God Damn I hate my Ex Husband
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Georgia Girl
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Lets form a club.
I detest the fucking idiot I was brain dead enough to marry some time back myself. The wisest thing I ever did was divorce his sorry ass.
Let see what we can do about trips off the edge of the world for them or maybe to quote a friend regarding my ex "He's such a treasure, where should be bury him?"
Sorry yours is giving you trouble, I understand all too well. I hope it gets better. In dealing with mine I have learned that he can only fight me if I join in, if I refuse to be riled by his nastiness it stops him cold and pisses him off which amuses me, but damn its hard not to respond sometimes.
Dawn
I detest the fucking idiot I was brain dead enough to marry some time back myself. The wisest thing I ever did was divorce his sorry ass.
Let see what we can do about trips off the edge of the world for them or maybe to quote a friend regarding my ex "He's such a treasure, where should be bury him?"
Sorry yours is giving you trouble, I understand all too well. I hope it gets better. In dealing with mine I have learned that he can only fight me if I join in, if I refuse to be riled by his nastiness it stops him cold and pisses him off which amuses me, but damn its hard not to respond sometimes.
Dawn
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Y'know, I understand that he has concerns, but so do I, doesn't he think that I do too? God damnit. And yet he insists on bringing it up, right in front of him, making our son feel more self-conscious than he already is, the goddamn motherfucker.. he can't even keep his comments to himself long enough to discuss them with me privately.. he SUCH A GODDAMN PRICK. Fuck I hate him. I hate him. I hate him.
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Why?
Why do they do this?
My ex stood in front of my son and said, "There's something wrong with him."
His reasoning was that my son doesn't "listen" all the time. Translation: sit like a mannequin until his father wants to interact with him.
Also, telling my daughter at age 2, "If you shit your fucking pants again, I will beat your ass." Nevertheless, potty training was tough and yes, she often comes back from visits constipated.
I imagine there can be no question why he is the EX husband.
Sorry TN....it sucks when we have to protect our chidlren from their own dads. (I use the term losely.)
Why do they do this?
My ex stood in front of my son and said, "There's something wrong with him."
His reasoning was that my son doesn't "listen" all the time. Translation: sit like a mannequin until his father wants to interact with him.
Also, telling my daughter at age 2, "If you shit your fucking pants again, I will beat your ass." Nevertheless, potty training was tough and yes, she often comes back from visits constipated.
I imagine there can be no question why he is the EX husband.
Sorry TN....it sucks when we have to protect our chidlren from their own dads. (I use the term losely.)
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Not gender related
I hate my fucking ex too. I used to wish that she was in a fatal automobile accident (she drives like a moron), but now I'm thinking more along the lines of a terminal social disease.
Fortunately, the kids are grown so I have no contact with her at all, none. And the kids hate her guts too. Absolutely refuse to even talk to her. And in that I take some solice. It appears that there is some justice afterall.
Ishmael
I hate my fucking ex too. I used to wish that she was in a fatal automobile accident (she drives like a moron), but now I'm thinking more along the lines of a terminal social disease.
Fortunately, the kids are grown so I have no contact with her at all, none. And the kids hate her guts too. Absolutely refuse to even talk to her. And in that I take some solice. It appears that there is some justice afterall.
Ishmael
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From my ex I get comments which border on insanity. He tried to force our 4 yr old to call his new wife mommy, needless to say when I found out I hit the fan, if our son chooses to that is his business but it is not something he can or should be forced to do. He makes promises to our son he doesn't keep, feeds him junk food continually and completely removes him from his schedule when he has him, which means when I get him back I have several days of an irritable child who is tired and hungry from not having been fed properly or getting enough rest.
Dawn
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Re: Why?
It's not just 'They', Men.
When going through my divorce I was often confronted on the front step when dropping off my son from visitations. I say confronted becuase it wasn't just my x-wife, it was the whole god damn family.
I had problems getting normal visitations, overnight sleep-overs. They didn't feel he was ready, too young. He was 3 1/2 and 4 at the time.
So, there we are on the front step and his grandmother is shouting at me, saying "Cory isn't ready, he's too young." Right there in front of him.
Of course he wasn't ready, almost everyone close to him had him convinced he wasn't ready.
Selfish fucking bastards.
MissTaken said:
It's not just 'They', Men.
When going through my divorce I was often confronted on the front step when dropping off my son from visitations. I say confronted becuase it wasn't just my x-wife, it was the whole god damn family.
I had problems getting normal visitations, overnight sleep-overs. They didn't feel he was ready, too young. He was 3 1/2 and 4 at the time.
So, there we are on the front step and his grandmother is shouting at me, saying "Cory isn't ready, he's too young." Right there in front of him.
Of course he wasn't ready, almost everyone close to him had him convinced he wasn't ready.
Selfish fucking bastards.
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Parents say things that, If they thought about it could be worded a little more compassionatly. Theres no need to make a kid feel worthless.
I dont hate my x wife as I truly believe shes hooked on prescription drugs and is unable to see reality. I recieved a call from the kids orthodontist, He wanted to know why my x hadnt made any payments on her half of the treatment fee <3800>in 3 years! I had paid my half off 6 mos ago. Now he tells me that he wont remove the appliances until her half is paid. I will work out a payment schedule with him as I dont want to see the kids suffer. I quess we all have issues with the people we once loved
I dont hate my x wife as I truly believe shes hooked on prescription drugs and is unable to see reality. I recieved a call from the kids orthodontist, He wanted to know why my x hadnt made any payments on her half of the treatment fee <3800>in 3 years! I had paid my half off 6 mos ago. Now he tells me that he wont remove the appliances until her half is paid. I will work out a payment schedule with him as I dont want to see the kids suffer. I quess we all have issues with the people we once lovedRe: Re: Re: Why?
I think I have been MissTaken
They way you parsed my post, it looks like I've called you a selfish fucking bastard because you said: "They". Referring to men.
This is not true.
I understand you were not being gender specific. But all the examples above were of how shitty men can be. This of course, is not reality, not typical. I hope it isn't. I can only speak for myself.
MissTaken:
MissTaken said:
I think I have been MissTaken
They way you parsed my post, it looks like I've called you a selfish fucking bastard because you said: "They". Referring to men.
This is not true.
I understand you were not being gender specific. But all the examples above were of how shitty men can be. This of course, is not reality, not typical. I hope it isn't. I can only speak for myself.
MissTaken:
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Well, Zamdrist...
neither of us should feel like we have egg on our face. Little misunderstandings happen frequently.
*smiles warmly*
No problem....
And I didn't mean to be as curt as I may have seemed. A rather fandangled crappy ass day is happening here!
Thanks!
neither of us should feel like we have egg on our face. Little misunderstandings happen frequently.
*smiles warmly*
No problem....
And I didn't mean to be as curt as I may have seemed. A rather fandangled crappy ass day is happening here!
Thanks!
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thank you all.. I was very upset
really, sobbing uncontrollably to be exact. But I talked it through and found a way to deal with it.
I'm still very uncomfortable with the situation, but there's reallly nothing I can do about it, right?
So, let's move on...... please.
and thank you all for your concern.
really, sobbing uncontrollably to be exact. But I talked it through and found a way to deal with it.
I'm still very uncomfortable with the situation, but there's reallly nothing I can do about it, right?
So, let's move on...... please.
and thank you all for your concern.
teresafannin
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HI Vixen, I know all about shitty exes. I am so sorry yours is being such a bastard. Hug your son from me & I hope you have a good weekend. Teresa
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