Going Bareback

[Seafoamzone]

So like many here i am an older married guy who likes to indulge his bi side from time to time. We all know the story, wife has no interest anymore and Im still horny as hell so I try to do something 2 or 3 times a year. I have topped a couple of guys but Im more of a bottom, love to get fucked and suck cock, eat ass and just go all in.
I always try to play safe but have been reckless twice and went bareback with 2 different guys. I have to say that it feels better that way for me and must for him as well. I felt so slutty with cum leaking out of my ass. Of course I was really worried until my tests came back negative for everything.
I know that the risk of catching something is small overall but there is a risk. My question is how do guys decide to go bare all of the time and not worry about it. I see the ads on various hookup sites where everyone just wants to breed or be bred. So what gives?

 

[sr71plt]

Not since 1985. That's when reality hit close to home in Bangkok.

 

[gunthernehmen]

I've done it bare, twice with one guy and yes the feeling is out of this world.

It'll be a long time before I succumb again to my need for... Matter of priorities. Not worth the risk to make a habit of it.

Someone else may see that as the central thing in their life and do it all the time. Of course sleeping with someone like that is a ticking time bomb.

 

[Seafoamzone]

The risk is certainly there, espically with random hookups, which is why I don't understand why so many guys just go unprotected.

 

[turbocs37]

Bare

I always suck bare. I've only had one cock with a condom in my mouth. YUCK!! I have been fucked a handful of times and taken the cum inside me but that was mostly with one particular gay couple. Only once or twice with strangers. Love drinking that hot cum though. Never get enough.

 

[SissySalina]

bare back

sissy only does it bare but sissy only does who She selects and picks for sissy.
She is careful and strangers are not on the menu.
You have to be careful with test some stuff does not register for up to a month after you get it.

 

[Seafoamzone]

oh yes, I know about the time frame for testing, and always allow for that.
I also suck bare, I know there is still a risk but it is less than with anal, some say far less but the risk is there.
Sucking with a condom is just about pointless.

 

[gunthernehmen]

oh yes, I know about the time frame for testing, and always allow for that.
I also suck bare, I know there is still a risk but it is less than with anal, some say far less but the risk is there.
Sucking with a condom is just about pointless.

Exactly. Ok, so there's a cock in your mouth but you can't taste it. You can't feel the texture of the skin. You taste spermacide and smell latex. ugh

I agree with the relative risks. Maybe I'm just good at convincing myself but I will not resort to sucking on rubber.

I do limit what goes in my butt for that reason. If I thought there was any point to sticking a condom clad cock in my ass I could just use a dildo. (and sometimes do) The risk of having a bare cock in there is too great so I resort to the occasional cocksicle.

I would LOVE to have a regular bf I could build trust with just so I could bottom bare and safe. So far it's not to be.

 

[Mqoi]

I only go bareback, but like above, I'm very very picky about who I let stick a cock in me. I'll suck more than I'll fuck. I might suck you off, but only a very extreme few have ever been up my ass.

 

[jakelc]

For oral it's gotta be bare all the time, for anal, well I prefer bare and being bred. I usually only bareback with trusted or regular partners although there have been times, too many times, when lust or passion have just taken over and safe sexy has been forgotten. The testing afterwards usually makes you stop and think but by then it's too late. I know the risks and have been extremely lucky not to have caught anything more than a cold.

 

[Seafoamzone]

For oral it's gotta be bare all the time, for anal, well I prefer bare and being bred. I usually only bareback with trusted or regular partners although there have been times, too many times, when lust or passion have just taken over and safe sexy has been forgotten. The testing afterwards usually makes you stop and think but by then it's too late. I know the risks and have been extremely lucky not to have caught anything more than a cold.

Amen to that, Brother!!

 

[Jake1945]

Over the years, I have sucked a lot of cocks and do not think I ever bothered to suck one off with a condom. I was never much into being a bottom and I believe I have only been fucked once bare and that was in the early 70's before AIDS was a big thing. I have no idea how many gallons of cum I have had in my mouth but I have never caught anything from oral.

 

[Sunnyade]

Didn't BB with male partner until we were together for about a year and if I was to seek another partner it would be condoms for anal. Oral has always been without, kind of defeats the purpose for me.

 

[interwebs]

Only ever do bareback but only let guys i know or i know they are clean and if i know these factors i let them stick their cock in me. and sucking cock with a condom on seems dumb

 

[Mqoi]

sucking cock with a condom on seems dumb

And a waste of time and effort.

 

[yukonnights]

I'm much like most who have responded; No point in sucking if there needs to be a condom involved (but I never suck a total stranger...gotta know them and have some connection first) ... I may be a little unusual in regard to anal sex since I only desire that with someone I have grown close enough to know and trust, so no condom for the most part (however, I'm not opposed to a condom for anal if he wants it). I fully agree with what others have said about the erotic satisfaction being so much more intense without the condom! But again, I'm very picky about who I have sex with.

 

[photobuff56]

You can get STD by either anal or oral probably the same rate ones not safer than the other.

 

[Seafoamzone]

Great answers so far, I'm just constantly amazed by the number of guys who advertise for random bareback sex, especially on Craigslist or Grindr.

 

[interwebs]

Great answers so far, I'm just constantly amazed by the number of guys who advertise for random bareback sex, especially on Craigslist or Grindr.

only ever done random bareback once at a sex party it was a spur of a moment thing we were both hot and naked and frotting then at a blink of a eye a fit of passion i was riding his cock lucky he was clean

 

[Mqoi]

... I may be a little unusual in regard to anal sex since I only desire that with someone I have grown close enough to know and trust, so no condom for the most part (however, I'm not opposed to a condom for anal if he wants it). I fully agree with what others have said about the erotic satisfaction being so much more intense without the condom! But again, I'm very picky about who I have sex with.

That's exactly my feelings on the matter. There's only been about a half dozen guys in my lifetime that I would have trusted to go that far. And of those, only one was interested.

I've only ever had sex with a guy once that I didn't know. And that turned into a night of 69.

 

[Seafoamzone]

only ever done random bareback once at a sex party it was a spur of a moment thing we were both hot and naked and frotting then at a blink of a eye a fit of passion i was riding his cock lucky he was clean

I understand the spur of the moment and the fit of passion, that is where I have failed in the past. That's why I always have condoms with me when I'm in that situation to get fucked. I think we can all agree that bare is better, it's a shame that STDs have to ruin the fun.

 

[UnderMyKilt]

He looked alright to me...

For all who say they're "very picky" about who they take bareback, it makes about as much sense as...

https://youtu.be/9RSgYq55G4k

 

[yukonnights]

For all who say they're "very picky" about who they take bareback, it makes about as much sense as...

https://youtu.be/9RSgYq55G4k

I doubt the phrase " very picky" is defined well enough to make much of an assumption. In my case it includes trust....and trust is a hard won thing for me. It takes time enough to become friends....then close friends. Very picky also means I don't have many such experiences, but that's okay as casual flings just don't do anything for me. Hope that makes more sense

 

[Seafoamzone]

Very picky isn't really a definitive term. Visual inspection isn't really reliable either. Knowing someone and trust could certainly help.

 

[interwebs]

most the guys that fucked me have been friends or have been talking to me for while