Good Evening

[HawkEye38]

Allow me to sum up the progression of this thread...

Grace asked if people brought cookies, at which point Sonja told everyone to deny all knowledge of cookies or crumbs for that matter. Grace replied accusing Sonja of hiding the cookie crumbs who said that Grace ate them and then went off about some lemon thingy. Then there was something about chocolate covered cherries and then Xlebes hopped in clog dancing whilst juggeling pies.

Anyone care to argue that we're not a dysfunctional family now?

 

[Sierragrowl]

Allow me to sum up the progression of this thread...

Grace asked if people brought cookies, at which point Sonja told everyone to deny all knowledge of cookies or crumbs for that matter. Grace replied accusing Sonja of hiding the cookie crumbs who said that Grace ate them and then went off about some lemon thingy. Then there was something about chocolate covered cherries and then Xlebes hopped in clog dancing whilst juggeling pies.

Anyone care to argue that we're not a dysfunctional family now?

Naww it's not that. Its called "Hijacking a thread". lol

 

[graceanne]

I never claimed we weren't dysfunctional. But at least we're not unfunctional.

Sierres - not all dom's are into giving pain or any of the above. Quite often dom's are also sadists, but it's doesn't HAVE to tie in together. If I were you'd I'd check out www.takeninhand.com .

 

[Marquis]

Flerbing JLOOBIN gloabbel glock!!!

 

[shy slave]

Well I am new to the whole D/s world and have always felt I wanted to take control of things (in a positive way). So if I were to pick one, it would be Dom. However from what I've read so far, I don't know if I could put someone I care about through everything I've seen.

Does that make sense?

When i started to discover my submissive tendencies, this was something I thought about a great deal.
How can they hurt you if they like you?

But I have come to the realisation that that is why they do it.

In vanilla life we do things we know people will like, so this is not so very different.

There is also the concept that you only have to do what you want to do, not what the submissive wants; therefore you don't have to do anything you feel your not ready for.

Tick lists are often a good idea, you can see what expectations they have and you can then decide what you feel able to fulfil.
It allows you to be honest and upfront from the beginning and decide if this is just play or if you want it to develop into other aspects of a relationship.

I have seen your other thread about Dom training, I know of Doms who may not have fully submitted, but have trained under other Doms in order to gain experience and understand what their own pain/humiliation/patience levels are.
They have said it has given them confidence and they are not doing anything to a submissive they would not be prepared to have done to themselves.

 

[Sierragrowl]

When i started to discover my submissive tendencies, this was something I thought about a great deal.
How can they hurt you if they like you?

But I have come to the realisation that that is why they do it.

In vanilla life we do things we know people will like, so this is not so very different.

There is also the concept that you only have to do what you want to do, not what the submissive wants; therefore you don't have to do anything you feel your not ready for.

Tick lists are often a good idea, you can see what expectations they have and you can then decide what you feel able to fulfil.
It allows you to be honest and upfront from the beginning and decide if this is just play or if you want it to develop into other aspects of a relationship.

I have seen your other thread about Dom training, I know of Doms who may not have fully submitted, but have trained under other Doms in order to gain experience and understand what their own pain/humiliation/patience levels are.
They have said it has given them confidence and they are not doing anything to a submissive they would not be prepared to have done to themselves.

Thank you for the idea of Tick lists.


Being in the Marines I am fully aware that people tend to under-estimate themselves. Only to find out they can push themselves farther.

 

[shy slave]

Thank you for the idea of Tick lists.


Being in the Marines I am fully aware that people tend to under-estimate themselves. Only to find out they can push themselves farther.

Oh well I take back my earlier comment about knowing your own pain levels.

You must know exactly where those are!!

Now I have visions of your punishing a sub using exercise...

 

[greenmands]

Now I have visions of your punishing a sub using exercise...

I can just see it. In the rain with a full pack.
Or maybe a 30 Km hike after an enema, and no TP along.

 

[shy slave]

I can just see it. In the rain with a full pack.
Or maybe a 30 Km hike after an enema, and no TP along.

A 1km hike would be hell for me, but after an enema

You have a real mean streak !!!

 

[Xelebes]

Okay, now this is the important thing about pie... dutch apple or regular apple? Would you serve it in a bowl with a pitcher of cream to pour over it, or on a plate with ice cream?

You have apple pie with ice cream?

 

[greenmands]

A 1km hike would be hell for me, but after an enema

You have a real mean streak !!!

I'm a switch.
Plus I have 6 years in the U.S.Army with a few very creative and sadistic sargents.

 

[greenmands]

Okay, now this is the important thing about pie... dutch apple or regular apple? Would you serve it in a bowl with a pitcher of cream to pour over it, or on a plate with ice cream?

Is it a dutch apple cobbler or a dutch apple pie?
If cobbler, then in a bowl with cream. If pie, on a plate with Hagen-Dazz ice cream.

 

[graceanne]

A 1km hike would be hell for me, but after an enema

You have a real mean streak !!!

Yeah, we all know what you hardest limit is. (Namely excercise.) You could become disabled so you'd have a good excuse for not excercising.

 

[DVS]

Yeah, we all know what you hardest limit is. (Namely excercise.) You could become disabled so you'd have a good excuse for not excercising.

I'm more enclined to stuff an electrified butt plug in some submissive's ass. Her wrists would be bound in front (maybe attached to a collar), so she can't get to it, and I control her that way. She does a good job with her mouth and see's rewarded. She does a good job and swallows me, and she will be fucked until she can't walk straight. No 1K race necessary.

But, she doesn't do something correctly, she'll be doing a little butt sizzle dance for me until she learns. Now, it isn't a 1K race, or even a long walk. Just standing still might be difficult for her.

 

[HawkEye38]

Is it a dutch apple cobbler or a dutch apple pie?
If cobbler, then in a bowl with cream. If pie, on a plate with Hagen-Dazz ice cream.

ENOUGH WITH THE PIES!!!!!

ARGH!!!

::runs off to find a nice cliff to jump off::

 

[HawkEye38]

I'm more enclined to stuff an electrified butt plug in some submissive's ass. Her wrists would be bound in front (maybe attached to a collar), so she can't get to it, and I control her that way. She does a good job with her mouth and see's rewarded. She does a good job and swallows me, and she will be fucked until she can't walk straight. No 1K race necessary.

But, she doesn't do something correctly, she'll be doing a little butt sizzle dance for me until she learns. Now, it isn't a 1K race, or even a long walk. Just standing still might be difficult for her.

Oh god, It's about 2:30 in the morning and I forgot your avitar moves... that's it, i'm going to bed.

 

[DVS]

Oh god, It's about 2:30 in the morning and I forgot your avitar moves... that's it, i'm going to bed.

I bet you dream about jumping off a clift and you land in a dutch apple pie. Then, you look up to see Hitch smiling at you.

Oh, I guess that's be a nightmare?

 

[greenmands]

ENOUGH WITH THE PIES!!!!!

ARGH!!!

::runs off to find a nice cliff to jump off::

Okay, enough of the applke pies. How about a nice cream pie instead?

 

[Sierragrowl]

Oh well I take back my earlier comment about knowing your own pain levels.

You must know exactly where those are!!

Now I have visions of your punishing a sub using exercise...

I did have one lady I was seeing doing pushups. She couldn't do any when we began and after 4 weeks she was doing 2 sets of push ups, 10 each time. She was also doing leg lifts ( 2 sets of 10). At one point she was up to 3 sets of each 15 times each.

She enjoyed it and thanked me for motivating her.

 

[HawkEye38]

Okay, enough of the applke pies. How about a nice cream pie instead?

ô¿o oh yeah, cute, real cute

 

[shy slave]

I'm more enclined to stuff an electrified butt plug in some submissive's ass. Her wrists would be bound in front (maybe attached to a collar), so she can't get to it, and I control her that way. She does a good job with her mouth and see's rewarded. She does a good job and swallows me, and she will be fucked until she can't walk straight. No 1K race necessary.

But, she doesn't do something correctly, she'll be doing a little butt sizzle dance for me until she learns. Now, it isn't a 1K race, or even a long walk. Just standing still might be difficult for her.

I could manage that far easier than walking!!

At least if standing is difficult afterwards I still get fucked.

The only issue is the electrified butt plug, and if its that or the E word.... I choose the plug!!

Gracie is right ~ it has crossed my mind to fake a disability, but I suspect if I tried it will only make it worse!

And people wonder why I say i want to enjoy aspects of an LDR, The E word is too difficult for him to enforce from so far away

edit for spelling (again and again and again)

Oh can I have some pie please, but no cream I don't want to get too fat

 

[Red Sonja]

You have apple pie with ice cream?

Yes, especially when the pie is really heavily cinnamoned, and warm. Yummy. Although, cheese is good too.

 

[greenmands]

Yes, especially when the pie is really heavily cinnamoned, and warm. Yummy. Although, cheese is good too.

Cheddar, american, or colby?

 

[Red Sonja]

Cheddar, american, or colby?

Oh cheddar is beddar! But it depends on how tart the apples are.

 

[Sierragrowl]

I think my thread just got hijacked!

What are we all talking about?