Going to a BDSM Meet, first time

[jlust]

Anyone been to something like this? It's a public place, and I already talked to the host, she asked if I had ever been before, and what I considered myself (sub/dom/both).

I'm not really feeling shy about it at all, just curious, and a little excited. I did tell her I was exploring my submissive side.

 

[CutieMouse]

I find being polite and friendly works no matter where you are.

Fury started a thread about her first munch; I've linked it, below.

munch thread link

 

[jlust]

Just posted there, Thanks

 

[BeachGurl2]

One thing I've found, at least at our dungeon here, is that the people are incredibly open and welcoming. I haven't been to the munches because they don't work into my schedule, but I have been to the dungeon on party nights. Whether you play or not, everyone is very nice and eager to help you learn. So go and have a good time. At the very least, you'll meet some new people.

 

[saw_man1]

Nothing to it

Think of this meeting as if it were your first day at a new job. Although everyone is a stranger they are also a potential new friend.

Some people will be kind and caring like Cutie Mouse and Beach Gurl. Others will be mean and nasty, like me. Avoid people like me and seek out people like them.

See how easy it is.

 

[CutieMouse]

Some people will be kind and caring like Cutie Mouse and Beach Gurl. Others will be mean and nasty, like me. Avoid people like me and seek out people like them.

See how easy it is.

I do not for one second believe you are mean and nasty! *laughing*

 

[BeachGurl2]

Think of this meeting as if it were your first day at a new job. Although everyone is a stranger they are also a potential new friend.

Some people will be kind and caring like Cutie Mouse and Beach Gurl. Others will be mean and nasty, like me. Avoid people like me and seek out people like them.

See how easy it is.

Boy have I got you fooled.


Oh goodie, it's working . . .