Goddess!!!

Nice to live by-Lotus Totus

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as Important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.

FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.


SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN. In agreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someonesneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in Your voice.

TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
 
Words to Live by

WORDS TO LIVE BY

Accept that some days you're the pigeon,
and some days you're the statue.

Always keep your words soft and sweet,
just in case you have to eat them.

Always read stuff that will make you look
good if you die in the middle of it.

Drive carefully. It's not only cars that
can be recalled by their maker.

Eat a live toad in the morning and nothing
worse will happen to you for the rest of the day.

If you can't be kind, at least have the
decency to be vague.

If you lend someone $20, and never see
that person again, it was probably worth it.

It may be that your sole purpose in life
is simply to serve as a warning to others.

Never buy a car you can't push.

Never put both feet in your mouth at the
same time, because then you don't
have a leg to stand on.

Nobody cares if you can't dance well.
Just get up and dance.

The early worm gets eaten by the bird,
so sleep late.

When everything's coming your way,
you're in the wrong lane.

Birthdays are good for you; the more
you have, the longer you live.

You may be only one person in the world,
but you may also be the world to one person.

Some mistakes are too much fun
to only make once.

Don't cry because it's over;
smile because it happened.

We could learn a lot from crayons:
some are sharp, some are pretty, some
are dull, some have weird names, and
all are different colors but they all
have to learn to live in the same box.

A truly happy person is one who can
enjoy the scenery on a detour.

Happiness comes through doors you
didn't even know you left open.

Have an awesome day, and know that
someone has thought about you today.
 
PUT THE GLASS DOWN

PUT THE GLASS DOWN


A lecturer was giving a lecture to his students on stress management.

He raised a glass of water and asked the audience, "How heavy do you think

this glass of water is?"

The students' answers ranged from 20g to 500gm.

"It does not matter on the absolute weight. It depends on how long you hold it.

If I hold it for a minute, it is OK.

If I hold it for an hour, I will have an ache in my right arm.

If I hold it for a day, you will have to call an ambulance.

It is the exact same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it
becomes."

"If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, we will not be able to carry on, the burden becoming increasingly heavier."

"What you have to do is to put the glass down, rest for a while before holding it up again."

We have to put down the burden periodically, so that we can be refreshed and are able to carry on.

So before you return home from work tonight, put the burden of work down. Don't carry it back home. You can pick it up tomorrow.

Whatever burdens you are having now on your shoulders, let it down for a moment if you can.

Pick it up again later when you have rested...

Rest and relax.

Life is short, enjoy it!!
 
A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr.. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday."

Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly
remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"

"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you
were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said.

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time.

The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly. "What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked. "The box is gone," he said. "What box? " Mom asked. "There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.

"Mr. Harold Belser" it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack
Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to

the letter His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully
unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved:

"Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."

"The thing he valued most...was...my time."

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.

"Oh, by the way, Janet...thanks for your time!"

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"

And now for the rest of the story...

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you might not get it, but if you keep a positive attitude sooner or later, you will either get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you.

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy.

14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.


To everyone "Thanks for your time"
 
gODDESS YOU ALWAYS POST SUCH THOUGHT PROVOKING
MESSAGES..
I read em and wish i could follow them but im so shallow
and always pick the easy way out..
like always keep your words soft and sweet
cause you may have to eat em... that is one
Im going to try to do.. Im for ever eating crow..

hugs gal
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
 
MindFire said:
gODDESS YOU ALWAYS POST SUCH THOUGHT PROVOKING
MESSAGES..
I read em and wish i could follow them but im so shallow
and always pick the easy way out..
like always keep your words soft and sweet
cause you may have to eat em... that is one
Im going to try to do.. Im for ever eating crow..

hugs gal
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

*hugs* Gal!! oh come on now your not the least bit shallow!!
besides I luvs ya!! so that makes everything ok RIGHT? LOL

and Sister Luvs ya to! she said for me to tell you Hello Mindy!! miss ya! I talked to her today and she sounds like she is doing ok
 
FRENCHIE44T said:
Give us a hug baby

(((((( GODDESS ))))))) :kiss: :kiss:

Oh! well only a HUG? haha I can do that sweetie!

{{{FRENCHIE}}}:kiss: :kiss: throwing in a couple kisses for good measure *wink*
 
GoddessOfSouls said:
Oh! well only a HUG? haha I can do that sweetie!

{{{FRENCHIE}}}:kiss: :kiss: throwing in a couple kisses for good measure *wink*

You can do much more to me if you want to, feel free.:kiss: :kiss: :p :p
 
FRENCHIE44T said:
You can do much more to me if you want to, feel free.:kiss: :kiss: :p :p

LOL ohhh Darlin your just so damn easy!! lol lol lol hummmm well I will keep that in mind ~wicked chuckle~ :kiss:
 
GoddessOfSouls said:
LOL ohhh Darlin your just so damn easy!! lol lol lol hummmm well I will keep that in mind ~wicked chuckle~ :kiss:


GOOD SO WILL I

I knowwhat I was going to ask you, is the version ofyour story you posted any different from the one you sent me??

I've not read the posted version yet. :kiss:
 
FRENCHIE44T said:
GOOD SO WILL I

I knowwhat I was going to ask you, is the version ofyour story you posted any different from the one you sent me??

I've not read the posted version yet. :kiss:

slightly yes, was changed some, but the most of it remains the same, maybe a little easier to read then it was.. LOL

But you can check out the poems! those you havent seen :kiss:
 
GoddessOfSouls said:
slightly yes, was changed some, but the most of it remains the same, maybe a little easier to read then it was.. LOL

But you can check out the poems! those you havent seen :kiss:

OK, I'll get back to you. :p
 
Muahhhhh!

:kiss: ~~Have a Great Weekend *Goddess*:kiss: ~~~~~~~
~~~~~lots of hugssss~~kisses~~licks~&~smochies~~Ling
 
Re: Muahhhhh!

Dumpling said:
:kiss: ~~Have a Great Weekend *Goddess*:kiss: ~~~~~~~
~~~~~lots of hugssss~~kisses~~licks~&~smochies~~Ling

Thanks Ling you sweet thing!

Love those hugs and kisses licks and smochies to!

hope your weekend is a great one, thanks for stopping by :kiss:

Tons of Hugs and Kisses for you
 
Re: Re: Muahhhhh!

GoddessOfSouls said:
Thanks Ling you sweet thing!

Love those hugs and kisses licks and smochies to!

hope your weekend is a great one, thanks for stopping by :kiss:

Tons of Hugs and Kisses for you

Yes, very nice indeed Goddess. :kiss: :kiss: :rose: :rose:
 
Running through....

For a {{{{{{ GoS }}}}}} and <Kiss>...................hehehehe.

Have a great evening and weekend sweety!

'Ling that AV is.......~~drool~~ :p :D :devil:
 
Re: Running through....

69forever said:
For a {{{{{{ GoS }}}}}} and <Kiss>...................hehehehe.

Have a great evening and weekend sweety!

'Ling that AV is.......~~drool~~ :p :D :devil:

LOL NOW I KNOW YOU DIDNT JUST DROP BY HERE TO DROOL OVER LINGS BEHIND NOW DID YOU?

LMAO!

Have a good weekend hun :kiss:
 
Re: Re: Running through....

GoddessOfSouls said:
LOL NOW I KNOW YOU DIDNT JUST DROP BY HERE TO DROOL OVER LINGS BEHIND NOW DID YOU?

LMAO!

Have a good weekend hun :kiss:

You have GOT to go to the Mid-West thread and see the link that Lee put up....it's waaaaaaaaaaaaay too funny!!!!!!!!!!!!

*caution, go potty first* :D :D :D
 
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