-- Latina
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This is wonderful. Again I hate it that these joke lines may detract from the great thoughts. I am happy for you, too.

Here is the next "kid's idea" of what love is:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her
toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even
when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."

 

[sulamaire]

Kids' ideas of love:

"When someone loves you,
the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe
in their mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French
fries without making them give you any of theirs."

 

[Juliangel]

Kids' ideas of love:

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

LOL I like this one