Going Down

[RazeByFire]

I love going down on my girlfirend. And she likes it as well. But I want to really blow her mind so I am wondering how I can improve my style.

No toys or substances, just fingers and mouth.

I usually warm her up with some kissing and wondering hands which I also love. Sucking her beautiful raspberry nipples and running my hands over her panties, feeling her heat.

When I can feel that she is wet I start my way down, kissing her ribs and soft belly, her hips and strong thighs. Even nibble tham as I slide her panties off to reveal her lucsious peach.

I smile everytime. I smile and look at her face until she opens her eyes and THEN I begin. I love her first gasp as I put my tongue inside her and she throws her head back. Her low moans are music to my ears.

I seek her wetness, licking and sliding about the lips of her flower. So overwhelming, her thigh about my neck and ears, centering my attention on her and her alone. Her hips dance, bounding off the mattress again and again, surging and receding like her an ocean all her own.

Soon she is scratching my arms grasping her thighs and I move my tongue to her button, only protruding slightly as it always has and I dance there hard, then soft, following her gasps and moans. Flatly wetly, quickly slowly, in circles, in waves making a counterpoint to to her own. My lips swell from the pressure, my tongue tires but I persevere, anxious to see her reach the peak- and fall.

And she does, so intensely that she must force me away and curls about herself for a few moments. It is here that I can make a choice. I can slip my hard cock inside her slowly and take her or mold my self about her and let her return to herself.

Ahh, damn, I forgot what I was going to ask, got carried away.

Well, when I am going down on her and it seems like its time to get serious I go for her clit, but should I do that? As a guy if I am masturbating or having sex its the repetition of intense sensation that gets me off. But girls are different, or so I am told.

So do I have to keep on her little button to keep her at the same level of excitement, or will she stay there as long as I am stimulating her in other ways, licking her lips and fingering her spot, etc.

 

[SweetErika]

This is a question you'll have to ask her... none of us can tell you what you should do or what she likes/needs in terms of stimulation. You could also maybe ask her to let you watch her masturbate...that should give you a good idea of what kinds of moves get her off. Good luck.

 

[RazeByFire]

*Bump* myself.

 

[Guest]

Communication is the key!!!

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Communication is definitely key. If you can really discuss fantasies, physical sensations, likes and dislikes, etc., then you'll get a pretty good idea of what to do with her.

Also, take the time to learn about her body first hand. See if she'll let you explore her, try things on her, in her, etc.

Sex toys are fun during cunnilingus because if you can develop enough dexterity then you can cause her multiple pleasures in multiple ways.

My wife enjoys the hell out of it when I have her spread her own lips so my tongue can get the right access to her clit, while I maneuver a Phallix glass dildo in her vagina and a small and slender vibrator in her bum. She has some pretty spectacular orgasms from that.

Also, develop as broad a spectrum as possible with the oral techniques as well as the fingering techniques. I use about 4 or 5 different techniques with my fingers in her and another 6 or 7 techniques with my tongue and mouth, and there's using combinations of all these techniques to take it even farther.

Just remember: A pussy is a really small place, so small movements can sometimes have tremendous effects.

I would describe my techniques, but the simple truth is that they change from woman to woman, so what I do with mine may not work with yours.

The other advantage to knowing her body and having a variety of techniques and combinations of those techniques, is the fact that a woman's body and the things that really get her off can be different from day to day, and even hour to hour. The more you know the better chance you have of success every single time.

Oh! One more thing...
If you really want to blow her mind, give without expecting any return. In fact, give and tell her that was all you wanted from her, her pleasure.